Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Review of online distance training

These are different times.  For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions.  During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away.  If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger.  As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated.  The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of My subs.

Sub john, a long time submissive that normally does monthly sessions, shared his experience and thoughts of his first two weeks of distance training.  The full review can be read on The Buzz.

I think think there are many lessons to be learned through adversity.  One I have learned is that it’s a good thing to explore new ways of connecting to My stable of submissives.  Phone, Skype and even email can bring us closer and enrich the relationship.  Going forward I plan to continue to offer limited distance training and connections via phone and Skype.

If you have been looking for a way to submit and are interested in distance training, take a look at My current online training options.

Atlanta Dominatrix offers distance training and online options for submission

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #23

Installment #23 – The Role of Fear in Our (Mistress Ayn-slaveboy) Relationship

In most relationships (as in life) fear is something that is desperately avoided.  Generally, fear is understood as a weak emotion that should be controlled.  Yet, i am learning in my relationship as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy that fear is something that must be embraced.

In O/our relationship, my fear spawns from the reality that Mistress Ayn is completely in control of all things, especially what happens to me.  Even long distance, She dictates chastity release, panties wearing, nipple piercings, anal play, and so much more.  When in Her presence, She determines what i eat and drink, wear, behave, whom i serve, and so much more.  She decides everything and i simply surrender to Her control, although fear remains part of what i am feeling given the unknown and degree She pushes me to be a better slave.

In O/our relationship, my fear indicates that Mistress Ayn is about to expose me to something i had not experienced before or perhaps not even considered or wanted.  As a frequent masturbator, i never imagined wearing a chastity cage indefinitely.  As a traditional male, i did not consider becoming a pantie wearing submissive.  In my vanilla life, getting a piercing was not on my list of desires.  Yet, She knows what i need and will impose it upon Her slave despite my fear.

In O/our relationship, my fear signifies that i must turn to trust, as in trusting in my Mistress.  Trusting that: She will hurt me, but never harm me; She will push my limits, but never beyond what i can take; She will give another Mistress control over me, but has established ground rules with the Mistress that She knows well; and She will always be there for me as i face my fears.

This is my thinking that helps me learn to embrace my fear in O/our relationship and by doing so i have come to understand that a healthy amount of fear makes sense in O/our relationship and allows O/our relationship to grow and for me to trust Mistress Ayn even more with each new experience.  Embracing my fear as an essential element in O/our relationship has enabled me to build a strong commitment in trusting my Mistress and that is all that truly matters for me, Her slaveboy, in O/our relationship.

 

Your obedient and submissive slaveboy

FemDom Mansion – Mistress Fantasy Weekend

Female Domination in a luxurious environment

 

FemDom Mansion is known for its over the top, luxurious FemDom events. March’s event was no exception.  This time the Dommes each got to live out a personal fantasy with Ayn’s slave boy (a regular visitor to the Mansion).  Think you have some great fantasies?  Well, Dommes have awesome fantasies and we made them happen in grand style.  A kidnapping and stripping in broad daylight . . . an interrogation scene that utilized a Sawzall  . . . Lesbian domination that was weaponized . . .  read all about it and see more photos documenting another fully immersive event into the female led lifestyle.

To find out more about this event and others or to book your own 24hour+ experience, visit the FemDom Mansion website.

FemDom Mansion is located in Atlanta, Georgia and is overseen by Mistress Ayn.

Online domination – email/task packages

I love controlling My subjects – any way I can.  Many people do not have adequate privacy to do a phone or Skype session, so I have developed a special email task program to satisfy our need for D/s.

Email/task program – $150 per week or $450 per month

  • Daily check in with Me is required via email or text
  • 2 tasks per week with proof of completion requirement
  • Random check ins via email or text are probable
  • Access to My fan page on LoyalFans

Tasks are centered around our common interests and can include CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, JOI, orgasm control, orgasm denial, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

I also enjoy feminization and slut training so you “gurls” that are looking for a Woman to take control have come to the right place.

Custom audio and video are also available.  If you can manage privacy for a call or Skype, by all means, let’s do it.

Supplemental:

Skype session – 30 minutes = $120

Phone session – 20 minutes = $60

Custom Audio – $125 up to 20 minutes in length

Custom FemDom POV Video – $250 up to 20 minutes in length

To discuss further, email Me at ayn@mistresayn.com

 

Let’s make it happen.

 

 

Online sessions and talk + Custom video now available

Mistress Ayn

During this time of social distancing I am currently offering both phone and Skype sessions by appointment.

Phone chat:  $50 per 20 minute block, $60 for 30 minutes

Phone sessions (instructional, task oriented, roleplay, specific fetish talk, etc.):  $65 minutes per 20 minute block, $80 for 30 minutes

Phone conversations and phone sessions are also available on NiteFlirt:   Call Button

For those that can’t make phone sessioning work, special text/email packages are also available.  Ask Me how.

In addition, custom FemDom audio and POV videos are available.

Custom audio starting at $100

Custom POV videos starting at $200

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com with your requests and to get a quote.

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