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FAQ #21 – Why is aftercare important in BDSM play?

Monday, 09 November 2015 00:10
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Aftercare is the “come down” part of a BDSM session.  It is important because the flood of endorphins caused by play often cause a rush or natural high that can lead to a subsequent crash if not properly addressed.  What aftercare consists of and how long it lasts will depend on the intensity of the session and your relationship with the submissive.

I always like to spend time with My submissives to help bring them down softly.  I tend to be nurturing after sessions, especially intense ones.  Soft strokes and soft words are My hallmark in post session interactions. It is important that the sub knows you are okay with him and his behavior during play.  I also advise My submissives to treat themselves kindly for at least the rest of the day and try to avoid stress and confrontations immediately after a BDSM play.

A long term sub talks about his training – A Review

Thursday, 24 September 2015 19:12
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Long term D/s relationships have certain benefits. Among them is a higher level of trust that allows the Domme to push the submissive’s limits farther.  I understand that some subs what to “hop” from Domme to Domme, experiencing new things, but they will never enjoy the highest highs that a dedicated sub can achieve with his true Mistress.

This lengthy review helps put that into perspective – from the subs point of view.  Here are a few excerpts.  The full review can be read at The Mistress Review.  Reviews on that site are in date order, newest are last, so scroll to the bottom of the page to view.  It’s dated September 2015, by Anonymous.

“I have been serving Mistress Ayn for more than 5 years.  Sometimes We/we manage to session 3 times a year and sometimes just once. i don’t get to serve Mistress Ayn as much as i would like because i live a thousand miles from Atlanta, and my work no longer brings me as close to Her Dungeon as often as it should.  As a distance limited sub i have been enjoying overnight sessions to maximize my time in service . . . 

Eating dinner with a remote controlled vibrator in close proximity to ones more private parts and under the control Mistress Ayn is always memorable, and can be disconcerting (and extremely pleasurable).  This time it was suggested, and i agreed, that we would spend 5 hours in the Dungeon and then enjoy Our/our dinner in the afterglow of a great session. There would be no sub sleepover this time and no topping from the bottom.

I arrived on time and was greeted, as always, with a warm welcome and a brief catch up. I can’t imagine serving a Dominatrix for years and not having a strong and warm reconnection when seeing each other again.  Subs and sluts like me travel great distances to serve Mistress Ayn because of this long term bond that develops. i have served other Mistresses prior to Mistress Ayn but i have never felt such a strong connection both in and out of session. Those of you who are regulars will understand what I mean . . . 

Early on in Our/our relationship while i was in deep sub space, i remember Her asking me during strap-on play, in that sexy whisper that demands attention, if i would take her cock after it took me simply because it would give her pleasure and feed her needs.  All of you know what she was asking don’t you?  This sensuous dirty talk drives me deeper into her control . . .  When i first began serving Mistress Ayn, i had a list of limits and no go zones that was quite extensive. my list was based on fear, lack of trust and a lack of understanding.

Blindfolds – they used to be at the top of my list of never, ever going to happen. That was then, this is now and I am now hooded and blindfolded as Her mood strikes. Losing one sensation enhances the others, and this time i am left alone facing outward hooded and tied to the cross. Today I am also gagged with a ball gag.   I hear footsteps, two sets of footsteps.  Obviously Mistress Ayn has invited someone else to our session.  What happened next i can only leave to your imagination, but the encounter, totally directed by Mistress Ayn, not only put me in my place, it also left me reeling . . .

It is not just physical experience with Mistress Ayn, it is her constant talking to you, Her slut, as She takes you and owns you that makes this experience so unique and powerful. Many of Her subs and sluts may have partners,  but all of us know that Mistress Ayn truly owns us.

Lots of sluts and subs want to experience a strap-on but in my experience few Mistress are actually any good at it, or get pleasure from it. Mistress Ayn is an expert and as a subscriber to Ayn Rules when i watch her in a strap-on scene i am taken right back to the many sessions i have had with her . . . 

Within minutes, hours, days (who knows) I am writhing on the edge of ecstasy from Her fingers on my nipples.  Things stop and I feel something being slipped over me, i am now meeting for the first time Mistress Ayn’s Venus 2000. The ride begins and it is so amazing and so intense. Mistress Ayn controls this machine like a Formula One driver controls their car. i am brought to the edge many times and then pulled back . . . “

What followed was aftercare and a lovely dinner where we caught up and then discussed the session – our favorite parts, his greatest fears and the future of his training.  Long term relationships with subs that are willing to let their Mistress lead are a win-win situation.  Isn’t that what we all want?

Medical Fetish – What’s the allure?

Tuesday, 15 September 2015 22:04
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OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAGoing to the doctor is usually not a pleasant experience for most people, but it is a place where even the most dominant can feel a bit vulnerable and out of control.  you are stripped down while those around you remain dressed and very much in charge.  If you are lucky you have an attractive nurse or doctor, but things can get a bit embarrassing if you get excited.  So if you think about it, sexualizing the medical experience is only natural.  In fact, most if not all, men and women, have fantasized about a sexy nurse or doctor “taking advantage” of the situation and doing something naughty that you just can’t say “no” to.

I think medical fetish is a natural for FemDom sessions.  It’s an ideal vehicle to facilitate the power exchange and I tend to have great fun with it in session and on film.  Strapping you to the GYN medical table and having My way with you is delightful.  Oh, the things I can do while you are in My care . . .

“I had to beg to be allowed to discharge the enema. Finally she permitted this. All the time she was watching me.”

“When I came out and back on the table, she bound me more tightly and brought up an ominous looking machine. She connected a hose from it to a tube placed over my penis.”

“It was a great medical session. Nurse Ayn combined just the right combination of strictness and sensuousness.”

To read the full review, click here.

“Dr. Ayn walked to the head of the table placing a blindfold over my eyes and a ball gag in my mouth. The current began to flow, alternating between the electrodes.”

“The sensation was delicious and I was surprised how the intensity changed as the sound was near my cock head. “You must be enjoying it because your cock is hard as a rock”, says Dr. Ayn.”

“After removing the inflatable dildo Doctor stepped between my legs and began the treatment. She urged me on saying,”take it, take it, take all of it for me”. I guess this is what the “doctor is in” really meant.”

To read the full review, click here.

Some of the many activities and equipment that can be used to create a medical scene:

  • Ass play – dilators, speculum, dildos, inflatables, etc.
  • Cock and ball torment – stretching, sensitivity testing, electro, needles – the list is almost limitless
  • Bondage – strapped to an exam table or in a straight jacket, as examples
  • Electro – a wide range of attachments can be used to “treat” cock, balls, nipples, anus, etc.
  • Enemas – sensual, medicinal and punishment types
  • Penis and clitoris pumps
  • Prostate stimulation, milking
  • Nipple play/torture – clamps, suckers, needles, etc.
  • Shaving – generally the pubic area or nipple area
  • Urethral sounds and other penile insertions

Medical play also lends itself well to MindFuck type play such as gender transformations and castrations.  The diversity of possibilities in a medical scene makes Medical Fetish one of My favorites.  So, if you are in the mood to see a diabolical doctor for a very sensitive issue, just make an appointment.  Dr. Ayn is in.

For more information about Mistress Ayn and to complete an application, click here.  

Maybe it’s time you had a check up. – Dr. Ayn

 

This full 25 minute video can be see on AynRules.com or Clips4Sale.

FemDom sessions in Charlotte, NC – October 6th – 8th, 2015

Monday, 07 September 2015 19:28
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IMG_1398_HIGH-1 (2)Get ready, sluts.  It’s your turn to serve.  I will be conducting sessions in Charlotte October 6th – 8th, so book now ensure an audience at My feet.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  This time I will be hosting in the SouthPark area.  I will have a 700 square foot suite in an upscale hotel, so there are ample opportunities for domestic/office roleplays and lots of space to spread out and play.   I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.  If you are a sissy looking for dress up, let Me know your sizes so I can pack appropriately.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in Charlotte usually fills quickly so openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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FAQ #19: Can I use you as a reference to see another Mistress?

Wednesday, 05 August 2015 15:14
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MistressAynDec2014--33eAbsolutely.  I understand that men are sluts.  I appreciate loyalty like anyone else, but I also understand that some of you want diversity and prefer seeing a variety of Dommes instead of developing a long term relationship with one Mistress.  Each sub is different and it’s important to recognize that, so I don’t get upset if someone that has seen Me wants to see another Domme.  I require references for specific types of sessions and when I travel, so I consider it a common courtesy to both the Domme and the sub.

Here is the how you do it:  Send Me an email ahead of time notifying Me you have used Me as a reference and the name of the Domme that will be contacting Me. That way I can be sure that the request for a reference is not a “fishing expedition”.  When the Domme contacts Me I will only confirm that I have seen you before and that I would see you again (if that is the case).  They will need to provide the email address you used to set your appointment with Me.  That is the only reliable way for Me to look you up.  A name and or a phone number is not enough.

Of course, if I see you regularly, you may have to “confess” that you have seen another Mistress and then “pay the piper” the next time we meet, but would you expect anything less?

 

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