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Doubles with Goddess Sonia

Wednesday, 02 August 2017 18:43
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soniacat1gfs_smallHelp Me welcome a new Sister to the collective of Dommes at Atlanta Dungeon – Goddess Sonia. Sonia may be new to the dungeon, but She is not new to the scene.  She has been doing fetish films and distance training for quite some time, so she is very adept at getting into your head.  Recently She joined Me in several sessions and in filming and We had a total blast, so I want to do more with Her.

The total package:  She is beautiful, well-educated and a true intellectual.  Born in Europe, Goddess Sonia soaked up the culture and diversity of the Continent before relocating to the U.S.  Fluent in Spanish and English, her grammar and diction are perfect for commanding the lowly sub to do her bidding.

The week of August 14th will find Us both in residence at Atlanta Dungeon and it’s the perfect time to schedule a double with Us.  The tribute for doubles is $400 per hour. To schedule, contact Me directly at ayn@mistressayn.com.

More about Goddess Sonia.

If I have not sessioned with you previously an application is required.

Chastity and the hormones connection

Friday, 28 July 2017 17:29
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I love the idea of male chastity.  The practicalities are often a challenge and on this blog, you will find articles about chastity devices, experiences and so forth.  To add to the topic, I asked one of My sissy chastity subs to share his thoughts on hormones and their impact on chastity and vice versa.  Here are his fruits of his assignment:

My name is Sissy Jennifer and I am a chastity sub.  In my previous life, I did research on hormones—mostly estradiol and testosterone—so I am always talking to Mistress Ayn about the effects of hormones on my chastity.  Mistress Ayn asked me to write about hormones and chastity because she thought her blog readers might be interested.  Please note that what I wrote below applies to men, as the response of women to the same hormones may be different.

Although a myriad of hormones affects chastity, only three are of real importance.  The first hormone is dopamine or the “pleasure” hormone.  The intense pleasure associated with orgasm is caused by an extra burst of dopamine released in the brain.  High levels of dopamine are associated with well-being and a high libido. After an orgasm, dopamine levels drop dramatically, and it takes awhile for them to come back to normal.

The second hormone is prolactin or the “satiety” hormone.  Prolactin levels spike after an orgasm, and, in a sense, counteract high dopamine levels.  High prolactin levels are associated with lethargy, depression, and a low libido.  Like dopamine, it takes awhile for prolactin levels to decline back to normal. 

The release of prolactin isn’t good for relationships, so the body also produces a third hormone, oxytocin or the “cuddle” or “love” hormone.  High levels of oxytocin are associated with feelings of attachment and bonding.  Like dopamine, oxytocin is released in a burst after orgasm, but it doesn’t persist very long.

How does all of this mesh with a chastity sub?  Both dopamine and oxytocin rise during sexual arousal. The chastity device that a chastity sub wears contributes, in a modest way, to his low-level sexual arousal.  If a chastity sub is teased, then his dopamine and oxytocin levels increase even more.  In a best-case scenario, a chastity sub is kept in a state of relatively high sexual arousal.  This state helps explain the captioned image of a man in a chastity cage saying, “I prefer to keep it on” and why the expression “there is no denial without the tease” is true.  Neurologically, a chastity sub in a high state of sexual arousal grows to “enjoy” all the benefits of high dopamine and oxytocin, while avoiding the deleterious effects of prolactin. 

Wading into the Swamp | Mistress Ayn Returns to Washington, DC

Thursday, 22 June 2017 21:27
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Ayn afb 4 smallReturning to the Nation’s Capital July 17th -19th

Once again I am pulling on My boots and wading in.  You boys are always in need of a good dose of Feminine discipline.  FemDom/BDSM sessions are available July 17th – 19th. My schedule is usually full before I arrive, so book now to secure My attention.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
Bondage – from the light to the extreme
CBT (Cock and ball torment)
Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship – I have an extensive shoe collection and requests in advance are entertained.
Humiliation and degradation
Medical Play – including naughty exams, urethral sounds, enema play, stretching, toy play
Nipple torture
Strap on Worship / Training
Tease and Denial
Toilet training – golden only
Trampling
Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
Wax play
Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done. I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm. I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously. If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well-known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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Reviews from DC sessions:

“It is easy to be intimidated by Mistress Ayn if you are a vanilla couple looking for some extra fun. Her website is impressive and features all kinds of devices that look scary to the uninitiated. But do not let that deter you. For a couple looking to explore a new experience she is the perfect Mistress. She puts you immediately at ease and is willing to listen and explore your ideas.” – Read Full Review on The Mistress Review.

“If she so desired, Mistress Ayn could spit roast you just by herself. I think I would describe this as Wicked and Wild. Her imagination is unlimited.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“Each time we visit with her, the intensity level seems to increase. I can’t wait to see what she has planned next time. Her mind is truly devious and diabolical.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“This was my first session with Mistress Ayn and her insight and skills enabled her to push all my buttons. I am not a newbie but I feel re-energized by Mistress Ayn. She is both beautiful and sensual but perhaps her best asset is her ability to create a fantastic mind fuck. If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend you book time with her.” Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

Double ballbusting session with Simone Kross

Thursday, 15 June 2017 17:53
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02aI hadn’t seen Mistress Simone Kross in several years, so I was super excited to hear that she would be visiting Atlanta – and of course I wanted to set up some doubles while she was in town.  We kicked off her visit with a ballbusting session with a sub neither she nor I had sessioned with before.  He expressed his doubts that he could last the entire hour. so we plotted to make sure he did . . .

What follows is a review he wrote of the session on The Buzz:

“It’s been two days since I had an intense Ballbusting session with Mistress Ayn and Mistress Simone.  My nuts are still mushy and tender, and I’m still riding an emotional endorphin high!  This was my first Double Dom session, and hopefully it won’t be my last.  These beautiful ladies overwhelmed me to the point that I didn’t know where to expect the next strike.  I experienced kicks, knees, punches, slaps, and all sorts of grabbing, squeezing, pulling, punching, slapping, and twisting of my manhood.
 
Their witty banter and laughing was genuine and they obviously enjoyed themselves.  They enthusiastically fed off each other and increased the pace of the session with unscripted play.  They took me to my limits of endurance, and just slightly past my limits.  They both knew when to give me a quick breather, and when to push on.  They were fantastic!!  I received their undivided attention for the entire session, and time flew by.  Both Mistresses were professional, fun, and at times brutal.  I highly recommend visiting the Atlanta Dungeon before Mistress Simone’s visit ends.  I’ll definitely be back the next time she and Mistress Ayn are together.”

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I agree that an opportunity to session with the Legendary Simone Kross is an experience that should not be missed.  She is pursuing a music career and not often available for sessions these days, so follow her on social media to keep abreast of her travel plans.

Her next visit to Atlanta will be announced here:  Simone Kross at Atlanta Dungeon

Follow her on twitter: @simonekross

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Product Review of Evotion Chastity Device

Saturday, 10 June 2017 12:09
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IMG_61344 out of 5 stars – ★★★★ 

Mistress Ayn asked me to review the Evotion chastity cage (evotionwearables.com).  First, a bit of background:  I have been a chastity sub since 2012.  Originally I wore a Jailbird from Mature Metal, which was fine because it is a custom-fitted device, but it was simply not secure enough.  In addition, I had continual problems with the weight of a “ball-capture” device (166 grams with lock).  For these reasons, I abandoned this design and opted for devices designed to enclose just the glans of the penis and some of the shaft.  The concept here is that the cage rests sufficiently snugly on the back of the glans to hold all the weight of device, while the piercing provides security and proper positioning.  I got a Prince Albert (PA) piercing, but inasmuch as I am not circumcised, I got a “go-through” piercing of my foreskin as well.  Chastity devices for PAs almost always state that they are for circumcised males only.  From this point on, I wore a Lustlock Penicap, which I liked because of its light weight (28 grams with a substituted plastic lock).  Unfortunately, the plastic device became brittle with cleaning and age, and eventually it became unwearable.  At this point, the Penicap had gone out of production.  I replaced the Penicap with a Steelworxx Tube Jacket 2, which is made almost entirely from stainless steel and weighs much more (103 grams) than a Penicap.  Despite being a custom-fitted device, it was impossible to keep sufficient weight off of the PA piercing.  Mistress Ayn suggested I try an Evotion chastity device because one of its models (Model Seven) is both lightweight and designed for a PA piercing.  In addition, the company uses 3D printer technology to yield a seam-free, custom-fitted device in a variety of colors.

After supplying all the proper measurements, I bought a Model Seven with an internal lock ($265).  As a proper sub, I ordered it in pink.  I received an email that I could expect the device in 6 weeks.  It took almost 9 weeks.  As expected, the fit is excellent and there is almost no weight on the piercing.  The four pieces of the device interlock together perfectly.  My device weighs 38 grams.  There is always some minor pinching when wearing it, but I ignore this pinching as something to remind me of who I am.  The manufacturer suggests that the device is “inescapable when used with the piercing”, but as anyone who wears a chastity device knows, the only inescapable chastity device is, paradoxically, no chastity device, where it is so disrespectful to the keyholder to escape that escape is never considered.  The Model Seven is easy to put on and remove, something I appreciate for sake of hygiene. Nylon is an excellent, durable plastic, but only time will tell if it will suffer the same fate as my Penicap.  The manufacturer recommends cleaning in warm water and vinegar for odor control, and nylon does degrade in acidic solutions.  My only real dislike is that I ordered it in pink and whoever made my device must be colorblind (see picture).  I would be hard-pressed to call the Model Seven beautiful, but it has worked well so far, and I am pleased–as much as any chastity sub could be pleased being in chastity–with my purchase.

 

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