Monthly Archives: August 2015

FAQ #19: Can I use you as a reference to see another Mistress?

MistressAynDec2014--33eAbsolutely.  I understand that men are sluts.  I appreciate loyalty like anyone else, but I also understand that some of you want diversity and prefer seeing a variety of Dommes instead of developing a long term relationship with one Mistress.  Each sub is different and it’s important to recognize that, so I don’t get upset if someone that has seen Me wants to see another Domme.  I require references for specific types of sessions and when I travel, so I consider it a common courtesy to both the Domme and the sub.

Here is the how you do it:  Send Me an email ahead of time notifying Me you have used Me as a reference and the name of the Domme that will be contacting Me. That way I can be sure that the request for a reference is not a “fishing expedition”.  When the Domme contacts Me I will only confirm that I have seen you before and that I would see you again (if that is the case).  They will need to provide the email address you used to set your appointment with Me.  That is the only reliable way for Me to look you up.  A name and or a phone number is not enough.

Of course, if I see you regularly, you may have to “confess” that you have seen another Mistress and then “pay the piper” the next time we meet, but would you expect anything less?


D.C. Bound – The Nation’s Capital submits – August 31st – September 3rd

Mistress Ayn - AtlantaIt’s that time again: Time for all My Washington, D.C. area sluts, sissies and masochists to prepare to serve.  Because of the frequent travel issues I tend to have when visiting DC, I am lengthening My trip by arriving a day earlier.  So this time I will be available for sessions Monday – Thursday and if I encounter any snafus, I will have some extra time to reschedule.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  Once again, I will be hosting in a 750 square foot suite in an upscale hotel in the Pentagon City area, convenient to the Blue and Yellow lines of the Metro.  The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays.  I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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