Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

FAQ #31 – Do your wear perfume in session?

No and you shouldn’t either.

I seldom wear perfume outside the Dungeon and I never wear it in session.  There are two primary reasons for that:  1. I believe in the power of scent and because of that I want you to smell Me – not a chemical.  2.  Perfumes and colognes transfer and I don’t want My clients going home smelling of perfume for obvious reasons.

It is greatly appreciated if you don’t wear scents either.  I like to get close to My submissives – invading your personal space. Your cologne might smell absolutely lovely but I don’t want it to transfer to onto Me so that I (and others) end up smelling it all day.  So, please do us all a favor and skip the cologne and strong aftershave on the day you go to see your Domme.  I promise to do the same.

Image by andreas N from Pixabay

Countess Lynn returns to the Sissy Room.

**One day only – May 30th**

Our resident glamor queen, TS Countess Lynn will be back in Atlanta and available for double sessions May 30th.

Countess Lynn switches so she can be submissive or Dominant depending on what the situation calls for. She is accomplished at cross-dressing, walking in heels and all thing girly and slutty so this is your chance to be trained by an expert.  Makeup, outfits and heels are available for your training.   Photo shoots are also possible.

Our mutual interests include:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
  • Feminization – forced or consensual from pantying to makeup and lingerie and more
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Nipple torture
  • Sissy slut training
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Sessions are available 2pm to 8pm.  An application and a deposit will be necessary to book.  Tribute for these special double sessions is $400 per hour so book while you can.

 

 

New Sardax portrait comission.

As a special birthday present a long time DC sub comissioned a portrait from the world famous FemDom artist, Sardax.  His idea was to capture some of our play and since he is a RHT stocking fetishist it was only natural for My feet to be covered only in stockings.  Breath play and CBT are also among our favorite activities and we have literally spent hours over the past few years in a very similar position as the one depicted.  It will have a special place in My heart and in My home.

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The art of Sardax:

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #10

Installment #10 – Mistress Ayn is a “cat person”

Before anyone, especially Mistress Ayn, is offended by the title of this installment, let me explain.  A wise Mistress explained to me that “a cat often plays with what it has captured before devouring it.”  When realizing that Mistress Ayn has that same practice when training me, i smiled acknowledging that Mistress Ayn is a “cat person,” both in Her behavior as my Mistress and in real life (i know, i was ordered to clean out the cat litter box as Her slave).  There are many examples of how Mistress Ayn “plays with me as Her captive slave.”

Recently, Mistress Ayn ordered me to perform three days of ball torture (rubbing with my hands, rubbing with ice, and hard slapping) while still in chastity after weeks of denial in preparation for an eventual orgasm.

Occasionally Mistress Ayn permits me to be released from Her cage for successive days.  She then orders me to tease and deny Her cock each day for longer periods of time but never permitted to orgasm as the tension builds.

When preparing for another weekend of slave training at the FemDom Mansion, Mistress Ayn would only provide vague references about what was in store for my weekend of slave training.  Enough to get me thinking and worried, but never enough to let me know what actually might happen.

Mistress Ayn has suggested in an email that i may be allowed to orgasm on an undetermined day in the near future with tasks to perform until then, but i never really know if an orgasm will actually occur or She will take it away from me.

There is a pattern of toying with me as Her slave, like a cat that toys with its captured prey before devouring it.  Mistress Ayn is definitely a “cat person.”

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #9

Installment #9 – Breaking down “hard limits”

As Mistress Ayn’s chastity slave i am finding that many of my so-called “hard limits” are dropping off that list.  Before becoming Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy, i passionately resisted many things:

  1. Gag – with a quick reflex against objects in my mouth,
  2. Blindfold – wanting to see what was going on in a session,
  3. Piercing – afraid of blood being drawn during a session and the pain associated with piercings,
  4. Marks from whipping – again afraid of drawn blood, a worry over marks being seen by others in my vanilla life, and the potential for intense pain,
  5. Anal play – uncomfortable with any activity in my ass and fearful of the pain involved,
  6. Foot worship – disinterested in touching anyone’s feet or having my own touched,
  7. Feminization – never considered myself to pass as a woman – which is how i viewed this play,
  8. No safe words – always needing a way out of the play, and

Collectively all of these hard limits have disappeared and their presence are a mainstay in my current slave training.

Why? There appears to be two primary reasons.

Most importantly, i am now being trained by a Mistress whom i completely trust.  Mistress Ayn, and other Mistresses i serve, know how to introduce these activities into a session without causing me harm or raising unnecessary fears.  They are presented sanely and safely but still with intensity.  Mistress Ayn also has made it clear that these activities bring pleasure to Her and Her friends and that is my ultimate goal as a submissive.  Oddly, i now crave many of these activities in a session since they are amazing experiences in my journey as Mistress Ayn’s chaste slaveboy.

Secondly, i am learning how to give up control.  Rather than orchestrating a session by imposing these hard limits, i am simply asking for three things: to be controlled, humiliated and experience pain.  This tri-fold desire runs counter to many of my former hard limits.  By giving up the control in a session and more and more in my life, i am accepting, even embracing, new experiences, such as each of these so-called hard limits on the list.

A lesson learned, at the hands of a skilled Mistress whom i trust completely, is a wonderful lesson learned.

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