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Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – COVID special edition

Friday, 25 September 2020 13:23
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Special COVID edition by slaveboy.

W/we are firmly in the grips of a COVID-era and my slave training now occurs long distance, yet Mistress Ayn is still very powerfully in control.  It would be easy to become negative and lament not having a forthcoming scheduled weekend at the FemDom Mansion – as would “regularly” occur – but W/we are not living in “regular times” these days.  Alternatively, there are daily activities that remind me of my status as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy, in chastity and collared, such as my morning walks.  During the walk i focus on how many things Mistress Ayn has introduced to establish Her daily presence in my life.

While wanting to “try out” a chastity cage was my idea, i did ask Mistress Ayn to be my Keyholder.  But, She introduced the terrifying word – “indefinite” – into chastity wearing and now i am in chastity indefinitely.  She also ordered me to purchase a pink cage, then a pink with gold sparkles cage, and now a smaller black cage for those special “formal” occasions.

While dressing as a sissy was fun and humiliating at the FDM, Mistress Ayn ordered me to wear panties every day, and i am, and it is amazing.

Obviously it was Mistress’s idea to pierce my nipples.  It is incredible and does remind me, in yet another way, that i am Her slaveboy … indefinitely .. and, of course, the posts are pink.

i began daily morning walk, mostly for physical health reasons, yet Mistress Ayn challenged me to extend the route, which i have.  She also ordered me to insert the Hush during these walks, which i have.

In addition to all those ways Mistress Ayn is with me every single day as my Mistress, i never know when i might get an email from Her with orders.  i check my “slaveboy” email account twice a day – at least – hoping (and dreading) for an email from my Mistress, never knowing what She will command me to do.

Will i be allowed to unlock Her chastity cage?  Will i receive sexual relief to the daily frustration of indefinite chastity?   Will it be a ruined orgasm, or full orgasm, but always, if there is discharge, to consume every drop.

In this COVID-era being Mistress Ayn’s owned, chaste slave is not something that occurs – with, admittedly, a big bang – every few months at the FDM.  Rather it is a combination of multiple daily experiences to keep me focused in my role as Her slaveboy, to remind me of my devotion and commitment to Mistress Ayn in doing whatever She asks of me (that really could be very scary).

It is indeed amazing to recall how truly talented Mistress Ayn is as a Mistress, Keyholder and Owner and how terribly fortunate (not lucky! as She has taught me) i am to be Her slaveboy.

 

What’s a Skype session with a Dominatrix like?

Wednesday, 15 July 2020 18:28
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Distance Training with Atlanta Dominatrix Mistress Ayn

Curious about having a FemDom video session via Skype or Zoom?  You are not alone.

With social distancing still putting a damper on in person BDSM sessions, many subs are asking, “What’s a cam session like?”.  The real answer is there is no “typical” cam session but here are some things that I have done:

  • I had a sub slut dress himself in naughty lingerie and then stick household objects up his mangina.
  • A sub and his sub girlfriend “performed” for Me on video while I directed them to do things to each other.
  • One sub has an electrical unit that can be controlled on a desktop. I took control of his screen via Zoom and controlled the electrical while he was in self bondage
  • I ordered a sub to gather every item in his house that could possibly be “pervertable” and we methodically went through each one and perverted it.
  • I’ve done a double Skype with a porn star. She teased the sub with visuals of her body while I ordered him to do humiliating acts for our amusement.
  • I’ve had sissies dress, strip, dance and otherwise entertain Me while I called the shots. Some even practiced deep throating.
  • One sub was made to self administer an enema while I watched and then I decided when he could let it go. I watched the whole time of course.

The above are just a few specifics that come to mind.  Chastity is also a great option for play and obviously self directed CBT, spanks, nipple play, orgasm control  and such are staples for a video session.  If you have your own toys, great.  If not, we can make do with what you have sitting around the house or office.

If you know Me, you know I have a fabulous imagination.  Just because we are limited by distance doesn’t mean that I can’t control you and be entertained by you.  Miss sessioning with Me?  Do the next best thing and schedule a video session via Skype, Zoom or Facetime today.

Tributes: 30 minutes = $90, one hour = $170

Tributes are payable when the appointment is booked so I can reserve the time and plan accordingly.  Just like an in person session, you are expected to be on time.  If you are late, the clock starts ticking without you.  No shows forfeit the fee entirely. 

Distance slave training and online FemDom sessions

Wednesday, 17 June 2020 22:00
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Online Slave Training

For those that can’t session in person or simply want to start or continue ongoing training via a digital format, the following online options are available. Click the links for more information about each program.

Online training works extremely well for a variety of submissive types and interests including chastity training, orgasm control,  JOI, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com to apply.

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Cuckold fantasy – making it real

Friday, 12 June 2020 19:29
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The concept of being cuckolded is quite common among men.  I hear it a lot in My industry – men fantasizing about their wives being with other men.  I agree it’s a hot fantasy but in practice I advise against it.   So much can go wrong that can end up tearing a couple apart, but it doesn’t mean you can’t safely enjoy the fantasy.  It just takes effort and imagination.

While doing some distance training with a couple it was revealed that the man had a long held cuckold fantasy and that the wife was resistant.  I gave them My stock advice to keep it in the fantasy realm but I also coached them on how to enjoy the fantasy.  Good fantasy fulfilment often involves at least a little mindfuckery and that’s exactly what we did.  The wife set up the fantasy by informing her husband that she had met someone online (they had been trolling cuckold forums/sites) that she wanted to meet in person.  She explained that she would feel better meeting this person out for a drink to break the ice and that she wanted to go alone so she wouldn’t feel inhibited.

She made her husband help her pick out her outfit and get dressed for the date, all the while telling him how excited she was to meet this guy. He asked her questions about him, she answered.  They made it real.

Once she got to the bar, she checked in as agreed and throughout the evening she sent her husband provocative texts, often leaving his texts unanswered, letting him stew.  She then announced that she was going to get into the car with the guy because the bar had gotten crowded and she wanted to get a look at his cock.  She later texted him a photo of an nicely endowed penis that was obviously taken on a cell phone in a car.  The husband started to doubt that this was just a fantasy . . .

This byplay continued for 3 hours while the husband got more and more aroused.  In addition to arousal he had feelings of jealousy and concern.  All of this is part of the cuckold game.

When she arrived home, she told him all the juicy details of her encounter including having impromptu sex in the guy’s car.  But now she was ready to fuck her husband and have him reclaim what was his.  He was to get the bedroom ready while she changed.  During this time, she rubbed some of her husband’s cum (saved from a previous scene) on her pussy.  When she stipped down for him, she instructed him to clean the other man’s cum from her pussy with his mouth.  The sex that followed was described as “amazing” by them both.

With some effort and roleplay you can make most any fantasy realistic and safe.  I debriefed them both via Skype after the scene and the wife (who had never quite “gotten” the fantasy) said she was extremely aroused during the scene.  Knowing that she was pulling her husbands strings was a power trip and then seeing how excited he was when she returned home made her excited too.  It was a win win.

A review of this couple’s online BDSM training including reference to this cuckolding scene can be found on The Buzz.

**Note:  My opinions are My own and may not be shared by others.  I do not hold Myself out as an expert on cuckolding but I do live a polyamorous lifestyle.  Along the way I have encountered other poly couples, swingers, cucks, hotwives, etc and My opinions about cuckolding come from those experiences.

Remote Keyholding and Online Chastity Programs

Thursday, 11 June 2020 16:48
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Chastity Keyholding for serious submission

In order for Me to be your keyholder you must be serious about being in chastity and be willing to give up control of your orgasms for a negotiated period of time.  If you are looking for someone to lock you up so you can then beg for release in a few hours or days, that is chastity fetish play, and this program is not for you.

Chastity Keyholder

Chastity Key Holding programs:

Basic key holding – $150 per month

Limited interaction.  One ordered orgasm per month.

Intermediate key holding –  $300 per month

Interaction every 10 days with specific instructions when unlocked.  Membership to My Fan Page on LoyalFans, that includes unlimited videos and other media  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  One supervised orgasm or edging session via webcam per month.

Advanced key holding – $500 per month

More frequent communication. Weekly tasks, random checks, tease and denial, supervised orgasms or edging.  Membership to My Fan Page.  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  Two or three webcam sessions/check-ins per month.

What you will need:

  • Chastity device – I will advise if you don’t already have one
  • Numbered plastic locks (if you don’t have a key safe)
  • Key safe
  • Suggested toys:  Hitachi magic wand or similar, butt plug set, dildo, prostate massager, etc.

I take chastity seriously.  Giving control of your orgasm to another is the ultimate act of submission and can be life changing for those that experience it correctly.  Chastity can re-focus your energies and clear your mind, make you feel connected to the female id, enable better orgasms (when you are allowed to have them) and potentially raise your self esteem.

All programs require a minimum commitment of one month.

FAQ

Q:  Will I be able to have an orgasm?

A:  Yes.  I think it is necessary that the male have a least one orgasm per month and I require that as a minimum.

Q:  If I need to get out of My cage temporarily for travel, doctors appointments, etc. is this allowed?

A:  Yes, under strict guidelines.

Q:  If I decide chastity is not for Me can I cancel?

A:  Yes, but you will not be accepted back into one of My chastity programs and no money will be refunded.  If you quit, it’s final.

Q:  I don’t currently have a device.  Will you help Me choose one?

A:  Yes.

Q:  Can I have you be my keyholder and have it culminate in an in person session?

A:  Yes, but if the time frame is short term, chastity fetish play may be more appropriate.

To inquire about being accepted into My chastity keyholder program, email Me via Contact the Mistress page of My website.

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