Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Remote BDSM couples training – a review

I work extensively with couples so when one of My regular couples contacted Me about distance training during COVID, I jumped at the chance to have this experience together.   We agreed that the month of training would be a combination of My controlling them while coaching and pushing them to create more exciting scenes with each other.  Because they are Switches we were able to pass the baton of domination back and forth throughout the month.

We ended up with some pretty fantastic scenes that included creative build up, intense teasing and denial, pushing limits like cum eating, mind fuckery and an amazing cuckold fantasy that really had both their juices flowing.  Here are some excerpts from their review on the Buzz.

“Mistress Ayn instructed my Goddess to tease me immensely and also make sure I smelled her wet panties. During the first session, I did have an accident as my Goddess told me to fuck her even harder and for that, Mistress Ayn and my Goddess gave me proper punishment over the next couple of days.”

“To her surprise, it wasn’t over. She was ramped up and teased again, over and over, until she was experiencing emotions where she wanted to cum but also wanted to cry because of the sheer torture of using her clit and pussy. After this was complete, I took her and used her more until she was exhausted.”

“Throughout the evening, I received texts from my Goddess about the gentlemen she was “with” and the exciting things she was doing with him. When my Goddess did return home, she had me reclaim her and used some cum Mistress Ayn had her save during this month together and put on her so I had the feeling of reclaiming a used pussy. In prep for this, my Goddess was quite unsure how to do it and Mistress Ayn did a fabulous job of coaching and reinforcement.

To read the entire review, visit The Buzz.

Interested in online domination for couples and individuals?  Ask Me how.  Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com or visit My Atlanta Dominatrix website.

FemDom Sessions resume in Atlanta

Atlanta Dominatrix - Mistress AynYes, I am taking in person sessions.  I have always been a relatively low volume Domme.  My tribute is a little higher and My average session length is 2 hours, so I typically don’t see multiple subs per day – especially now.

If  you are concerned about sanitation, don’t be.  A well kept Dungeon is one of the cleanest environments you can be in.  At Atlanta Dungeon our practice has always been to sterilize each piece of equipment after use and to disinfect all furniture you come in contact with during a session.  With COVID-19 our practices are even more strenuous and includes a wipe down of furniture both before and after your session along with disinfecting commonly touched surfaces like door knobs, faucet handles, etc. before and after each session.  Remember, our industry is used to protecting its clients from fluid borne pathogens, so we always use hospital grade cleansers like CaviCide, Barbicide (dimethyl benzyl ammonium chloride), along with bleach and alcohol.

Additional requirements:

  • When you are sent to the bathroom to prepare you will be required to wash your hands thoroughly.
  • A masks is not required but I will wear one if you prefer.

To help make sure I keep you and Myself safe, I am still practicing “social distancing” outside of work.  I am not going to the gym, eating out (unless outside) or socializing beyond My core group.  Obviously everyone has to make their own decisions when it comes to risks but I want My submissives to know that I have their safety as well as My own in the forefront of My mind

If you can’t do an in person session, I am still offering online domination packages that include, phone, Skype, Zoom, email/task packages and custom video and audio.

So if you need a little escape from the world ending, come and get your kink on.

Contact Mistress Ayn – Professional Dominatrix in Atlanta, Georgia

Review of online distance training

These are different times.  For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions.  During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away.  If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger.  As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated.  The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of My subs.

Sub john, a long time submissive that normally does monthly sessions, shared his experience and thoughts of his first two weeks of distance training.  The full review can be read on The Buzz.

I think think there are many lessons to be learned through adversity.  One I have learned is that it’s a good thing to explore new ways of connecting to My stable of submissives.  Phone, Skype and even email can bring us closer and enrich the relationship.  Going forward I plan to continue to offer limited distance training and connections via phone and Skype.

If you have been looking for a way to submit and are interested in distance training, take a look at My current online training options.

Atlanta Dominatrix offers distance training and online options for submission

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #23

Installment #23 – The Role of Fear in Our (Mistress Ayn-slaveboy) Relationship

In most relationships (as in life) fear is something that is desperately avoided.  Generally, fear is understood as a weak emotion that should be controlled.  Yet, i am learning in my relationship as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy that fear is something that must be embraced.

In O/our relationship, my fear spawns from the reality that Mistress Ayn is completely in control of all things, especially what happens to me.  Even long distance, She dictates chastity release, panties wearing, nipple piercings, anal play, and so much more.  When in Her presence, She determines what i eat and drink, wear, behave, whom i serve, and so much more.  She decides everything and i simply surrender to Her control, although fear remains part of what i am feeling given the unknown and degree She pushes me to be a better slave.

In O/our relationship, my fear indicates that Mistress Ayn is about to expose me to something i had not experienced before or perhaps not even considered or wanted.  As a frequent masturbator, i never imagined wearing a chastity cage indefinitely.  As a traditional male, i did not consider becoming a pantie wearing submissive.  In my vanilla life, getting a piercing was not on my list of desires.  Yet, She knows what i need and will impose it upon Her slave despite my fear.

In O/our relationship, my fear signifies that i must turn to trust, as in trusting in my Mistress.  Trusting that: She will hurt me, but never harm me; She will push my limits, but never beyond what i can take; She will give another Mistress control over me, but has established ground rules with the Mistress that She knows well; and She will always be there for me as i face my fears.

This is my thinking that helps me learn to embrace my fear in O/our relationship and by doing so i have come to understand that a healthy amount of fear makes sense in O/our relationship and allows O/our relationship to grow and for me to trust Mistress Ayn even more with each new experience.  Embracing my fear as an essential element in O/our relationship has enabled me to build a strong commitment in trusting my Mistress and that is all that truly matters for me, Her slaveboy, in O/our relationship.

 

Your obedient and submissive slaveboy

FemDom Mansion – Mistress Fantasy Weekend

Female Domination in a luxurious environment

 

FemDom Mansion is known for its over the top, luxurious FemDom events. March’s event was no exception.  This time the Dommes each got to live out a personal fantasy with Ayn’s slave boy (a regular visitor to the Mansion).  Think you have some great fantasies?  Well, Dommes have awesome fantasies and we made them happen in grand style.  A kidnapping and stripping in broad daylight . . . an interrogation scene that utilized a Sawzall  . . . Lesbian domination that was weaponized . . .  read all about it and see more photos documenting another fully immersive event into the female led lifestyle.

To find out more about this event and others or to book your own 24hour+ experience, visit the FemDom Mansion website.

FemDom Mansion is located in Atlanta, Georgia and is overseen by Mistress Ayn.

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