Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Outstanding FemDom Content

Mistress Ayn at the House of SinnWhether you prefer in person meetings or online training, everyone can appreciate great content and indulge in clips/videos from time to time.  Since I have been visiting the House of Sinn, I have definitely upped My game. The film slaves there are top notch.

Recently I went with one of My Own collared boys and we made some real treasures together.  The first of those is out and it’s a bit different from My usual fare.  Check it out here – Getting off while I tease and torment you.

Some of My new favorites:

Tickle Party – 8 hand tickling – so much fun

Training My first human puppy – My first puppy play video

Out of chastity for ball busting – a double with Ezada Sinn

View the entire collection here – Clips Store

Clips are a way to stay connected with Me and support My work, so go binge on some – it’s the best way to get your Ayn fix.

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Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive

Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive.  This year is your year to make some changes and get out of your rut.  I suggest you embrace your submissive/feminine side and see just how good a submissive you can be.  Submission may just set you free.

If you have gotten out of the habit of seeing a Domme in real life, I can help with that.  Let’s start with some distance training and then I will send you to a reputable Domme I trust – if I can’t see you Myself.

If you have gotten into an indulgent cycle with anything from food to masturbation, I can help with that too.  Dommie knows best and I can create a task or chastity program that can get you on the right track – or else.

Has a lack of Female leadership left you feeling out of sorts?  Then submit, serve, learn and be tested – and yes, we can do much of this from a distance.

So let 2024 be the year of the submissive.  Contact Me direct about any questions or logistics – ayn@mistressayn.com.  Or do some investigating here.

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An open letter about chastity

by Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy

Five years ago, in 2018, i reached out to Mistress Ayn, whom i had served only a few times in session as a submissive, after many decades of submitting to other professional Mistresses, and asked if She would consider being my Keyholder and placing me in chastity.  In retrospect, i honestly really did not fully understand what i was asking of Her or the multiple dimensions or aspects of chastity, but thankfully She was knowledgeable, experienced, and willing.

For Her services, which have far exceeded my expectations and fantasies, She explained that there would be a monthly fee (a financial aspect of chastity), not exorbitant but fair given Her time commitment.  This was the first reality check of being a chaste slaveboy to Mistress Ayn – i needed to commit to Her demand of a reasonable financial commitment.

Then, She explained that there was no set “end time” or regular schedule for chastity with Her and Her subs (beginning the psychological aspect of chastity).  For Mistress Ayn, chastity was “indefinite.”  No, i had no real idea of what this meant. But quickly learned that there was no “you are in chastity for so many days or weeks, and then get a release to orgasm.” But i agreed to that psychologically controlling condition as well.

Yes, there is a physical/sexual element of chastity, too.  i no longer can seek private times and freely stroke my cock and experience the exceptionally powerful and satisfying orgasms – as i vaguely recall them to be.  No, Mistress Ayn is now in control of my cock. Now, it is Her cock, and She decides when, where, and, importantly, how i might experience any sort of pleasure associated with Her cock. These opportunities have become fewer and less satisfying as determined by Mistress Ayn, yet my enjoyment of serving Mistress Ayn in this way has increased significantly.

i began to understand that Mistress Ayn was indeed, as She said, the Queen of Long-term Relationships. Thankfully, this is a wonderful thing, since She is completely unpredictable, amazingly creative, and very caring, and i never want O/our relationship and all its different aspects to end.  So, five years later, there seems to be no end in sight as determined by the calendar and i am delighted.

In addition, chastity has affected other relationships in my life (the social aspect of chastity).  i am less focused on myself and more on others – mostly on other Women whom i meet, but not having a sexual or intimate relationship with Them.  Chastity enables me to focus on other ways to please Women than sexually – by listening better to Them, by being more sensitive to Their needs and wants, by being present to Them as They share Their lives with me, and so on.

Chastity has made me a better submissive but also a better male and person.  It has taken away the distraction of selfish pleasure and i have become a person who is better at relationships, at just being a better human to other humans.

Five years is not a mark on a calendar indicating an end to an era or task, but simply a footnote of how long i have been loyal to Mistress Ayn, as my Keyholder, and am learning how to be a better person.  Thus, there is no obsession with “achieving an end date” but rather an intense desire to continue to become even better as a person to Mistress Ayn, to other Mistresses She allows me to serve, and to others outside my submissive life as well.

Mistress Ayn’s chastity heyholding programs

Returning to The House of Sinn

Once again I will be visiting My Friend, Ezada Sinn at The House of Sinn.  The last visit was a great combination of filming and socializing and more is on the plate for this visit because two additional Ladies will be visiting while I am there.  I love the opportunity to film with HOS’s well trained chattel so if you have a request or want to commission a custom, this is your chance.  Ezada usually doesn’t entertain custom requests but if you have something that is not too scripted, She might say yes . . .   Plus I will be filming solo with Her slaves for one day.

The trip is planned for mid November, so get your requests in now.

London FemDom Ball 2023

 

 

This is an event I have been wanting to attend for years.  It has all the elements I adore:  glamor, elegance, powerful women and submissive men, serving us on a grand scale.  Madame Caramel’s FemDom Ball is a high protocol event like no other.  With over 130 dominant women attended by roughly 100 submissives – all adhering to a very strict dress code – it was a treat for the eye and the soul.  Mingling with women from all over the globe showing off their finery while sipping champagne and nibbling on canapes is something most only dream about.  My sub (slaveboy jaime) was super nervous, for good reason.  All subs attending had to stand behind us hooded and only moving when they were called into service.  You can see from the photo, it was a stunning sight.

My adventure actually started the day before at the Mistress Tea – also orchestrated by Madame Caramel.  The venue was steeped in old world elegance and the magnificent ladies dressed to impress turned heads on the street.  Inside, the comradery was real.  With no subs underfoot, we were well served by a trained staff and left to unfettered conversation while partaking a traditional English high tea service.

On the night of the ball, I was fortunate enough to be invited to sit at the Matriarch’s table and get a front row seat for the entertainment, raffle and more. Post ball there was an optional play party that lasted well into the night.  I found space to do a little CBT, breath play and whipping to reward My slaveboy for a night of well executed servitude.  To anyone who has considered attending this event, all I can say is “Do it!’.

But that’s not all I did in London.  After a day of rest, I moved slaveboy and Myself to London Dungeon Suites for a couple of days of BDSM play in a proper space.  Spoiler alert:  he survived – barely.  There are a few pics on Twitter of our play with the amazing Lady Scarlett.

A word about Madame Caramel:  I have observed and communicated with this Lady online for many years.  We were finally able to meet earlier this year at the FemDom Summit and I had an instant affinity for her.  There are few in the community that are as tireless at promoting and fostering the positive image of FemDom.  Her energy is boundless, her organization skills unmatched and she does it all with a smile that welcomes all.  

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