Mistress Ayn

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The softer side of domination – sissification.

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When most people think of BDSM or a Dominatrix, the image of whips and chains comes to mind. However, not all forms of domination require pain or the harsher aspects of submission.    Sissification and transformations are examples of such scenarios.  These scenes can go by many names:  slut training, sissification, forced feminization, transformations – just to name a few.  They do not have to involve bondage, pain or even humiliation.  Some subs are willing participants in their transformation.  They desire to be rid of their male persona, even if only for the short duration of a session.  Others want to be “forced” to let their male ego go and usually find the humiliation of the experience exciting.  There are as many shades to sissification as there are in the color gray.  To each his own.

One sub summed up his experience in a review on The Erotic Review.  Here are some excerpts from the “Juicy Details”:

“Mistress Ayn shows her softer side by initiating and following through with my sissy transformation. From the moment I walked in the door Mistress Ayn began the transformation by stripping me of all male clothing. As I kneeled before Mistress Ayn and was allowed to worship her, she began to explain that I was no longer in the position to make decisions and I was now her property to do with as she desired. She sent chills through my body  . . . “

“The session gravitated to the medical room where I was strapped down to an examination table. This is when I first heard the sound of her skin thin rubber gloves. She whispered to me that I soon will understand what will definitely always happen when I hear the sound of her gloves . . .”

“Back to the examination table I went for make up which Mistress applied with care. While all of this was going on Mistress Ayn continued to tease me with the suggestions of how I was going to make a pretty girl who would soon be sucking cock and having their sissy ass filled. She meant it too . . . “

“The session moved in to the dungeon where I was dressed in beautiful stockings, garter belt, a silky top, a wig and high heels. I then modeled and walked around for Mistress Ayn while she continued to suggest that a slut like me needed to be put to good use and of course it was too late for me to decide otherwise. There was a little light spanking as a tease; however, Mistress Ayn did this just so I was sure who was in charge. She listened to my voice and body and made me feel safe and thoroughly aroused!”

“I lost track of time before too long and my head was spinning until the next day from the intensity and carefully orchestrated sissy session that Mistress Ayn provided. I am very afraid of any pain and Mistress Ayn took very good care of me. We have had a second 4 hour session and I give 100 Percent trust to Mistress Ayn that she will and has taken exceptional care of me. The professionalism that Mistress Ayn demonstrates is what I have been looking for. Our journey will continue with some shopping and night club outings and . . . “

“Mistress Ayn is leading me down the safe path to happiness with her care, professionalism and understanding. She is a dream come true. I love what she does for me.” –  sissy crissy

For the full review, visit TER – membership required.

In My experience, subs who enjoy and focus on sissification, typically are not into much, if any, pain.  There are exceptions to that, of course, but generally speaking, sissies love the tease, tactile sensations and visuals.  Activities like tease and denial, strap on worship/training, chastity and other forms of sensual domination are more up their alley.  So it you have been fantasizing about a sissy session, but were afraid, don’t be.  Just communicate your desires to your dominant and then relax and let it happen.  Getting in touch with your feminine side can be a good thing.

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Taking on Charlotte, NC – April 7th – 9th, 2015

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Get ready for some serious submission, Charlotte – as Atlanta’s Seriously Alpha Female once again calls your city My Own.  I’m ready to take you on again and use you to My heart’s content.  I will be sissifying the sissy sluts, beating the pain piggies and demanding your obedience and worship.   A full array of toys and implements will be available including the Eros Tek and the Venus 2000.

I will be in Charlotte starting the 7th, but will be filming with Syren Productions most of the day.  so the only availability on the 7th is in the evening.  Interested in filming with Me?  Email Me if you think you can handle it.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Role play and fantasy sessions – from secretary/boss type scenarios to cuckold fantasy
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My Charlotte schedule usually fills fast so book now to ensure an audience at My feet.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit of $100 will be required.

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Foot Lust – A treat for foot fetishists

Are you a foot fetishist? Do you stare at women’s feet and long to see them without their shoes? Do you fantasize about touching, smelling, even kissing and licking feet?  If the answer is “YES”, then you have a lust for feet and foot lust is for you.

In this POV clip I tease you about staring at My feet and legs all day, then I give you what you have been wanting – almost. Slowly I take one black pump off and let it dangle for a bit before I remove it and give you a glimpse of My perfect stocking encased foot. I hold the foot to your nose and let you inhale its divine fragrance. Eventually I teasingly take off one stocking and tell you to imagine how it would feel to have My feet dominate your cock – pressing it into the carpet until you begged to stop or continue.  The ultimate tease and denial POV for the foot fetishist.

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“It must have been your Venus 2000 . . .” Session recap from a long term sub.

Mistress Ayn floggingI love recaps of sessions provided by subs, especially those that are articulate.  They provide Me with the details as the sub saw, felt, experienced it – from the other side, if you will. Subz is particularly diligent with his recaps and sometimes I find it appropriate to share his experiences with others.  (With his permission of course.)  Below is a recap of his most recent session.

“Another recap. A truly great session with the best of Mistresses…

It’s been a while since i have felt the full stroke of Your flogger on my back and i’d forgotten the impact You can administer with it. Alternating with Your soft touch, i slipped quickly into subspace and could have hung there all day although my back wouldn’t have held up much longer. You so rightly knew turning me to the other side would be more fun for You and once clamped down in the stock, helplessly exposed, i found myself wishing for a little more flogging instead. Well as they say, ‘watch out what you wish for’, Your flogging arrived again but it was not on my back as wished for and there was nothing i could do but watch –  totally at Your mercy! When the ball gag appeared – Hello! i trembled and knew the Piper was about to extract Her pay . . . there is usually a reason for the gag, things are going up a notch. Thankfully the stock did move a little or my parts may have stretched too far in their failed attempt to retreat. Always the professional, knowing how to bring Your sub so close to the edge, which brings to mind the unbelievable feeling when You applied ‘first aid’ to Your throbbing tenderized toy in the stock, . . . a most intense mix of pleasure with pain.

The scene then shifted to the unexpected yet again, a new realm, leaving me with no idea where it might lead but so deep in subspace i could only obey.  A hood, ear phones, blindfold, and immobilized on the rack for re-programming? The tape was really excellent, taking me deeper still with Your seducing voice, . . . captivated i became unaware of what was going on with the rest of my body. Until slowly You returned that awareness, with what i’ll never know, but random teasing seemed to be connect exactly with sounds and i let myself go into the experience totally. It must have been Your V2000 that finally caused such an explosion which left me completely drained. Don’t remember much after that but evidently i made it home.”

It’s amazing sometimes what the most memorable moments of a session were to the sub – or what parts he doesn’t remember at all.   I love playing with subz.  There is a trust between us that only comes from long term play.  His recaps always put a smile on My face and keep Me anticipating the next time I will have him at My mercy.

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Male Chastity – the great equalizer

Most of you know that I love chastity.  Locking unruly boys away and holding on to the key is a great way to get whatever I want from a man.  After all, everyone knows you are led around by your dicks anyway, so I might as well do it the right way and make it pay.

The possibilities of chastity are almost endless.  If a sub is lazy, chastity is a great motivator.  If a sub spends too much energy mastrubating, chastity will free up more time for him to serve his Mistress. If a boi needs an attitude adjustment, there is nothing like being violated while your cock is in a cage to help you get your head on straight.  Chastity has a way of not only leveling the playing field, but it can totally turn the tables.  That is why it puts such a big smile on My face.  Look at Me in the clips below.  Don’t I look happy?

Are you a fan of chastity?  A fan of Me?  Then look for My new fan site coming soon. It will have all this great chasity content and much, much more for one low monthly tribute.  Imagine . . .  all My videos, photo sets, recordings and writings in one special place – updated weekly – just for fans like you.  In the meantime, you can get your chastity fantasy on by viewing the content below.

 


Chastity Lock Down – POV video

Get ready to be locked down.  I don’t tolerate laziness in slaves and one of the best remedies for lack of productivity is chastity.   I explain exactly what it’s going to be like when I place My bird cage chastity device on you.  The frustration.  The sleepless nights.  The teasing you will endure.  The milkings you will submit to.  How I love to hear you beg and all the extra time you are going to have to make sure you please Me.  Don’t worry, I give you one last chance to drain that cock before the device goes on, but is has to be done My way.  Are you ready?

 

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The Secretary is now the Boss

Chastity is also a great basis for fantasy role play.  This series was inspired by a Washington, D.C. sub.  In reality our fantasy role play has been going on for almost 2 years.  There have been lots of twists, turn and treachery.  Who knows how it will end.  This 3 part series lines out the basis for how it all started.  Watch Me turn the tables on My misogynist boss.  I start by drugging him, locking him away in My basement and then installing a chastity device.  He is teased and taunted into giving up all his control.  Of course I end up owning the company.

 

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 Click on the image to purchase all the episodes at a great price on NiteFlirt.


Putting you in chastity.

Listen to My sultry voice tell you what life with Me is going to be like . . . once I put you in chastity.

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Demystifying the appeal of 50 Shades – Hint: It has nothing to do with BDSM

MistressAynDec2014--7eI know we are all tired of the hype, reviews and general trashing of 50 Shades of Grey. Personally I never thought I would chime in on the subject.  I didn’t see the movie and I was only able to read about half of the book before giving up on there being anything meaningful or entertaining about BDSM in the novel.  After about 200 pages there had only been one spanking scene and a tour of Grey’s dungeon – hardly what I would call a book about BDSM.

Now that the movie is out, once again My news feed is inundated with articles about it – most of which I dismiss and don’t even skim, but today one caught My attention.  It was titled:  “Forget the BDSM in 50 Shades – It’s all about the money.”  After just a cursory look at the article I could see that it had finally put into words what had been worrying around in the back of My mind, but for some reason I had been unable to articulate.  This is the quote that caught My eye:  “This fetishization of wealth, along with Grey’s whiteness and good looks, also seems to be the only thing that excuses his obsessive, stalkerish behavior throughout . . . Just ask yourself a simple question: Would a story about a poor but psychologically controlling farmer who likes tying up girlfriends and whipping them in a barn have had the impact on our nation’s consciousness that Fifty Shades has?”  Bingo!  This book isn’t about BDSM.  It’s about the fantasy of being “rescued” and living the “good life” . . . about flying in private jets and drinking $500 bottles of wine.  Submitting to a little abuse or swallowing your dignity is just the price for entry.

BDSM was just a gimmick to sell what has been sold to women for ages -your security and success comes in the form of a man.  And I guess if that is what women want to believe, these types of “romance” books will stay on the bestseller list.  (That is a topic far beyond My expertise and pay grade so I will not expound further.)  The book(s) weren’t meant to edify or destroy BDSM.  They were meant to entertain and make money – and that has been done quite successfully.

As much as I wish it were true, I doubt very seriously that after reading the book, many women tapped their partners and said, “wanna tie me up and spank me tonight?” or “want me to tie you up and spank you?”  (For those few that did, kudos to you.)  I just hope they are not looking at their partner and finding them lacking – longing for their prince charming.  Hopefully it’s just a bit of escapism, but I have always thought that these types of romance novels perpetuated disillusionment and set a bar for real men that is impossible to attain.  So in the end, I don’t think this book has set back BDSM.  I don’t really think it has set back anything – it’s just reinforced the status quo.

 

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Returning to the Nation’s Capitol – March 3rd-5th

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I know you boys have missed Me, so I won’t keep you waiting any longer.  Your “Seriously Alpha Female” is returning to continue your training starting March 3rd.  I will be in town for 3 days only, so let’s make it count.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  Once again, I will be hosting in a 750 square foot suite in an upscale hotel in the Pentagon City area, convenient to the Blue and Yellow lines of the Metro.  The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays.  Last visit I was very imaginative at putting all the space to good use – including the huge shower.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium. (It’s currently over 2/3 booked.)  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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A natural progression – one subs story

MistressAynDec2014--36e2 Learning your place in the D/s relationship is a journey.  Some subs take it seriously.  Others don’t.  The ones that get the most from their time with a chosen Domme are the subs that can “let go”.  After all, the power exchange is what true D/s is all about.  My gls (that’s the name I gave him and what it stands for will remain a secret between us) wrote a wonderful open letter about topping from the bottom several months ago and as he has continued to grow he wants to continue to share his epiphanies with others. Below is his follow up to “Topping from the Bottom”.  

 

i have been mulling my thoughts over since i wrote “Topping from the Bottom,” which was part of an unrequested apology to Mistress Ayn for my unwillingness to truly accept Her Power over me, and to fully accept my submission to Her.

It was obvious to me that i had a lot more to learn, and understand about my obligations to Her, as well as understand both what She means to me, and what Her responsibilities are to me as my Mistress.

No matter when, there will be a time when we as subs finally realize and understand our place in the presence of Our/our Dominatrix. Many of us i believe, never get to understand what that really means. i believe that there are a lot of reasons for that.

Some subs initially date/partner/marry bossy women because they have a need to serve, but are still lost and confused with regard to Who they are really searching for.

Some subs, seek out prosti-dommes whose inexperience and greed can leave subs more confused and  feeling worse about themselves than ever before. Thanks to the internet all subs now have the opportunity to find competent Professionals but not every Domme is suited to every sub, chemistry is still involved, and that makes the search for one’s Domme so much harder and the successful match up so much sweeter.

We have all read the research about how many escorts have regular clients who just want to talk before and after a “meeting.” There is a reason for this i imagine and it is that those clients have no one to just talk to who has no agenda to pursue, it is a business transaction.

It is not so simple for subs, we need Someone to talk to, to tell our deepest darkest secrets to, and then we want Them to accept us for who we are, and take us on a trip, that we have only ever been able to take in our fantasies. As they take us there They will reassure us on Our/our journey, telling and showing us that it is ok to go to that place, and afterwards they will bring us back safely. A Great Domme knows how to do this, and  understands the value and importance of aftercare. Aftercare is time that the sub bonds with them and leaves the session feeling safe and secure.

i fought aftercare. It was too hard to accept what had gone on in session, my fantasies realized were too powerful for me to comprehend. When a fantasy remains a fantasy anyone can push that back into the “i really didn’t mean it” part of one’s brain. Once a Domme makes your fantasy real, there is no putting that fantasy back in the bottle – you are now facing a new reality that can be scary, disturbing and for many subs simply overwhelming, because someone else now knows.

The checklist that you complete before you see a Domme makes one “address and confess” these desires and fantasies and begin the sharing with another person. This is a soul-searching leap of faith and if the sub has found the wrong Domme things can go wrong fast, because the sub has now shared the “big secret” with Someone else, Someone in a  position of power, and if the sub doesn’t have the feeling of being 100% safe, they can retreat and struggle with being a submissive.

This is important to understand  because there is an enormous difference between “being submissive,” and “being a submissive.”

What happens next?  Well in my case i have just given up trying to understand what happens next because the Domme/sub relationship has now moved to a higher level.

We all know the Hollywood stars who fly to see their psychiatrist, well the same thing happens when you have let go and given yourself to your special Mistress. There is only one true Mistress for you and this S/d relationship has changed because now when You/you both session, you are letting yourself be used to feed Your Mistress’s desire. I have now glimpsed this, had it whispered in my ear and understand the only thing i need to know is that i am now a player in a far greater scene, a scene that gives Her pleasure and meets Her needs. my pleasure will come from servitude, obedience and feeding Her needs and desires.

This brings us back to the checklist that you, the sub, filled out so many sessions ago. Now that you have truly passed yourself over to your Mistress , you have given Her Carte Blanche to fulfill Her needs. This doesn’t mean that if you stated no marks, that you will now return home striped like a Zebra, but if you were a greedy slut and checked off every box a fantasy review may be in order.

If you checked of you had a fantasy for ‘forced bi’ and every time your Mistress had ridden you or taken your mouth,  She had whispered in your ear, “Would you suck a real one for me, or I want to take you to a gay club and make you service some boys, would you do that for me?” think carefully about the answer you checked off long ago.

If something feeds Your Dominatrix’s hunger, and you truly want to go there,  you need to understand the ramifications of crossing over that bridge with Her. you are stepping into what i view as the highest level of a truly submissive relationship where the Domme uses you exclusively for Her pleasure.

It has taken me a long time  and nearly spoiled a wonderful relationship with my Mistress while i fumbled and bumbled along , but now i have emotionally crossed that bridge with Her guidance, and trust that Her affection will lead me safely on the other side.

i hope that you all can find your bridge, cross it safely with your Mistress, and enjoy the other side.

Mistress Ayn’s gls.

 

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Charlotte, NC – Get ready to submit. Visiting Feb 3rd – 5th.

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Once again it’s time for Charlotte to kneel before a higher power or prepare to go under My boot.  On February 3rd I will be returning to enjoy the spoils of war and bask in your servitude.  I am looking forward to seeing many of the subs I conquered on My last visit as well as training some new initiates.  A full array of toys and implements will be available including the Eros Tek and the Venus 2000.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship (Including My Jimmy Choo pumps)
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  Last visit My schedule filled completely so book now to ensure an audience at My feet.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a small deposit will be required.

Click here to Complete an Application

Read My Reviews

Specific information about how to contact Me

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Non-Stop Strap on Fun

 

 

It’s no secret that the Ladies of Atlanta Dungeon and I thoroughly enjoy using the inferior male for Our pleasure.  But were you aware just how much we enjoy it?  Using their little sissy holes to satisfy Our strapons is one way we like to use men – and boy, do we have fun with the role reversal.  Gang bangs, spit roasts, chastity fucks, you name it, We’ve filmed it.  So you can get a taste of the action, I have put together a compilation of  some of the best strapon scenes from Our 2014 clips.  This is almost 20 minutes of non-stop strap on entertainment – hence the name “Non-Stop Strap on Fun”.  Below is a preview.  The full clip can be purchased at My clips store.  Hope you enjoy it as much as We did.

 

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