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Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive

Monday, 01 January 2024 13:19
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Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive.  This year is your year to make some changes and get out of your rut.  I suggest you embrace your submissive/feminine side and see just how good a submissive you can be.  Submission may just set you free.

If you have gotten out of the habit of seeing a Domme in real life, I can help with that.  Let’s start with some distance training and then I will send you to a reputable Domme I trust – if I can’t see you Myself.

If you have gotten into an indulgent cycle with anything from food to masturbation, I can help with that too.  Dommie knows best and I can create a task or chastity program that can get you on the right track – or else.

Has a lack of Female leadership left you feeling out of sorts?  Then submit, serve, learn and be tested – and yes, we can do much of this from a distance.

So let 2024 be the year of the submissive.  Contact Me direct about any questions or logistics – ayn@mistressayn.com.  Or do some investigating here.

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A European Adventure

Sunday, 08 January 2023 12:23
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Hello all.  As some of you know, I left Atlanta at the end of the year and headed off on a grand adventure.  At present I am in Brasov, Romania and plan to use this as a base to explore some of the more adventurous and mysterious parts of Europe.

A lot of you have had questions:  Am I retiring?  Will I stay here permanently?  Will I offer sessions in Europe?  Will I ever go back to Atlanta?

First, no I am not retiring.  My focus is just shifting so I can do some exploring.  For many years I travelled extensively and just simply burned out on it.  I am not sure what happened over the last couple of years; the lockdowns, watching too many travel videos, being told I can’t travel due to the virus?  Whatever the reason, the travel bug struck again, so off I went.

It’s doubtful I will stay here – or anywhere – permanently.  I can tell you that I like Romania (and the Romanian people) and have been having a wonderful time, but the world is a big place.  Who knows what the future will bring.

As far as sessions are concerned, I am more interested in attending events on this side of the pond than traveling to do individual sessions, but I would be open to combining the two.  Currently I am looking at attending events in the UK, Greece, Portugal and Romania.

Will I go back to Atlanta?  Of course, that’s My FemDom home and where most of My best boys live.  I am currently making plans to return very soon for a visit, so stay tuned for that.  Sessions will be available at Atlanta Dungeon, of course.

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If you have a travel or event suggestion, reach out to Me via one of the above venues and share your ideas.

Distance slave training, chastity/keyholding programs and online FemDom sessions are still available.  Click the link for more information.

Task Tuesdays on AVN Stars

Friday, 12 March 2021 10:31
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Join Me in My Inner Sanctum for Task Tuesdays. Every sub gets a personalized task on Tuesdays, plus access to over 100 full length clips.  What are you waiting for?  Click here and start serving. 

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – COVID special edition

Friday, 25 September 2020 13:23
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Photo courtesy of Image by Łukasz Dyłka from Pixabay

 

Special COVID edition by slaveboy.

W/we are firmly in the grips of a COVID-era and my slave training now occurs long distance, yet Mistress Ayn is still very powerfully in control.  It would be easy to become negative and lament not having a forthcoming scheduled weekend at the FemDom Mansion – as would “regularly” occur – but W/we are not living in “regular times” these days.  Alternatively, there are daily activities that remind me of my status as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy, in chastity and collared, such as my morning walks.  During the walk i focus on how many things Mistress Ayn has introduced to establish Her daily presence in my life.

While wanting to “try out” a chastity cage was my idea, i did ask Mistress Ayn to be my Keyholder.  But, She introduced the terrifying word – “indefinite” – into chastity wearing and now i am in chastity indefinitely.  She also ordered me to purchase a pink cage, then a pink with gold sparkles cage, and now a smaller black cage for those special “formal” occasions.

While dressing as a sissy was fun and humiliating at the FDM, Mistress Ayn ordered me to wear panties every day, and i am, and it is amazing.

Obviously it was Mistress’s idea to pierce my nipples.  It is incredible and does remind me, in yet another way, that i am Her slaveboy … indefinitely .. and, of course, the posts are pink.

i began daily morning walk, mostly for physical health reasons, yet Mistress Ayn challenged me to extend the route, which i have.  She also ordered me to insert the Hush during these walks, which i have.

In addition to all those ways Mistress Ayn is with me every single day as my Mistress, i never know when i might get an email from Her with orders.  i check my “slaveboy” email account twice a day – at least – hoping (and dreading) for an email from my Mistress, never knowing what She will command me to do.

Will i be allowed to unlock Her chastity cage?  Will i receive sexual relief to the daily frustration of indefinite chastity?   Will it be a ruined orgasm, or full orgasm, but always, if there is discharge, to consume every drop.

In this COVID-era being Mistress Ayn’s owned, chaste slave is not something that occurs – with, admittedly, a big bang – every few months at the FDM.  Rather it is a combination of multiple daily experiences to keep me focused in my role as Her slaveboy, to remind me of my devotion and commitment to Mistress Ayn in doing whatever She asks of me (that really could be very scary).

It is indeed amazing to recall how truly talented Mistress Ayn is as a Mistress, Keyholder and Owner and how terribly fortunate (not lucky! as She has taught me) i am to be Her slaveboy.

 

What’s a Skype session with a Dominatrix like?

Wednesday, 15 July 2020 18:28
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Distance Training with Atlanta Dominatrix Mistress Ayn

Curious about having a FemDom video session via Skype or Zoom?  You are not alone.

With social distancing still putting a damper on in person BDSM sessions, many subs are asking, “What’s a cam session like?”.  The real answer is there is no “typical” cam session but here are some things that I have done:

  • I had a sub slut dress himself in naughty lingerie and then stick household objects up his mangina.
  • A sub and his sub girlfriend “performed” for Me on video while I directed them to do things to each other.
  • One sub has an electrical unit that can be controlled on a desktop. I took control of his screen via Zoom and controlled the electrical while he was in self bondage
  • I ordered a sub to gather every item in his house that could possibly be “pervertable” and we methodically went through each one and perverted it.
  • I’ve done a double Skype with a porn star. She teased the sub with visuals of her body while I ordered him to do humiliating acts for our amusement.
  • I’ve had sissies dress, strip, dance and otherwise entertain Me while I called the shots. Some even practiced deep throating.
  • One sub was made to self administer an enema while I watched and then I decided when he could let it go. I watched the whole time of course.

The above are just a few specifics that come to mind.  Chastity is also a great option for play and obviously self directed CBT, spanks, nipple play, orgasm control  and such are staples for a video session.  If you have your own toys, great.  If not, we can make do with what you have sitting around the house or office.

If you know Me, you know I have a fabulous imagination.  Just because we are limited by distance doesn’t mean that I can’t control you and be entertained by you.  Miss sessioning with Me?  Do the next best thing and schedule a video session via Skype, Zoom or Facetime today.

Tributes: 30 minutes = $90, one hour = $170

Tributes are payable when the appointment is booked so I can reserve the time and plan accordingly.  Just like an in person session, you are expected to be on time.  If you are late, the clock starts ticking without you.  No shows forfeit the fee entirely. 
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