Monthly Archives: April 2015

Why every man should be pegged.

Pegging MistressOf course, I have long believed that every man should be on the receiving end of a strapon at least once in his life. To Me it is one of the purest examples of true power exchange that exists. The men whose “cherries” I have taken seem truly affected by it – mostly for the better.  So it shouldn’t come as a surprise that it was a man that finally put the “why” into words I think everyone can understand.  Several days after a session, I received the following email (truncated), entitled, “Why every man should be pegged.” I have left the title intact, as I have his words:

“First, if the man orgasms during strapon sex he can experience the orgasm much as a woman does because of the prostate stimulation. [I recall a session where] i experienced the orgasm as women describe them — ever escalating pleasure followed by a plateau, in what seemed to be an endless cycle of increasing ecstasy. The orgasm lasted far longer than the ejaculation (i am amazed at the number of men who don’t know that orgasm and ejaculation are not synonyms and that it is the ejaculation that usually cuts short the orgasm). i even arched my back as women will sometimes do during a great orgasm.

If the man doesn’t orgasm during strap on, he can experience being taken solely for the partner’s pleasure as is often the case for women. Last week, i felt You truly ravished me solely for Your lust and not for my pleasure. And it was great being used solely as an instrument for Your enjoyment. It is valuable for men to experience this because this is often how women experience sex with men.

Lastly, strap on sex can teach a man that foreplay is not merely pleasurable; it is sometimes essential in getting your partner ready for penetration. i was impressed at how patient You were in getting my anus to open. You took a lot of time and paid a lot of attention to doing that, without which the experience would have been extremely unpleasant (if even possible). Men need to know that. The flip side of this is that pegging can teach women that foreplay is sometimes hard work; doors occasionally just will not open.” – anonymous sub

So, if you haven’t been “taken” by an Alpha Female, maybe you should give it a try.  It just might be life changing . . .

For the real deal – schedule a session:  Mistress Ayn – Atlanta Dominatrix 

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BDSM provides catharsis and creates inner calm

Atlanta-dominatrixI often tell people that a good BDSM session can be spiritual..  Many look at Me like I am crazy, but for those that have experienced it, you know what I mean.  The ability to truly let go in session can open doorways in the mind that allow a mental processing that is not common in everyday life.  It is not unusual for Me to hear feedback that a sub miraculously had a solution to a problem that had been troubling him or that it felt as if they had gone on a mini-vacation and now felt relaxed and renewed.   Subspace is an altered state of mind and great things can happen in that altered state if you just allow it.

What gets a sub to that place is different from sub to sub.  What follows are excerpts from a review of a session where something magical happened.

” . . .  The first feeling of exhilaration hit me as I lifted my chin to accept her collar and smoothly leaned forward for the buckling . . .

Over the next three hours, Mistress Ayn put me through my paces with an increasingly intense and severe set of implements. They ranged from the traditional to the wicked.  But no matter how intense it became, Mistress Ayn was always intuitive and quick to intervene with a “rescue”: a moment of gentle caresses, a shoulder to rest on, and whispers of encouragement coaxing me to accept more. She had moved me to a place of physical and emotional vulnerability, but never once violated it. She created a safe space for me. I knew that I may be pushed, but not so far as to fall off the edge.

As we progressed to the climax, I was secured to a spanking bench for the final severity. This round of corporal punishment served as the prelude to her legendary strap on training skills. Ensuring that I was well prepared for that scenario, she gave me my first asshole caning.

Yes, she caned me “there”. Outside of the strap on invasion that followed, it was the most potent reminder that a submissive’s body belongs to the dominant, and that nothing is hidden.

She brought me down to earth, holding my hand and encouraging me to take it easy the rest of the day. There’s so much more that transpired, but I can do no better than this: Mistress Ayn successfully weaves together the role of nurturer and comforter as well as torturer and tormentor.

I walked out of her dungeon with peace and inner calm . . . ”

To read the full review, visit Max Fisch.

So the next time you feel the stresses of life are weighing you down, a good “BDSM therapy session” with your friendly neighborhood Dominatrix might be just what the doctored ordered. now Live!


I’ve been hinting that something big was in the works and now it’s time for the reveal.  Announcing – a place where devoted subs can belong. It’s My World and it contains “Everything Ayn”.  All My clips, photos, recordings, and other exclusive content.

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