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Distance slave training and online FemDom sessions

Wednesday, 17 June 2020 22:00
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Online Slave Training

For those that can’t session in person or simply want to start or continue ongoing training via a digital format, the following online options are available. Click the links for more information about each program.

Online training works extremely well for a variety of submissive types and interests including chastity training, orgasm control,  JOI, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com to apply.

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Cuckold fantasy – making it real

Friday, 12 June 2020 19:29
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The concept of being cuckolded is quite common among men.  I hear it a lot in My industry – men fantasizing about their wives being with other men.  I agree it’s a hot fantasy but in practice I advise against it.   So much can go wrong that can end up tearing a couple apart, but it doesn’t mean you can’t safely enjoy the fantasy.  It just takes effort and imagination.

While doing some distance training with a couple it was revealed that the man had a long held cuckold fantasy and that the wife was resistant.  I gave them My stock advice to keep it in the fantasy realm but I also coached them on how to enjoy the fantasy.  Good fantasy fulfilment often involves at least a little mindfuckery and that’s exactly what we did.  The wife set up the fantasy by informing her husband that she had met someone online (they had been trolling cuckold forums/sites) that she wanted to meet in person.  She explained that she would feel better meeting this person out for a drink to break the ice and that she wanted to go alone so she wouldn’t feel inhibited.

She made her husband help her pick out her outfit and get dressed for the date, all the while telling him how excited she was to meet this guy. He asked her questions about him, she answered.  They made it real.

Once she got to the bar, she checked in as agreed and throughout the evening she sent her husband provocative texts, often leaving his texts unanswered, letting him stew.  She then announced that she was going to get into the car with the guy because the bar had gotten crowded and she wanted to get a look at his cock.  She later texted him a photo of an nicely endowed penis that was obviously taken on a cell phone in a car.  The husband started to doubt that this was just a fantasy . . .

This byplay continued for 3 hours while the husband got more and more aroused.  In addition to arousal he had feelings of jealousy and concern.  All of this is part of the cuckold game.

When she arrived home, she told him all the juicy details of her encounter including having impromptu sex in the guy’s car.  But now she was ready to fuck her husband and have him reclaim what was his.  He was to get the bedroom ready while she changed.  During this time, she rubbed some of her husband’s cum (saved from a previous scene) on her pussy.  When she stipped down for him, she instructed him to clean the other man’s cum from her pussy with his mouth.  The sex that followed was described as “amazing” by them both.

With some effort and roleplay you can make most any fantasy realistic and safe.  I debriefed them both via Skype after the scene and the wife (who had never quite “gotten” the fantasy) said she was extremely aroused during the scene.  Knowing that she was pulling her husbands strings was a power trip and then seeing how excited he was when she returned home made her excited too.  It was a win win.

A review of this couple’s online BDSM training including reference to this cuckolding scene can be found on The Buzz.

**Note:  My opinions are My own and may not be shared by others.  I do not hold Myself out as an expert on cuckolding but I do live a polyamorous lifestyle.  Along the way I have encountered other poly couples, swingers, cucks, hotwives, etc and My opinions about cuckolding come from those experiences.

Remote Keyholding and Online Chastity Programs

Thursday, 11 June 2020 16:48
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Chastity Keyholding for serious submission

In order for Me to be your keyholder you must be serious about being in chastity and be willing to give up control of your orgasms for a negotiated period of time.  If you are looking for someone to lock you up so you can then beg for release in a few hours or days, that is chastity fetish play, and this program is not for you.

Chastity Keyholder

Chastity Key Holding programs:

Basic key holding – $150 per month

Limited interaction.  One ordered orgasm per month.

 

Intermediate key holding –  $300 per month

Interaction every 10 days with specific instructions when unlocked.  Membership to My Fan Page on LoyalFans, that includes unlimited videos and other media  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  One supervised orgasm or edging session via webcam per month.

 

Advanced key holding – $500 per month

More frequent communication. Weekly tasks, random checks, tease and denial, supervised orgasms or edging.  Membership to My Fan Page.  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  Three webcam sessions/check-ins per month.

 

What you will need:

  • Chastity device – I will advise if you don’t already have one
  • Numbered plastic locks (if you don’t have a key safe)
  • Key safe
  • Suggested toys:  Hitachi magic wand or similar, butt plug set, dildo, prostate massager, etc.

I take chastity seriously.  Giving control of your orgasm to another is the ultimate act of submission and can be life changing for those that experience it correctly.  Chastity can re-focus your energies and clear your mind, make you feel connected to the female id, enable better orgasms (when you are allowed to have them) and potentially raise your self esteem.

All programs require a minimum commitment of one month.

FAQ

Q:  Will I be able to have an orgasm?

A:  Yes.  I think it is necessary that the male have a least one orgasm per month and I require that as a minimum.

 

Q:  If I need to get out of My cage temporarily for travel, doctors appointments, etc. is this allowed?

A:  Yes, under strict guidelines.

 

Q:  If I decide chastity is not for Me can I cancel?

A:  Yes, but you will not be accepted back into one of My chastity programs and no money will be refunded.  If you quit, it’s final.

 

Q:  I don’t currently have a device.  Will you help Me choose one?

A:  Yes.

 

Q:  Can I have you be my keyholder and have it culminate in an in person session?

A:  Yes, but if the time frame is short term, chastity fetish play may be more appropriate.

To inquire about being accepted into My chastity keyholder program, email Me via Contact the Mistress page of My website.

 

 

 

FAQ #33: What is chastity fetish play?

Tuesday, 09 June 2020 14:35
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virtual chastityThere is serious chastity and there is play chastity.  Chastity fetish play is just that, play.  If you are looking for someone to control your orgasms on a short term basis to make you excited, enhance your libido and then listen to you beg – then short term chastity fetish play is for you.

I often use this type of orgasm control prior to a session.  A submissive locks up a few days (to a few weeks) prior to serving Me in person.  I tease him and deny him by making him look at photos or videos of Me, unable to touch, and he soon becomes desperate to do as I command.   It keeps the sub focused on his upcoming service and puts him in a proper state of mind starting well ahead of the session.

For this type of chastity, you don’t need an expensive device.  This can even be done with “virtual chastity” where no device is used, you are just on the honor system.  With all chastity, if you cheat, you are just cheating yourself.

To add some chastity play to an upcoming session or engage in some short term play online, send Me an email at ayn@mistressayn.com to inquire.  If you are interested in serious chastity with a key holder, I provide that service too.

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #24

Friday, 29 May 2020 14:25
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Installment #24 – My first overnight Hush training session  – by slaveboy jaime

The Hush is a vibrating anal plug that offers control at both close range and long distance.  This means that Mistress Ayn can order me to insert the Hush and play in the privacy of Her FemDom Mansion but also to take control when She is 700 miles away.  She can create patterns or order me to access established patterns of vibration at varying speed.  A few initial sessions showed me that the Hush was a safe, exhilarating, and addictive anal play toy.

The use of the Hush took a dramatic step forward when Mistress Ayn ordered me to insert the Hush late one night and then go to bed with my phone nearby.  She was able – at Her complete discretion – to access control of the Hush.  She decided when She would engage the Hush, what patterns would play, how long the patterns would play, and could exchange text messages with me during the play.

After i had drifted off to sleep for about an hour, i felt the pulsating Hush in my ass, now controlled by Mistress Ayn, awaking me to a completely new sensation.  Off and on for over an hour, Mistress Ayn would initiate and then stop different vibration patterns.  i never knew when She would start up a new pattern or how long She would allow a pattern to run.  i did not know when this early morning (starting around 1:30 am) would end or if it would ever end – the Hush has a long-lasting battery.

Besides the powerful physical sensations, having Mistress Ayn take control of my life through anal play was an awakening emotionally.  She controlled what i felt, the length of the stimulation and the type of stimulation.  i was reduced to simply reacting to Her sadistic whims, which i treasure and adore as Her slaveboy.

Step by step, in my life as Her slaveboy, Mistress Ayn has taken more intense control of me: initially by placing me in indefinite chastity, then ordering me to wear panties 24/7, then having my nipples pierced while visiting Her one day in Atlanta, and now by invading me through my ass and dictating the level of pleasure and discomfort in the middle of the night.

The rush of Her forceful control and my unlimited submissiveness was intense that first night of Hush play and had me eagerly awaiting if Mistress Ayn would continue this play the next night – She did not – or the following week.  Thus, i was forced to wait, only available to respond, never dictate or control.  i am addicted to being Her slaveboy and now that means being available to Her at any time overnight and submit to Her playful torture using the Hush.

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