Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Catch Me while you can. Scheduling last sessions of the year.

Monday, 16 October 2017 22:40
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Last sessions for 2017

If you have been putting off scheduling a session, now is the time to act.  The upcoming holidays are just around the corner and I will be taking a sabbatical starting the week of November 19th through December 26th – and possibly until the first of the year.  Book now to get your final training sessions in before I am gone . . . otherwise, you will have to wait until next year.

 

Upcoming travel

Washington, DC:  October 30th – November 1st.  My schedule in DC is almost completely booked so if you are looking for a session while I am there, act now.  For more information about that trip click here.

Charlotte, NC:  I am trying to organize a final trip to Charlotte this year.  Tentative dates are November 13th and 14th or another combination of dates during the week of November 12th.  If you are interested in seeing Me in Charlotte, let Me know so I can plan accordingly.

 

Filming

I am also going to try to get at least one more filming day in, so if you have been fantasizing about a custom clip, inquire now.  New content from a shoot with Syren Productions is hitting AynRules.com now and some new POVs are on their way too.  To subscribe, visit Aynrules.com.

 

There is still time to book your “ultimate” experience.  Check out FemDom Mansion.

 

 

Trick or Treat? FemDom Sessions in Washington, D.C.

Sunday, 01 October 2017 14:42
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aynclgfxsReturning to the Nation’s Capital October 30th – November 1st.

As the weather starts to cool down, I intend to heat things up.  This will be My last visit to DC this year, so make sure you reserve a place at My feet.  FemDom/BDSM sessions are available October 30th – November 1st.  My schedule is usually full well before I arrive, so book now to secure My attention.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
Bondage – from the light to the extreme
CBT (Cock and ball torment)
Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship – I have an extensive shoe collection and requests in advance are entertained.
Humiliation and degradation
Medical Play – including naughty exams, urethral sounds, enema play, stretching, toy play
Nipple torture
Strap on Worship / Training
Tease and Denial
Toilet training – golden only
Trampling
Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
Wax play
Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done. I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm. I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously. If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well-known Domme or a deposit will be required.

Click here to Complete an Application

Reviews from DC sessions:

“It is easy to be intimidated by Mistress Ayn if you are a vanilla couple looking for some extra fun. Her website is impressive and features all kinds of devices that look scary to the uninitiated. But do not let that deter you. For a couple looking to explore a new experience she is the perfect Mistress. She puts you immediately at ease and is willing to listen and explore your ideas.” – Read Full Review on The Mistress Review.

“If she so desired, Mistress Ayn could spit roast you just by herself. I think I would describe this as Wicked and Wild. Her imagination is unlimited.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“Each time we visit with her, the intensity level seems to increase. I can’t wait to see what she has planned next time. Her mind is truly devious and diabolical.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“This was my first session with Mistress Ayn and her insight and skills enabled her to push all my buttons. I am not a newbie but I feel re-energized by Mistress Ayn. She is both beautiful and sensual but perhaps her best asset is her ability to create a fantastic mind fuck. If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend you book time with her.” Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

FemDom sessions in Charlotte, NC August 23rd – 25th

Thursday, 03 August 2017 10:50
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as1a (2)e flair small**Note:  My trip has been extended through Friday, August 25th. **  Only a few openings remain.  Book now.

It’s been too long since the boys of Charlotte have felt My particular brand of Dominance and if you behave, your wait will almost be over.  I will be returning to Charlotte on August 23rd and will be available for sessions from noon until 9pm on the 23rd and 24th.  This time I will be hosting in a well equipped private dungeon in the University area – about 20 minutes from the city center.

I will also be filming with Syren Productions, so film slaves are welcome to contact Me about serving Me in that capacity.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.   I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.  If you are a sissy looking for dress up, let Me know your sizes so I can pack appropriately.

I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.   My schedule in Charlotte usually fills quickly so openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well-known Domme or a deposit will be required.  Deposits can be paid via CashMe.com, Google Wallet or Amazon gift card.

Click here to Complete an Application

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Can’t make it to a session this time?  Then serve Me via Niteflirt, purchase My Clips or join My Fan Site.

Doubles with Goddess Sonia

Wednesday, 02 August 2017 18:43
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soniacat1gfs_smallHelp Me welcome a new Sister to the collective of Dommes at Atlanta Dungeon – Goddess Sonia. Sonia may be new to the dungeon, but She is not new to the scene.  She has been doing fetish films and distance training for quite some time, so she is very adept at getting into your head.  Recently She joined Me in several sessions and in filming and We had a total blast, so I want to do more with Her.

The total package:  She is beautiful, well-educated and a true intellectual.  Born in Europe, Goddess Sonia soaked up the culture and diversity of the Continent before relocating to the U.S.  Fluent in Spanish and English, her grammar and diction are perfect for commanding the lowly sub to do her bidding.

The week of August 14th will find Us both in residence at Atlanta Dungeon and it’s the perfect time to schedule a double with Us.  The tribute for doubles is $400 per hour. To schedule, contact Me directly at ayn@mistressayn.com.

More about Goddess Sonia.

If I have not sessioned with you previously an application is required.

Chastity and the hormones connection

Friday, 28 July 2017 17:29
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I love the idea of male chastity.  The practicalities are often a challenge and on this blog, you will find articles about chastity devices, experiences and so forth.  To add to the topic, I asked one of My sissy chastity subs to share his thoughts on hormones and their impact on chastity and vice versa.  Here are his fruits of his assignment:

My name is Sissy Jennifer and I am a chastity sub.  In my previous life, I did research on hormones—mostly estradiol and testosterone—so I am always talking to Mistress Ayn about the effects of hormones on my chastity.  Mistress Ayn asked me to write about hormones and chastity because she thought her blog readers might be interested.  Please note that what I wrote below applies to men, as the response of women to the same hormones may be different.

Although a myriad of hormones affects chastity, only three are of real importance.  The first hormone is dopamine or the “pleasure” hormone.  The intense pleasure associated with orgasm is caused by an extra burst of dopamine released in the brain.  High levels of dopamine are associated with well-being and a high libido. After an orgasm, dopamine levels drop dramatically, and it takes awhile for them to come back to normal.

The second hormone is prolactin or the “satiety” hormone.  Prolactin levels spike after an orgasm, and, in a sense, counteract high dopamine levels.  High prolactin levels are associated with lethargy, depression, and a low libido.  Like dopamine, it takes awhile for prolactin levels to decline back to normal. 

The release of prolactin isn’t good for relationships, so the body also produces a third hormone, oxytocin or the “cuddle” or “love” hormone.  High levels of oxytocin are associated with feelings of attachment and bonding.  Like dopamine, oxytocin is released in a burst after orgasm, but it doesn’t persist very long.

How does all of this mesh with a chastity sub?  Both dopamine and oxytocin rise during sexual arousal. The chastity device that a chastity sub wears contributes, in a modest way, to his low-level sexual arousal.  If a chastity sub is teased, then his dopamine and oxytocin levels increase even more.  In a best-case scenario, a chastity sub is kept in a state of relatively high sexual arousal.  This state helps explain the captioned image of a man in a chastity cage saying, “I prefer to keep it on” and why the expression “there is no denial without the tease” is true.  Neurologically, a chastity sub in a high state of sexual arousal grows to “enjoy” all the benefits of high dopamine and oxytocin, while avoiding the deleterious effects of prolactin. 

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