Mistress Ayn

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Charlotte, NC – Get ready to submit. Visiting Feb 3rd – 5th.

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Once again it’s time for Charlotte to kneel before a higher power or prepare to go under My boot.  On February 3rd I will be returning to enjoy the spoils of war and bask in your servitude.  I am looking forward to seeing many of the subs I conquered on My last visit as well as training some new initiates.  A full array of toys and implements will be available including the Eros Tek and the Venus 2000.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship (Including My Jimmy Choo pumps)
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  Last visit My schedule filled completely so book now to ensure an audience at My feet.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a small deposit will be required.

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Non-Stop Strap on Fun

 

 

It’s no secret that the Ladies of Atlanta Dungeon and I thoroughly enjoy using the inferior male for Our pleasure.  But were you aware just how much we enjoy it?  Using their little sissy holes to satisfy Our strapons is one way we like to use men – and boy, do we have fun with the role reversal.  Gang bangs, spit roasts, chastity fucks, you name it, We’ve filmed it.  So you can get a taste of the action, I have put together a compilation of  some of the best strapon scenes from Our 2014 clips.  This is almost 20 minutes of non-stop strap on entertainment – hence the name “Non-Stop Strap on Fun”.  Below is a preview.  The full clip can be purchased at My clips store.  Hope you enjoy it as much as We did.

 

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FAQ #17 – How is humiliation used in a BDSM or D/s session?

Mistress Ayn and Switch GiannaFirst of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won’t elicit the desired effect.

Each person is unique and I recommend that humiliation be used gingerly with a new play partner. One person’s turn on is another’s turn off and humiliation scenes, like all other scenes should be well negotiated. Some men are very turned on when a Female Dominant pronounces their penis too small for proper sex with a woman – and their little peckers get rock hard at the idea of being evaluated and judged in this way. For others, it’s a buzz kill, so it’s important to know what turns your sub on and what areas are off limits.

Examples of humiliation used in Domme/sub sessions are:

  • Verbal humiliation – name calling, beratement, racial slurs, mockery, etc.
  • Forced feminization – as simple as being made to wear panties to full female transformations
  • Animal play – forced to wear a leash, drink from a dog bowl, etc.
  • Public display – embarrassing public acts or displays
  • Cum eating
  • Ass worship / foot worship – some see this as a reward, others feel degraded by it
  • Cuckolding – combination of verbal insults about manhood and degrading acts
  • Objectification – treated as unimportant – being used as a foot stool, as an example
  • Forced masturbation/orgasm
  • Enemas
  • Spanking – yes, for some getting a simple spanking is humiliating

As you can see from this non-exhaustive list, erotic humiliation is a very diverse and personalized form of play. Humiliation can push buttons psychologically that send a sub deeper into sub space or send them reeling in raw emotion, so know your sub well, make sure safe words are in place and pay very close attention to your subs reactions to everything you hurl at them.

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A DC foot slut learns his proper place – session review on The Hang

Foot worship 7 logoWashington, DC has become one of My favorite venues.  There is a reason:  the subs are well behaved (obviously well trained by DC Mistresses) and in general they are a whole lot of fun.  As a Mistress that thoroughly enjoys what I do, I don’t compromise on the fun and I don’t take sessions I don’t think I will enjoy.  That’s generally a win, win situation – but in this case, it almost caused a session not to happen.  Thankfully this little foot slut didn’t succum to the “brush off” and appealed to My sense of adventure – he even had Julie Simone singing his praises – so I agreed to meet.  What resulted was a delightful session from beginning to end.  Moral of the story: persistence (and a whole lot of flattery) often pays.

Excerpt from the session review on Max Fisch’s The Hang:

“Mistress Ayn communicates very clearly, and She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her. i was completely entranced by Her beauty, the exquisite care of Her apparel demonstrating Her art of seduction and authority, and the words that She used during o/Our entire session and all i wanted to do was worship and please Mistress Ayn.

This being o/Our first encounter, Mistress Ayn took Her time to properly inspect the new piece of slave flesh presented before Her. Mistress had me strip, so that i was at my most vulnerable and feeble state, and kneel in the center of the room. She made sure to circle around like a Lioness toying with Her prey and inspected just about every inch of me; commenting on what qualities had potential and what displeased Her. Mistress made it quite clear, that it was a privilege to be before Her . . .

Mistress cultured me on the proper way to serve, holding Her feet accordingly so that the natural effects of gravity would never make her uncomfortable. Then She instructed me to not just kiss and suck, but to appreciate the lovely privilege She was allowing. To slowly admire, sniff, inhale and truly adore the embrace of Her divine feet. Mistress Ayn recognized that i could kiss and worship Her feet for hours, and She surprisingly found use for my insignificant slave mouth and was kind enough to remind me that perhaps i wasn’t completely useless to Her.”

Read the complete review on Max Fisch

 

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Au revoir 2014

 

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As the year draws to an end, it makes Me reflective and I think of all the things in life for which I am thankful.   My subs are a big part of My life and give Me so much – both  emotionally and materially.   For every special occasion you faithfully fill My inbox with well wishes and My mailbox with goodies.   Because of My subs I have one of the best toy collections in the industry – and it continues to grow.  My closet overflows with boots, shoes, corsets, stockings and all things sexy and fetish.  I never forget how fortunate I am to have such generous subs.  Nor do I forget that the best gift you give Me is your trust and submission.

This year, like every year was full of gains and and some losses.  I broke the 2000 follower mark on Twitter (that seemed to take forever), launched My clips store, gained some wonderful new clients, had a custom spanking bench made for Me, was given the amazing Venus 2000 (which has really been a gift to everyone!) and received an impressive number of reviews – which helps Me maintain My reputation as the “Most Highly Reviewed Mistress in the Region”.    However, it was not without losses.  My favorite whip maker (Joe Strain) retired.  Thankfully I have an absolute “work of art” custom made snake whip to remember him by.  One of My best subs just found out he is moving away – ending a 2 year journey together.  News of this kind always makes Me sad, but life is like breathing.  You have to let air out in order to take more in.

Looking to 2015, I am excited.  On the travel front, I am looking to expand into at least one new city, so if you are reading this and want Me to pay your city a visit, let Me know.  I also have plans to launch a new content/membership site that I am hoping will be the embryo for something that the industry needs.  Look for more on that in the upcoming months.

So in bidding 2014 goodbye, I want to thank you all and wish you the very best for 2015.  Ring in the New Year safely and remember to keep it kinky!

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A FemDom Chloroform Fantasy

Mistress AynI am on the hunt.  I detest men that prey on Women and I love to turn the tables, so Sweet Miss Caroline and I decide to run a sting – just for fun.  We place an ad in the personals that goes something like this:

“Attractive young woman seeking gentle man for friendship and possibly more.  Recovering from a recent break up and really need a big, strong shoulder for support.  I am a sweet girl and am open to developing a relationship, but am just looking for friendship to start.”

And so it begins . . . the replies start to flood in and we have tons of victims to choose from.  Men can be such pigs.  Sensing weakness, they circle like vultures – requesting to meet Caroline to “comfort” her.  A few of them even include pics of their dicks, in case she Is “interested”.  Really?

We sort through the replies and select one perfect victim and I started to communicate with him  – as Caroline.  He was slick, but not slick enough.  I could see through his saccharine lies and knew he was doing his own kind of hunting.  Caroline was his prey . . .

The trap is now set.  He is invited over to meet Caroline for the first time and share a glass of wine.  A simple meeting to get acquainted.  I watch through the two way glass that separates the lounge area from the medical room in the Dungeon.  As expected, he has that predatory look in his eye and is a little too touchy feely for My taste.  Well all of that is about to end.  Little does he know that the wine he is about to drink has been spiked.

I watch as he is getting particularly obnoxious with Caroline.  It’s all I can do not to rush in to protect My kitten, but I know My plan will work perfectly if I am just patient.  Sure enough, his words begin to slur and that is Caroline’s cue to tell him she wants to go somewhere more comfortable.  Of course he agrees, thinking she is taking him to bed.  She pushes open the medical room door and his eyes flair for just a moment as he takes in the medical table.  Then he sees Me behind the door, but doesn’t have time to panic before the chloroform rag covers his nostrils  . . .

I would love to hear your thoughts.  How does this story end?  Have you ever had fantasies of being taken advantage of in this way?  Let Me know at ayn@mistressayn.com

 

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Tis the season – Keep your Mistress happy.

Mistress Ayn - DominatrixThe Holidays are upon U/us and instead of fielding questions about what I want, I have decided to make it easy by putting everything in one place.

Wine/Spirits – these are great if you are seeing Me in person:

  • Champagne is a classic favorite of Mine – preferred brands are Perrier Jouet Grand Brut and Veuve Cliquot
  • Wines – I enjoy sweet whites like Rieslings (Spalelase from Germany) or bold reds like Bordeaux from France.
  • Preferred Vodka is Kettle One – I do love a martini from time to time

Wishlists:

  • Amazon – always an easy option.  It’s updated and ready.
  • Etsy – for something a little extra special – like latex and high end toys

I have a tremendous amount to be thankful for.  My subs are among the most generous people I know.  A gift for the holidays is certainly not an obligation, but for those that want to present Me with a little something (or a big something), I want to make it as simple as possible.  Of course, the greatest gift you all give Me is the gift of your submission – and I thank you for that.

 

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Domesticating Washington, DC – December 2nd – 4th

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It’s that time again boys.  On December 2nd I will be taking up residence in the Nation’s Capitol and providing a little Alpha Female Leadership.  God knows that town needs it.  I’ll be dressing the sissies, beating the malcontents, humiliating the arrogant and amusing Myself thoroughly.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship (Including My Jimmy Choo pumps)
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  I will be hosting in a 750 square foot suite in an upscale hotel in the Pentagon City area, convenient to the Blue and Yellow lines of the Metro.  When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a small deposit will be required.

Click here to Complete an Application

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Sometimes you just have to “pay the Piper” – new review on Max Fisch

Mistress AynI love long term subs.  When you have sessioned with someone for years a relationship builds that is founded in trust and with that relationship you can take someone places they never dreamed of going.  For Me, that power exchange is what BDSM is all about.  I have been sessioning with subz for almost 4  years and he will tell you that no two sessions are ever the same and he never has any idea what to expect – unless he has been away too long – then he knows he will have to “pay the piper” – in this case his Domme – ME.  That is precisely what happened in our last session.

In subz words:

 ” . . . I’m still in one piece but She had me seriously wondering most of the time. 

Since I had been away for awhile, when I called to confirm She told me that I would have to ‘pay the piper’, which gave me plenty to think about on the drive over . . .  I knew this encounter was headed differently when early on I was strapped onto the bench and my ass was already red from Mistress Ayn gloved hand.  Already well into subspace, I failed to respond properly when questioned, which Mistress Ayn reminded me that after all this time I should know what is required, so the cane (the one most dreaded correction device) came out for some re-enforcement . . . and this was just the start of things.

. . . Just felt like I was 7-8 close when I asked for permission, because I thought things were building too fast. With a sensuous grin, Mistress replied go ahead if I thought I could in my situation, but this only caused any climax to immediately fade away . . .yet.”

Read the full review on Max Fisch.  Is it time for you to pay the piper?

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Invading Charlotte, NC November 12th & 13th

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This will be My first visit to Charlotte in over 2 years, but I have so many subs that make the trip to Atlanta to see Me, that I thought I would return the favor.  So the Mountain is coming to Mohammed – so to speak.  I will be hosting in a Downtown area hotel and bringing a full array of toys to satisfy the corporal enthusiast, the sissies, the sluts and the medical fetishists.  The Venus 2000 will also be coming, so get ready for some extreme tease and denial.

For those not familiar with My interests, here is what’s in store:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play or adult baby.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm..  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.

Click here to complete an application.

 

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