Tag Archives: sissification

Transformative Gender Experiences

DSC_5238bwwmeI have been asked to sit on a panel to discuss gender issues as they relate to kink.  So join Me Saturday, May 7th at Frolicon from 1:00pm – 2:15pm.  The panel will be run by a sociologist specializing in gender identity.

Panel description:

In this discussion we examine social research that explores how certain experiences can challenge our gender identities. From there we venture into how such gendered experiences can be incorporated into kink, helping us grow, evolve, and empathize with those of different genders than our own. A panel of kinksters will share their experiences on this topic and answer questions.

As a Dominatrix I interact with all kinds of kinksters that want to explore and push the limits of gender.  Those experiences range from simple humiliation through emasculation to sissy play to full on transgender.  So join Me as I participate with a panel of other kinksters to discuss and answer questions about this very current (and often controversial) topic.

Frolicon 2016 – Sheraton Downtown Atlanta, 165 Courtland Street NE, Atlanta, GA  30303.

Official Website – http://www.frolicon.com




Training a sissy slut – A new review on The Buzz.

Mistress Ayn and LynnSissies require all sorts of training.  They need to be taught how to apply makeup, how to dress like a sissy, how to walk with some grace and they need their little sissy holes trained too.  Chastity is also a good training option for your sissy, because we all know how much sissies like to play with their little clitties.

In a recent session, a sissy slut that had been away for a while was subjected to various forms of training – including reminding her that her balls were completely worthless pieces of equipment and that her little slut hole needed to be prepared for proper use.

“The idea was to stretch my sissy pussy. Mistress told me to hold it in while she stepped away for a moment, but I let it slide out. When She saw what had happened, she spit in my face and slapped me, a moment of degradation that got me in the proper frame of mind for the rest of our session. Minutes later, Mistress replaced the dilator with one that delivered an electric pulse to my sensitive opening, and that really got my attention.she placed suction cups on my nipples to increase the blood flow and sensitivity. Then She removed her gorgeous black leather shoe and placed it over my nose and mouth, her delicious scent, and Her powerful pheromones, flooding my brain as the electricity continued to shock my sissy pussy . . . 

Mistress then had me sit up while She spoke with me about my future. She noticed my tiny, flaccid cock and told me that the long-term chastity she required of me would make my thing atrophy and shrink, so it would be nothing more than a clit. We discussed female hormones, which within weeks would ensure I would never have an erection again . . .”

To read the subs full accounting, visit The Buzz.


Drag Queens, Faux Queens and everything in between

I had the opportunity to attend a truly amazing event last weekend.  It was a private affair, but the entire time I was there, I kept thinking how much My sissies would have enjoyed the event.  Hosted by My good friend (and partner in many a crime) Onyx Love, the event had performances by local faux queens and featured an appearance by the one and only Coco Peru.

As they say, a picture is worth a 1000 words.  By the way, I came to the conclusion that blond is not My color.

Rave review of custom clips

First of all, I have a new camera for filming, thanks in part to slave joe.  His generous gift card for My birthday allowed Me to purchase a DSLR camera that produces amazing video.  The timing of the purchase was perfect.  Almost simultaneously a sub from France commissioned 2 custom clips, so on June 9th the DSLR got its first real workout.

StoryboardThe scenes were more complex than our normal clips, so the evening before we “storyboarded” the two scenes to make sure filming went smoothly.  The resulting artwork (pictured here) got a laugh from all of us and there was even a suggestion that we have t-shirts made!  (Click on the image to enlarge it.)  The following morning Goddess Samantha, slaves nero and tig, along with the ever mysterious “webmistress” (cum cameraman) were on set and ready to go.

Both subs had to be feminized for the shoot, so Goddess Samantha and I had our hands full making nero and tig look as womanly as possible, but the end result was quite phenomenal.  A bonus to the event was that nero had to be shaved in order to be feminized, so we made a video of Samantha and Me forcibly shaving off his precious beard. Samantha had to put his head in a scissorhold to keep him still while I did the trimming and shaving.  The resulting clip was aptly titled “Shaving Nero”.

After several hours of filming we had the 2 videos in the can plus 2 other clips.  Now it was time to edit . . .

The finished videos were titled “The Contract Fucker” and “The Senator learns a lesson”.  They were 17 minutes and 29 minutes respectively.  Not your usual clip.  In My opinion they turned out great and the sub that commissioned them agreed.  Here are some of his comments:

“I really wanted to let you know ASAP what I thought about both of the videos that I watched tonight. One word for them: FANTASTIC. 
You’re so sexy with your perfect outfit and your high heels boots. And you’re so mean, so cruel. You were totally involved in the project and I thank you a lot for that. I can say the same about Samantha who is also very strong (she carried the sub very easily).  Both of you are amazing. 
And both of your subs are great too. One trying to resist till you break him. The other one desperate by the situation from the beginning. Both of them acted fear and desperation wonderfully by struggling, shaking boots due to your actions, begging and crying. Their feminizations are awesome. 
The angles  took for the shooting are excellent: wide angles allowing to see the poor guys from the head  to the sexy high heels boots while you’re humiliating them, there are close ups to see faces during actions…. And the quality of the video is perfect. It’s sure: I’m really happy of the result.”


You will be able to see them for yourself when they appear on AynRules.com, so look for them in about a month.
We all had a great time shooting these clips and the unique request allowed Me to produce clips that were different (and a bit more elaborate) than the standard clip, so I would love to see more requests for customs.  If you have been fantasizing about a custom, contact Me at ayn@mistressayn.com for a free quote.


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The softer side of domination – sissification.

Mistress Ayn with SissyWhen most people think of BDSM or a Dominatrix, the image of whips and chains comes to mind. However, not all forms of domination require pain or the harsher aspects of submission.    Sissification and transformations are examples of such scenarios.  These scenes can go by many names:  slut training, sissification, forced feminization, transformations – just to name a few.  They do not have to involve bondage, pain or even humiliation.  Some subs are willing participants in their transformation.  They desire to be rid of their male persona, even if only for the short duration of a session.  Others want to be “forced” to let their male ego go and usually find the humiliation of the experience exciting.  There are as many shades to sissification as there are in the color gray.  To each his own.

One sub summed up his experience in a review on The Erotic Review.  Here are some excerpts from the “Juicy Details”:

“Mistress Ayn shows her softer side by initiating and following through with my sissy transformation. From the moment I walked in the door Mistress Ayn began the transformation by stripping me of all male clothing. As I kneeled before Mistress Ayn and was allowed to worship her, she began to explain that I was no longer in the position to make decisions and I was now her property to do with as she desired. She sent chills through my body  . . . “

“The session gravitated to the medical room where I was strapped down to an examination table. This is when I first heard the sound of her skin thin rubber gloves. She whispered to me that I soon will understand what will definitely always happen when I hear the sound of her gloves . . .”

“Back to the examination table I went for make up which Mistress applied with care. While all of this was going on Mistress Ayn continued to tease me with the suggestions of how I was going to make a pretty girl who would soon be sucking cock and having their sissy ass filled. She meant it too . . . “

“The session moved in to the dungeon where I was dressed in beautiful stockings, garter belt, a silky top, a wig and high heels. I then modeled and walked around for Mistress Ayn while she continued to suggest that a slut like me needed to be put to good use and of course it was too late for me to decide otherwise. There was a little light spanking as a tease; however, Mistress Ayn did this just so I was sure who was in charge. She listened to my voice and body and made me feel safe and thoroughly aroused!”

“I lost track of time before too long and my head was spinning until the next day from the intensity and carefully orchestrated sissy session that Mistress Ayn provided. I am very afraid of any pain and Mistress Ayn took very good care of me. We have had a second 4 hour session and I give 100 Percent trust to Mistress Ayn that she will and has taken exceptional care of me. The professionalism that Mistress Ayn demonstrates is what I have been looking for. Our journey will continue with some shopping and night club outings and . . . “

“Mistress Ayn is leading me down the safe path to happiness with her care, professionalism and understanding. She is a dream come true. I love what she does for me.” –  sissy crissy

For the full review, visit TER – membership required.

In My experience, subs who enjoy and focus on sissification, typically are not into much, if any, pain.  There are exceptions to that, of course, but generally speaking, sissies love the tease, tactile sensations and visuals.  Activities like tease and denial, strap on worship/training, chastity and other forms of sensual domination are more up their alley.  So it you have been fantasizing about a sissy session, but were afraid, don’t be.  Just communicate your desires to your dominant and then relax and let it happen.  Getting in touch with your feminine side can be a good thing.



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