Mistress Ayn

Atlanta Dominatrix

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FAQ #16 – How do I get to know you better before we session?

One of the best ways to get a feel for what it is like to session with Me is to read My many reviews.  Reading reviews allows you to live a session vicariously through another subs eyes.  your interests may not always mesh perfectly, but with enough reading, you should be able to determine if we are compatible.

If you want to take things to the next level, talk to Me.  I have a NiteFlirt line set up just for casual conversation so we can discuss your kinks, experiences, limits, etc.  If you want to get a feel for what it’s like to actually be under My control, call one of My session lines and let’s do a phone session.  It’s often a challenge to randomly find Me on NiteFlirt, so feel free to email Me to set a specific date/time to talk.  If you don’t want to set up a NiteFlirt account, ask Me about arranging a direct call.

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For the love of sissies. New review by a sissy slut.

Mistress Ayn with sissyIt’s no secret that I love sissies.  They can be turned into the most delightful and greedy little sluts – eager to debase themselves just for My amusement.  Sissies, however, require a little bit of extra care to cultivate.  They are not usually into pain for pain’s sake and they need to feel a true connection with their Domme in order to serve at their best.  A teasing trail of a fingernail down their chest works better than a face slap at getting their attention and whispering all the degrading things I am going to do to them will have them begging for what they can barely fathom.  They do love to please, so with the right coaxing, they can truly be a Mistress’ s delight.

I recently had the opportunity to start the training of an un-collared sissy.  he had been without a Mistress for some time, so he was putty in My hands.  Below are some excerpts from his review of our first session as it appeared on Max Fisch:

“Mistress Ayn is magnificent, spectacular, beautiful, and in complete charge . . . 

Her touch is electrifying! i literally shook and trembled while bound to Her St. Andrew’s Cross as Her fingertips and fingernails traced over my body! Wherever She desired! i was still in my chastity device i wore there for Her. She delighted in the fact that i was oozing precum almost non-stop and had me lick up every drop from Her fingers! . . . 

She increased the intensity, watching and listening to me. She knew! i was loving every second. Then She got the anal probe! Inserted and wired it! She laughed with delight and ran Her fingers over me as i screamed how much i was loving it! i was oozing precum again and She fed it to me! . . . 

And then i saw it! She walked around in front of me, and showed me Her beautiful cock! A cock i would somehow manage to deep throat! i lustfully sucked Her cock until She was satisfied. Then She moved behind me. my legs spread and bound, fully exposed for Her. She lubed me and Her cock, pressed the tip up against me and asked me if i was ready for Her . . .” 

To read the full review, visit Max Fisch.

So is there a sissy waiting to be unleashed in you?

Fall Travel Dates Announced

Mistress Ayn - Atlanta FemDomCharlotte, North Carolina – November 4th -6th

For the month of November, I will be staying close to home and taking the Dungeon to Charlotte.  So many of you in the Carolinas trek down to Atlanta to see Me, so I thought I would return the favor before the holidays and come to you.  I will be hosting in a downtown hotel and bringing a car full of toys, including the Venus 2000.


Washington, DC – December 2nd-4th

I will be making My last stop of the year in one of My favorite cities – Washington, DC.  This time I will be hosting in a 750 square foot luxury suite, so there will be plenty of room for domestic role play and all sorts of fetish fun.


In both cities I will be available for sessions from 11am until 9pm.  An application is required for all new subs.  Dinner and shopping dates are also available for subs that are known to Me.  Dates are already being booked in both venues, so contact Me now to secure your place at My feet.


Another great review for the Cougar and Her kitten.

Ayn and caroline 3Cougar and kitten sessions are like no other.  They are full of fantasy fulfillment and sexy fun.  Here is an excerpt from a recent review that appeared on The Erotic Review:

“As other reviews have said, Mistress Ayn is as amazing in person as the photos on her web site suggest, but beyond her physical beauty, her sensual presence is extraordinary. Caroline also has an amazing presence and a terrific body. When I had to help undress her and put cuffs on her, I was trembling from nervousness and excitement . . .”

“I was inches from Caroline and we were both trying to communicate with each other via our eyes and lips. In hindsight, my only regret from the session was that I didn’t follow-up on Caroline’s signals and kiss her – I knew from prior reviews that she was trying to bait me and we would be disciplined for kissing without Mistress’ permission, so I decided not to take the bait. As I think back lustfully on the session, the kiss probably would have been worth the punishment.”

“She had Caroline bound onto a spanking bench with me on my knees facing Caroline (basically our noses were almost touching), she then spanked Caroline and then walked around to pinch my nipples and told me to do to Caroline exactly what she was doing to me; as she pinched harder, I needed to pinch harder. This was an amazing turn on and I felt privileged to be able to fondle the amazing Caroline’s firm breasts and nipples. Mistress then decided it was time for Caroline to have her ass plugged, so she had me stand behind Caroline and showed me how to properly spank her, and then had me spread her butt cheeks while she applied lube and then inserted a small butt plug. Standing behind Caroline, seeing her immaculately shaved pussy and rosebud was incredibly arousing and one of many images of the session that are firmly implanted in my mind.”

“Mistress Ayn then strapped on a large dildo, which she had Caroline (who had now returned to kneeling right in front of me) suck on to get it moist. Watching Caroline’s lips form a perfect O as she lovingly deep-throated the long strap-on is another image I will treasure. I could have watched Caroline suck on the dildo for a lot longer, but Mistress had other plans for it . . .”

To read all the Juicy Details of this review, visit TER.  Log in required.

To make your own special memories and live out your fantasies, book a Cougar and kitten session now.  Application required.

Scent training in BDSM slave training

Mistress Ayn's pantiesRecently a sub emailed Me the following question: If you reward an erection with a strong nipple pinch, soon a nipple pinch will cause an erection for him whenever you want.  Does this work?  My answer was, “possibly depending on the sub and other factors”.  What is described here is conditioning and anchoring.  Eventually the sub should associate the two events interchangeably – so it is possible to get a Pavlovian response.

This question started Me thinking about other types of associations and training.  It is said that scent is actually the strongest sense for recall, so it is only natural that scent training can be a powerful tool in slave training.  Since each human has their own slightly unique scent, it makes for some interesting possibilities.  Because of this, I never wear perfume.  I want My natural scent to fill the slaves nostrils.

I am an up close and personal Domme.  I invade your personal space in session and I want you to be able to smell Me.  My hair, My skin, My breath – all of Me.  By enveloping you in My scent, it allows Me to get you where I want you mentally, faster in subsequent sessions.

Panty sniffing can be effective and amusing, too.  Of course, most sluts enjoy smelling their Mistress’s essence and what a marvelous tool for training.  I have sent subs home with a pair of My worn panties and instructed them to only masturbate while inhaling My scent.  It doesn’t take long for just the faintest sent of Me to cause a throbbing erection.  This of course, facilitates in the subs training.  Imagine now, that he is in chastity while sniffing those panties.  Simply put a pair of worn panties under his nose and he becomes quite pliable.

This all just underscores how much like Pavlov’s dogs men really are.

BDSM sessions with the Venus 2000

Venus2000Meet My new toy:  The Venus 2000.  It’s the stuff of erotica lore.  The ultimate male mastrubation machine.

Imagine a reality where you are strapped down and hooked up.  The Venus 2000 starts working its magic and I am at the controls.  I decide your fate.  One hand is on the speed regulator and the other holds a champagne flute.  I take a sip and use your face as a comfortable place to sit while I watch your torment.  Will you be teased until you are begging – not sure if you want Me to continue or stop?  Or will I keep you there and see just how much I can extract from you – over and over and over.  you will be begging, either way.

In the short time the Venus 2000 has been in My possession, it has already become a hit in the Dungeon.  Read these recent reviews of sessions that include the Venus:

“3 eruptions that were uncontrollably drawn from me by the deliciously evil Venus 2000 and the sensual touch of the #1 Dominatrix anywhere sent me to a place that can only be talked about with others that have been there.” -   Read entire review.

“Her latest addition is the Venus 2000. A truly diabolical piece of equipment that will turn you every which way but loose especially if that is what Mistress Ayn desires.”Read entire review. 

So if you think you can hold up to the Venus 2000 and Me – schedule a session.  I dare you.

Still curious?  Watch the video.


Invading Houston July 8th-10th

MistressAyn-16This will be My first “BDSM Domination Visit” to Houston and I am excited to have some Texans under My boot.  I have received a tremendous response to the announcement that I am coming and My schedule is over half filled, so if you want to see Me on this visit, you need to  book now.

I will be bringing a full array of toys to satisfy the corporal enthusiast, the sissies, the sluts and the medical fetishists.  The Venus 2000 will also be coming, so get ready for some extreme tease and denial.

For those not familiar with My interests, here is what’s in store:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Most any fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  I will be hosting in an upscale hotel in the Galleria area of Houston and My schedule is:  Tuesday, July 8th starting at 11am until Thursday, July 10th late.    **At this point, the 10th is completely booked, but feel free to ask because cancellations/reschedules do happen.  **

Click here to complete an application.

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) – make it hurt so good.

I just had a NiteFlirt session where I had a sub torment his own cock and balls.  He got hard while we were chatting and he asked if I would let him go to the bathroom and cum.  (He was at the office at the time – so much for work productivity.)  I agreed, but only if he would punish his cock and balls a bit first.  I had him take a rubber band from his desk and then sent  him into a bathroom stall where he was instructed to bind his balls with the rubber band and then scratch and slap them a bit.  He was made to continue playing with himself until he issued a little pre-cum, and then he was instructed to eat it.  By this time, he is throbbing and begging to cum.  ”No”, I say.  ”Slap that cock hard and get it under control.”  I could hear the slaps and groans through the phone.  The begging and the slapping went on for a while and I finally had mercy and allowed him to cum – but he had to slap his balls at the same time.  The resulting groan was almost defining.

It was fun.  We both had a good time.  But nothing compares to My having My slender fingers around those tender dangly bits.  I like tying the balls off and wrapping the cord over and over until the balls are stretched away from the body.   They are so much more vulnerable that way.  Then I like to scratch, rub, thump, slap . . .  anything that takes your breath away.  That’s the warm up, now it’s time to really get down to business.  Clamps, weights, electrical, sounds – the list of indignities I can make your pathetic cock and balls submit to are almost endless.

To see how brutal I can be on just the right type of cock, see this clip – Extreme CBT – Destroy his cock and balls.


So, if you think you are up to it, schedule a CBT session with Me – live or on NiteFlirt.  I can be gentle, but I probably won’t be.

My Birthday in review – a party, tons of gifts and a spa day to remember

MistressAyn-4ecropI swear My birthdays just keep getting better and better.  I have had birthdays where I spent quiet time at home, ones where we have had huge celebrations at the Dungeon, birthdays when I have traveled to exotic locations and then there was this year . . .

The actual day fell on Monday and many people said, “what a terrible day to have your birthday”.  Nothing could have been farther from the truth.  The lead up weekend was fantastic and the actual day was heaven.  This Mistress truly let Her hair down and everyone that celebrated with Me over the weekend is strictly bound to secrecy.  That’s all I will say about that.  Sunday was spent recuperating, if that gives you a hint.   My friends are an amazing group of kinksters and perverts and that’s only one of the reasons I love them all so much.

As usual I received lots of Birthday Bounty from My loyal subs.  You boys (and several couples) are some of the best admirers a Mistress could have and I know how lucky I am to enjoy your service.  Over 30 items were purchased off My wishlists and I also received numerous bottles of wine, champagne and a several gift cards.  The Venus 2000 was an early birthday gift – I can’t forget that!  It’s the gift that everyone gets to enjoy.

And now for the actual day itself:

My Twitter followers have read about the infamous GiGi.  She is My trainer/workout partner/masseuse and friend.  She is the only one that gets to kick My ass and as much as I might bitch about it on Twitter, it’s a reward we all reap.  I have to keep fitting in that latex afterall.  Well, for My birthday, GiGi announced she was going to give Me a “spa day”.  It started like all Mondays do, with an ass kicking workout.  Then the pampering started.  She served Me fresh, organic fruit salad and ginger tea while relaxing music further soothed the senses.  As I ate and sipped, My feet were treated to a warm soak and salt scrub.  Then it was time for GiGi’s renowned Thai Yoga Massage work.  If you have never done this type of bodywork, you don’t know what you are missing.  Each muscle group is massaged and loosened and then put into a yoga position and stretched.  The work is done on a thick mat on the floor and the masseuse puts their whole body to work manipulating you into positions most of us could never accomplish on our own.  Special breathing techniques are employed and by the end of the 90+ minute massage, you are limp, relaxed and feeling like a million bucks.

Om Thai Yoga 2But that wasn’t the end.  Next came the full body salt scrub with her own concoction of emollients and essential oils.  My skin was buffed to a smooth finish and the left to soak in the nutrient rich scrub.  Once that was dry, it was time for My aromatherapy bath.  The bathing area was lit by candles and smelled amazing.  After a 20 minute soak, My skin felt silky smooth and smelled wonderful.  After patting dry, it was time for more massage.  This time it’s a relaxing table massage complete with hot stones and more essential oils.  Could this get any better?  Yes.  She fed Me!  While I recovered from her ministrations and sipped more ginger tea, GiGi prepared us a light lunch.  She is vegan so the meal was the perfect accompaniment to a healthy day spent treating the body like a temple.

It was an amazing afternoon – and guess what?  You can experience a portion of it too.  Until now, I have kept Gigi’s talents to Myself and only shared her with personal friends. but now I am going to let the proverbial cat out of the bag.  Gnosisia Johnson (GiGi) is the owner and chief practitioner at Om Thai Yoga.  I have been seeing her for over 5 years and along the way we became good friends.  Now is your chance to step inside My world just a bit and enjoy “My GiGi” for yourself.

So maybe one day, after I have had My way with you, you should spend some time with GiGi and have her put you back together.  I will tell her to look for the guys with bruises on their butts . . .   enjoy sluts.

Dominatrix – What people think I do

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