Category Archives: Miscellaneous Musings

Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive

Monday, 01 January 2024 13:19
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Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive.  This year is your year to make some changes and get out of your rut.  I suggest you embrace your submissive/feminine side and see just how good a submissive you can be.  Submission may just set you free.

If you have gotten out of the habit of seeing a Domme in real life, I can help with that.  Let’s start with some distance training and then I will send you to a reputable Domme I trust – if I can’t see you Myself.

If you have gotten into an indulgent cycle with anything from food to masturbation, I can help with that too.  Dommie knows best and I can create a task or chastity program that can get you on the right track – or else.

Has a lack of Female leadership left you feeling out of sorts?  Then submit, serve, learn and be tested – and yes, we can do much of this from a distance.

So let 2024 be the year of the submissive.  Contact Me direct about any questions or logistics – ayn@mistressayn.com.  Or do some investigating here.

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London FemDom Ball 2023

Tuesday, 17 October 2023 15:36
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This is an event I have been wanting to attend for years.  It has all the elements I adore:  glamor, elegance, powerful women and submissive men, serving us on a grand scale.  Madame Caramel’s FemDom Ball is a high protocol event like no other.  With over 130 dominant women attended by roughly 100 submissives – all adhering to a very strict dress code – it was a treat for the eye and the soul.  Mingling with women from all over the globe showing off their finery while sipping champagne and nibbling on canapes is something most only dream about.  My sub (slaveboy jaime) was super nervous, for good reason.  All subs attending had to stand behind us hooded and only moving when they were called into service.  You can see from the photo, it was a stunning sight.

My adventure actually started the day before at the Mistress Tea – also orchestrated by Madame Caramel.  The venue was steeped in old world elegance and the magnificent ladies dressed to impress turned heads on the street.  Inside, the comradery was real.  With no subs underfoot, we were well served by a trained staff and left to unfettered conversation while partaking a traditional English high tea service.

On the night of the ball, I was fortunate enough to be invited to sit at the Matriarch’s table and get a front row seat for the entertainment, raffle and more. Post ball there was an optional play party that lasted well into the night.  I found space to do a little CBT, breath play and whipping to reward My slaveboy for a night of well executed servitude.  To anyone who has considered attending this event, all I can say is “Do it!’.

But that’s not all I did in London.  After a day of rest, I moved slaveboy and Myself to London Dungeon Suites for a couple of days of BDSM play in a proper space.  Spoiler alert:  he survived – barely.  There are a few pics on Twitter of our play with the amazing Lady Scarlett.

A word about Madame Caramel:  I have observed and communicated with this Lady online for many years.  We were finally able to meet earlier this year at the FemDom Summit and I had an instant affinity for her.  There are few in the community that are as tireless at promoting and fostering the positive image of FemDom.  Her energy is boundless, her organization skills unmatched and she does it all with a smile that welcomes all.  

One year of adventure.

Tuesday, 26 September 2023 13:46
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One year ago today, I stepped off a plane in Amsterdam and embarked on an adventure.  Within a week I was in My new home country, Romania. It was exciting but also sad.  I was leaving so many people behind that I cared for deeply and although I knew I would see them again, it was certain to never be the same.  In addition, I had liquidated almost everything to downsize for the move.  That was no small feat – just ask the subs that helped.  FemDom Mansion alone took a herculean effort to dismantle.  I had such a wonderful collection of gear, but I learned from a previous adventure not to put anything in storage.  If you can live without something for a year, you didn’t need it.

And so it began, and one year later I do not regret it.  Today, on the one year anniversary, I spent a good bit of time dealing with the immigration process – again.  So, yes,  I am staying another year.  It’s hard to explain how it feels here . . .  relaxed, safe, away from the insanity that the USA had become and I am living My best life for where I am now.  I’ve visited Austria, Hungary and Bulgaria so far.  No, I haven’t learned Romanian yet.  In all honesty I haven’t tried, but now I that I know I will be here at least another year, I am going to make a better effort.  We shall see.

Additionally I am exploring the world of kink in Europe.  I’ve attended the FemDom Summit in Bucharest, visited the House of Sinn, collaborated with Ezada Sinn and next week I head to London again for the FemDom Ball.  Next year an event in Portugal is on My radar along with the German Fetish Weekend in Berlin and I plan to continue to spend time at the House of Sinn and get to know more of the visiting Mistresses there.

So life is good and everyday I walk outside to see a fairytale city where the people are friendly, the food is fresh, and the next adventure is just around the corner.  What more can a person ask for?

 

Visiting the House of Sinn

Friday, 15 September 2023 16:07
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Ezada Sinn and Mistress AynIt’s taken a while for Me to get My “kink legs” under Me since relocating to Romania, but it’s finally happened.  I am fortunate enough to have one of the top online Dommes in the world down the road in Bucharest – The Matriarch Ezada Sinn.  Ezada and I met back in April at her FemDom Summit and we made plans to collaborate.  Well, it’s finally happened in a big way.  Last week I spent a couple of days with The Matriarch in her element – The House of Sinn.

The House of Sinn project has been a vision of Mistress Ezada’s as she seeks to build a community of like minded Women and give them the venue to meet, collaborate, socialize and of course, create content.  I am very excited to be a part of this revolutionary concept and I plan to return on a regular basis.

I made a short video describing my stay at the House of Sinn and you can find it here:

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In addition to socializing, we managed to squeeze in some filming and the first clip is out!  Watch Ezada and I dish out the punishment and heavy humiliation to a remiss slave that failed to prepare My bathroom correctly.  Ezada and I bonded over this clip with shared laughter.

You can find it here:  The slave becomes the garbage can.

Support the House of Sinn by purchasing clips here:  House of Sinn

 

FemDom Summit in Bucharest 2023

Wednesday, 26 April 2023 13:36
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Over the years I have attended a number of FemDom events and had really lost My taste for them.  The posturing, the egos, the elaborate costuming . . .  after a while it lost its appeal.  But when I heard Mistress Ezada Sinn was hosting a summit specifically for collaboration and networking for Professional Dominatrices, and it was just down the road in Bucharest, I had to attend.

Thoughts:

  1.  Because the event focused on networking, it made the attendance manageable (compared to typical conventions).  This kept things from becoming cliquish and enabled everyone to get to know each other.  At most big events you end up running with the same crew you came with, or people you already know, sticking with the comfort of what is familiar.  I saw people purposefully choose to sit with groups they did not know, just for the experience.
  2. There were “Women only” segments, which I enjoyed the most.  Without you pesky subs under foot, We Ladies had some real opportunities to chat and collaborate without interruptions and were able to speak freely about the business of domination.  We were still served well – the Ladies of the House of Sinn had boys standing in the wings to run and fetch when needed.
  3. The pacing was perfect.  At most big events I end up missing things I want to do:  One thing goes late into the night (or I just played late into the night) and then I miss something at 10am that I really wanted to see or participate in.  That was not an issue at the summit. I even had time to slip in some spa time.
  4. The people were fabulous.  It started with our Host, Ezada Sinn.  Ezada is such a real and genuine person that she put everyone at ease and made newer Dommes, as well as seasoned Pros, feel at home and respected.  That can be a hard thing to do, especially as a well known personality.  By putting everyone at ease, it made it easier for everyone to approach everyone else, ask questions that you might not otherwise ask and make real connections.

I appreciate how much planning and behind the scenes work goes into making an event successful.  I told one of My subs that I looked at it like a FemDom Mansion event times 10 – so I totally respect the work that no one sees.  That is where Mistress Kennya came in.  Mistress Ezada may have been the face of the event, but Mistress Kennya was the primary organizer.  In My experience, organizing a FemDom event is akin to herding cats, so My hat is both of these Ladies for putting together an event that everyone wants to see repeated next year.

Would I attend again next year?  Absolutely.  My only fear is that so will everyone else!  I have told many of My colleagues about it and I want the summit to be successful going forward, but it would be nice if the same small group closeness can be accomplished with a bigger crowd.  If anyone can pull it off I am sure these Ladies can.

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