Monthly Archives: April 2014

Foot worship and fetishism – Bow at My feet. It’s a good place to start.

Mistress Ayn foot fetishFoot worship and foot/shoe/boot/stocking fetishism are one of the most common kinks associated with BDSM and particularly Female Dominance. The naked slave bowing before his leather clad Mistress’s foot is a classic representation of FemDom. Although not every submissive has a foot fetish and not every Domme enjoys having Her toes sucked, there is something basic and compelling about it. Maybe it’s that iconic image. Who knows for sure, but Nylonzine asked Me to try and shed some light on the practice of foot worship in professional domination. Here is an excerpt from that interview:

NZ:  How do you view foot fetishism in your role as a professional Dominatrix?

MA:  Foot, stocking and shoe fetishes are among a long list of kinks that I enjoy, but I think there is something core in the worship of a woman’s feet when it comes to the Domme/sub relationship. Respectful worship is a big part of FemDom and professional domination in particular. Honoring the part that grounds us and is the lowest part of us is a good way for a sub to embrace his servitude and submission. Paying homage to our feet is basic, simple and pure.

In professional domination, time is a commodity, so you want to be able to get the client in the submissive headspace as soon as possible. My regular subs engage in a ritual upon entering the Dungeon. They have certain preparations and tasks they must complete and this ends with kneeling at My feet, kissing My boot and remaining there, head bowed over my foot, until they are given the next instruction. Even subs that aren’t particularly into feet find the process prepares them mentally for the time we are about to spend together. Kissing the boot is a greeting and a show of willingness to submit.

Beyond that, feet and shoes can play a big part in seemingly unrelated scenes. Cock and ball torment is one. I love mashing balls with the bottom of My shoe or ball busting with My bare feet. Making a sub worship the boot or foot that is about to torment or tease him is particularly satisfying to both parties.

NZ:  What are some other ways you incorporate feet and stockings into your sessions?

MA:  The possibilities are endless. Trampling is an obvious one. I once did a yoga pose on a subs face. I had to do it sans stockings to keep from slipping. It’s one of those moments you wish you had on film. He sucked My toes after and we were both a bit amazed I was able to do it.

I use stockings all the time. Pantyhose encasement and bondage is an obvious example. One of My favorite indulgences is sensory deprivation. I like to take off a stocking and hold it to the subs nose. He can’t see or hear anything so his sense of smell is heightened. I love quietly holding the stocking about an inch away from his nose and waiting for his nostrils to flair in recognition. Stockings of course, make good gags too.

Stockings can also play a big part in a subs specific fantasy. Maybe he has dreamed of having the sexy teacher that he remembers from 6th grade dominate him. Or maybe he wants a female co-worker or employee to turn the tables. A huge percentage of the time, stockings or pantyhose are part of that fantasy. Men are very visual, so their requests tend to be specific: nude stockings, lace top thigh highs, panty hose with sparkles, fishnets. I have heard it all.

MistressAyn-8NZ:  As a ProDomme, do you have a most memorable foot fetish experience?

MA:  The extremes tend to be the most memorable in anything and two sessions come to mind. One was a crazy trampling scene that I did with one of my sister Dommes from Atlanta Dungeon. The sub was extremely fit physically. He wanted us to trample him bare foot at the same time, which in itself is not a huge deal. Petra weighs 100 pounds soaking wet and I weight 120, but he wanted us to treat him like a human trampoline and he used his muscles to help propel us. One of us would jump on his stomach and the other on his chest. He would contract his stomach muscles push one of us up and then his chest would puff out to push the other up. We got into a rhythm and several times we were going about two feet in the air. We all got a work out that day and I laughed so hard that my sides were sore the next day. Pure fun.

The other scene that comes to mind was a straight shoe fetish session. The sub asked to be allowed to clean my extensive shoe collection. I brought two suitcases full of shoes. I think there were close 20 pairs. I sat on a stool in the center of the room with the shoes laid out neatly all around me. He would methodically clean the soles of each shoe while I described the activities that had taken place the last time I had worn that particular shoe. Of course it ranged from filthy to sexy. When he would complete the cleaning of a pair, he would then put them on me and then start on another. The expression on his face while he licked those shoes clean can only be described as nirvana.

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FAQ #17 – Does BDSM play with urethral sounds hurt?

SoundsUrethral sounds are actually medical devices designed to stretch the urethra, primarily to remove obstructions or allow for the passing of kidney stones. Not very sexy, huh? Well, they can be. I have no idea who or when the first person was to decide, hey, this could be a kinky thing to do, but someone did and many find the process pleasurable. As a Dominant, the idea of violating that specific hole is a turn on. A power trip. As a bottom or sub, you either like the way it feels or you don’t. Many men find it very erotic and many have described the feeling as “being fucked from the inside”. Some say the sensation is similar to masturbation, only more intense. Others find it uncomfortable and unpleasant. It just depends on the individual.

Part of the thrill of sounds for a sub is the absolute power exchange. How more out of control can you be than to be tied down and made to watch a Dominatrix insert a steel stick into your cock? For some it is the ultimate CBT.   For others it is purely erotic. It is common to hear that the first orgasm after sounding is explosive and particularly intense. With today’s devices made specifically for BDSM play, there is something for almost everyone. The standard medical sounds themselves come in several different shapes and achieve different sensations. In addition there are silicone sounds which are flexible, vibrating sounds and even electrified sounds.

Sounds play is not for beginners and before playing with a Dominant, make sure they know their business. If done improperly, there is risk of irritation or tearing of the urethral lining. Scar tissue may be encountered that may cause discomfort or bleeding – although usually not serious, this can be alarming. There is also risk of infection if the sounds are not properly sanitized or if unsafe practices are used that allow contamination. Sounds play can be great fun for both the Domme and the sub, but it is a type of play where experience matters.

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