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All those pesky acronyms and abbreviations in BDSM

bus-1241459_1920For some reason kinksters love their acronyms.  Maybe it’s the need to be discrete in front of others or maybe it’s the geek in us wanting to have a secret lingo that only the “in crowd” understands.  Whatever the reason it can get cumbersome at times.  I remember a Domme texting Me once asking what NT meant.  A sub had listed his kinks in acronyms and she was drawing a blank on that one.  When I replied, “nipple torture”, she did the proverbial face palm.  Of course she knew what NT meant, but with all these to remember (plus subs occasionally make up their own) it can be difficult to recall them sometimes.

Recently on Twitter I announced that I was about to see a particular sub and listed the day’s menu in hashtag acronyms.  When he arrived at the dungeon he said he had been worrying all day what #SOT meant.  I pulled out My strap on and he got it – in more ways than one.

Below is a list some of the most common abbreviations used in Female Domination:

AB – Adult Baby
ATM – Ass to Mouth
BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
BDSM – Bondage & Discipline (BD) Dominance & submission (Ds) Sadism & Masochism (SM)
CBB – Cock and Ball Bondage
CBT – Cock and Ball Torture
CD – Crossdresser
CFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male
CP – Corporal Punishment
Cuck – Cuckold
D/s – Dominant/submissive
FEMDOM – Female Domination
FT or FTT – Full Toilet or Full Toilet Training
GS – Golden Shower
NT – Nipple Torture
OTK – Over The Knee
RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink
SPH – Small Penis Humiliation
SOT – Strap On Training
SOW – Strap On Worship
SSC – Safe Sane Consensual
TPE – Total Power Exchange
TS – Trans Sexual
WS – Water Sports

September 2016 – TER Review – posted by slverling123

In April of 2018 The Erotic Review blocked its website to US users due to the FOSTA bill that was passed into law.  As a result, US viewers cannot link directly to My reviews on TER unless they use a VPN (Virtual Private Network) that uses an IP address outside of the United States.  In lieu of that this review exists as a screenshot below.

If you are outside the US or are using a VPN, you can see this review here.

FemDom with a slave girl. A Review of My newest kitten – Ria Rocket

aynriaapt10gfsmall-2Sometimes adding a submissive little slave girl to the mix is just the right spice to liven up a long term D/s relationship.  One of My most loyal subjects schedules just such a session from time to time.  Here is his review of his latest with My newest kitten, Ria Rocket.

“Last week I was watching videos from Mistress Ayn’s fansite, aynrules.com when She introduced Her latest kitten, Ria Rocket. Didn’t take long for me to decide that I wanted another Cougar and Kitten session. . .

Ria is a petite, adorable kitten standing five feet tall and weighing in about 95 pounds with beautiful dark eyes that are almost hypnotic. . . .  Mistress Ayn’s kittens are notorious for getting session mates in trouble. Sure enough Mistress walked in and caught us exploring each other.

Ria knelt in front of me just out of reach and I was given permission to TRY to touch her nipples to distract me while an anal probe was inserted. Of course, being strapped to the bench made it almost impossible to reach Ria. Smiling that patented “I’ve got you now” smile, Mistress turned up the juice causing me to jerk forward reaching Ria’s nipples. Ria immediately let Mistress know I had succeeded in my quest causing a sharp increase in current not to mention a leather strap across by butt(told you Ria was naughty). Ria orgasms from pain very easily. Ria was moved even closer and I was instructed to “nip” her nipples making her orgasm. Mistress decided to punish Ria again for having an orgasm without permission. Now it was my turn to spank her. I started out gently but Mistress would have none of that. “Harder, paddles. I want that butt red right now”. “Yes, Mistress”, I replied quickly increasing the tempo and severity of my spanks.

Way too soon it was time for the grand finale. Neither of us had any idea what was coming but we quickly followed instructions. Ria on her back with me straddling her. The rest of the details must remain a mystery for the three of us to remember. Be careful what you ask for; you will get it in spades.”

This review appears on Max Fisch, The Hang.

Doubles with Gianna September 15th & 16th

Mistress Ayn and Gianna Monticello - The Cougar and Her kitten.

Mistress Ayn and Gianna Monticello – The Cougar and Her kitten.

Ms. Gianna Monticello hasn’t been in town much these days, but she will be visiting Atlanta Dungeon starting September 15th through the weekend. Double sessions are available this Thursday and Friday (Sept 15 & 16th), so don’t miss out on this rare opportunity.

Of all My kittens, Gianna has the sharpest claws. As a Switch she is as comfortable dishing it out as she is taking it. She is brilliant with role plays and has a sharp wit and mind.  If you are looking a session that’s just a little bit different, then a double with Gianna just might be the ticket.

If we have not sessioned together before, an application is necessary to book.  For more information about Cougar and kitten session, click here.

 

The vote is in and the contest was won.

contestIt’s official. Ayn’s Army Ruled. To the Victor goes the spoils!  A big thank you to everyone that voted and encouraged others to vote.  The final tally is no longer visible, but I heard the end result was around 3000 votes to the nearest competition’s 2000 votes.  That’s a respectable margin.

Another big thank you goes to Goblin Fruit Photography for the entry winning photo.

My bespoke corset has been ordered and another photo shoot will be in order once it is delivered.  Be sure to visit Corset Deal’s website.  They even have men’s corsets.

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