Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

FAQ #30 – Are you into financial domination?

Monday, 24 September 2018 18:30
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I am often asked if I will participate in financial domination or blackmail scenarios.  The short answer is “no”.  I will occasionally play around with it as a theme on a NiteFlirt call or make you pay for unauthorized orgasms, but that’s about the extent of it.  I have no interest in any sort of long-term FinDom relationship.

Why?  I don’t find it particularly fun.  I don’t enjoy playing the bratty girl that expects you to open your wallet just because I tell you.  Call Me old fashioned but I think there should be some value for any sort of financial exchange and I can’t really wrap My head around a sub wanting that kind of domination.  In addition, I would never blackmail a client in reality, so pretending that I would just seems forced.  I’ve read extensively about financial domination, I’ve experimented with it and I just don’t find that it is for Me.

My lack of interest in it does not invalidate it as a real fetish or a real form of domination.  I get that there are submissives that see turning over their finances to a dominant woman to be the ultimate surrender of their private space and a powerful aphrodisiac.  I mean no disrespect to FinDommes that are good at their trade (although I think there are precious few of them that are genuinely good).  As long as the Domme acts responsibly and the sub is consenting, I have no issues with it.  But there is the rub.  Since FinDom is practiced primarily online, a new breed of Dominatrix has sprung up and problems are starting to arise.  More than one case has actually turned criminal when a FinDomme released private information about a client to the public because he refused to continue the roleplay.

If you seek financial domination, choose your FinDom Mistress wisely.  Negotiate the real world implications and have a written record of that negotiation.  The more exposed you really are, the more real and powerful it may feel, but the results, if things go wrong, could be catastrophic to your real life.

FemDom sessions in Washington, DC September 17th – 19th

Tuesday, 21 August 2018 13:06
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Once again I am heading to the Nation’s Capital to administer some artful Female styled discipline.  For 3 days only I will be holding court and training submissives.  I am booking now for September 17th – 19th and My schedule is usually full well before I arrive, so book early to secure a place at My feet.

**UPDATE:  The 19th is fully booked.  There are still a few evening openings on the 17th and 18th.**

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship – I have an extensive shoe collection and requests in advance are entertained.
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, urethral sounds, enema play, stretching, toy play
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done. I will be hosting in a suite in an upscale hotel convenient to the Metro. The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays. I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from noon until 10pm. I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously. My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium. If we have not sessioned together before, a deposit will be required to book.

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Reviews from DC sessions:

“It is easy to be intimidated by Mistress Ayn if you are a vanilla couple looking for some extra fun. Her website is impressive and features all kinds of devices that look scary to the uninitiated. But do not let that deter you. For a couple looking to explore a new experience she is the perfect Mistress. She puts you immediately at ease and is willing to listen and explore your ideas.” – Read Full Review on The Mistress Review.

“If she so desired, Mistress Ayn could spit roast you just by herself. I think I would describe this as Wicked and Wild. Her imagination is unlimited.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“Each time we visit with her, the intensity level seems to increase. I can’t wait to see what she has planned next time. Her mind is truly devious and diabolical.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“This was my first session with Mistress Ayn and her insight and skills enabled her to push all my buttons. I am not a newbie but I feel re-energized by Mistress Ayn. She is both beautiful and sensual but perhaps her best asset is her ability to create a fantastic mind fuck. If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend you book time with her.” Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

Doubles all week with Goddess Samantha

Tuesday, 14 August 2018 08:16
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The week of August 20th brings something unique: both Goddess Samantha and I will both be in town and conducting sessions at Atlanta Dungeon. We decided to celebrate and you are the one that gets the present. We are offering doubles for the tribute of $400 per hour. If you have ever sessioned with Us before you know what great chemistry we have. If not, check out some of our videos together to see what you might have in store . . .

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Double sessions are available daily from 2pm-8pm all week.  An application and a deposit are required to book.

 

 

She’s baaaack! Simone Kross Returns.

Tuesday, 07 August 2018 16:11
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She’s baaaack!  Simone Kross returns to Atlanta Dungeon August 15th – 18th.  We had an awesome time doing doubles on Her last visit and hope to have fun on this and other upcoming visits.  I will be busy with a FemDom Mansion event the 15th and 16th (Simone is joining Me for some of that excitement as well) so I will only be available for doubles on Friday, August 17th.  This is a ONE DAY ONLY opportunity, so book now.

Doubles are available at a tribute of $400 per hour. Simone’s solo tribute is $300 per hour, so this is an excellent value.  Note that Mistress Simone is available for solo bookings August 15th – 18th  and can be booked by contacting her direct at – mistresssimonekross@gmail.com. For more information about Simone Kross visit her website: MistressSimoneKross.com.

An application and a deposit are required to book.

Why I don’t do same day sessions.

Tuesday, 24 July 2018 23:14
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Do you do same day sessions?

The short answer is “no”. Occasionally I will take a last minute request from a sub that I have sessioned with in the past, but I have to be familiar with his interests and it must fit within My schedule that day.

There are two main reasons I don’t accept same day session requests:

1. Subs that request last minute sessions tend to be the worst sort of clients. Many subs will ask for sessions on short notice because they know the Domme won’t have time to properly vet them. This is an old trick that those of Us that have been around for a while are wise to. Clients making last minute requests are also the ones that most frequently “no show”, show up late, have poor etiquette, etc.  In general, I prefer to session with a client that is not impetuous about sessioning, but instead plans for it and anticipates it.

2.  I like to mull over a session in My mind for a while.  It’s part of the process that I enjoy about sessioning.  It’s also one of the reasons I think I am very good at what I do.  I don’t just show up and go through a checklist of your interests.  My sessions are crafted to fit your interests and My current mood.  A last minute/same day session deprives Me of that.

Lastly is My schedule:  As a Dominant, I tend to want to be in control of everything in My life.  (That should not be a surprise.)  That includes My schedule.  When I retire for the evening, I like to have a clear idea of what the following day will bring.  A request for a same day session puts a kink in My plans, which is another reason I seldom grant them – even to subs that are known to Me.  I think it is a common misconception that a Dominatrix rolls out of bed, puts on Her boots and then sits around waiting for clients.  That may be true in a “house” like Pandora’s Box or similar establishments where Ladies work a shift, but that is not the case with independent Dommes like Me and most of the other Mistresses in the industry.

In short, I would prefer to pass up a session that doesn’t give Me adequate time to plan the session and vet the client.

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