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Stealing time – Don’t be “that guy”.

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As a professional Dominant the only thing I have for sale is My time.  Unfortunately too many want to steal it.  By stealing I mean:

  • Calling to discuss your kinks, ask questions that are available on My website or just chat.  I charge for those types of calls and have a NiteFlirt account set up just for this purpose.  I stopped answering My phone because 9 out of 10 callers are there to attempt to steal.
  • Emailing and requesting an extended session (Dommes are going to be really nice to you if you dangle a 3-4 hour session in front of them, right?) in the future and then attempting to ask questions, exchange photos, etc. leading up to that session – which probably will never happen.  That’s an old trick and most of Us are wise to it.
  • Setting up a session and then wanting to call to discuss the session in advance.
  • Wanting to DM on Twitter, Fetlife, Facebook and other social media.

An experienced Domme can spot these tricks a mile away and it’s one reason deposits have become so prevalent.  If you want a professional’s time, pay for it.  If you want to discuss the session prior, fine.  I will charge you for the call and if you follow through with the session in a timely manner I will apply half the fee to the session.  Most of Us do paid phone sessions, email exchanges and such in addition to real time sessions.  Just ask.  Don’t be “that” guy.

Review of online distance training

These are different times.  For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions.  During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away.  If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger.  As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated.  The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of My subs.

Sub john, a long time submissive that normally does monthly sessions, shared his experience and thoughts of his first two weeks of distance training.  The full review can be read on The Buzz.

I think think there are many lessons to be learned through adversity.  One I have learned is that it’s a good thing to explore new ways of connecting to My stable of submissives.  Phone, Skype and even email can bring us closer and enrich the relationship.  Going forward I plan to continue to offer limited distance training and connections via phone and Skype.

If you have been looking for a way to submit and are interested in distance training, take a look at My current online training options.

Atlanta Dominatrix offers distance training and online options for submission

Online domination – email/task packages

I love controlling My subjects – any way I can.  Many people do not have adequate privacy to do a phone or Skype session, so I have developed a special email task program to satisfy our need for D/s.

Email/task program – $150 per week or $450 per month

  • Daily check in with Me is required via email or text
  • 2 tasks per week with proof of completion requirement
  • Random check ins via email or text are probable
  • Access to My fan page on LoyalFans

Tasks are centered around our common interests and can include CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, JOI, orgasm control, orgasm denial, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

I also enjoy feminization and slut training so you “gurls” that are looking for a Woman to take control have come to the right place.

Custom audio and video are also available.  If you can manage privacy for a call or Skype, by all means, let’s do it.

Supplemental:

Skype session – 30 minutes = $120

Phone session – 20 minutes = $60

Custom Audio – $125 up to 20 minutes in length

Custom FemDom POV Video – $250 up to 20 minutes in length

To discuss further, email Me at ayn@mistresayn.com

 

Let’s make it happen.

 

 

Online sessions and talk + Custom video now available

Mistress Ayn

During this time of social distancing I am currently offering both phone and Skype sessions by appointment.

Phone chat:  $50 per 20 minute block, $60 for 30 minutes

Phone sessions (instructional, task oriented, roleplay, specific fetish talk, etc.):  $65 minutes per 20 minute block, $80 for 30 minutes

Phone conversations and phone sessions are also available on NiteFlirt:   Call Button

For those that can’t make phone sessioning work, special text/email packages are also available.  Ask Me how.

In addition, custom FemDom audio and POV videos are available.

Custom audio starting at $100

Custom POV videos starting at $200

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com with your requests and to get a quote.

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COVID-19, sessions and safety.

I am getting emails almost daily asking if I am still accepting sessions.  For now the answer is “yes”.  I am a relatively low volume Domme because My tribute is a little higher and My average session length is 2 hours, so I typically don’t see multiple subs per day – especially now.   Seeing a Domme is probably much safer than getting your haircut, going to the gym or even going to your grocery store.  The number of individuals using the facility daily is extremely small and our health consciousness and attention to detail is not something that we just adopted due to the virus.

Ironically a well kept Dungeon is one of the cleanest environments you can be in.  At Atlanta Dungeon our practice has always been to sterilize each piece of equipment after use and to disinfect all furniture you come in contact with during a session.  With COVID-19 our practices are even more strenuous and includes a wipe down of furniture both before and after your session along with disinfecting commonly touched surfaces like door knobs, faucet handles, etc. before and after each session.  Remember, our industry is used to protecting its clients from blood and fluid borne pathogens, so we always use hospital grade cleansers like CaviCide, Barbicide (dimethyl benzyl ammonium chloride), along with bleach and alcohol.

To help make sure I keep you and Myself safe, I am practicing “social distancing” outside of work.  I am no longer going to the gym, eating out or attending functions and am pretty much just staying home and going to the Dungeon as needed.  Obviously everyone has to make their own decisions when it comes to risks but I want My submissives to know that I have their safety as well as My own in the forefront of My mind.

We probably have some trying times ahead and a little stress relief will be needed by all.  If you don’t want or can’t do an in person session, I will be more accessible for phone and Skype sessions.

So if you need a little escape from the world ending, come and get your kink on.

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