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FAQ #19: Can I use you as a reference to see another Mistress?

MistressAynDec2014--33eAbsolutely.  I understand that men are sluts.  I appreciate loyalty like anyone else, but I also understand that some of you want diversity and prefer seeing a variety of Dommes instead of developing a long term relationship with one Mistress.  Each sub is different and it’s important to recognize that, so I don’t get upset if someone that has seen Me wants to see another Domme.  I require references for specific types of sessions and when I travel, so I consider it a common courtesy to both the Domme and the sub.

Here is the how you do it:  Send Me an email ahead of time notifying Me you have used Me as a reference and the name of the Domme that will be contacting Me. That way I can be sure that the request for a reference is not a “fishing expedition”.  When the Domme contacts Me I will only confirm that I have seen you before and that I would see you again (if that is the case).  They will need to provide the email address you used to set your appointment with Me.  That is the only reliable way for Me to look you up.  A name and or a phone number is not enough.

Of course, if I see you regularly, you may have to “confess” that you have seen another Mistress and then “pay the piper” the next time we meet, but would you expect anything less?

 

D.C. Bound – The Nation’s Capital submits – August 31st – September 3rd

Mistress Ayn - AtlantaIt’s that time again: Time for all My Washington, D.C. area sluts, sissies and masochists to prepare to serve.  Because of the frequent travel issues I tend to have when visiting DC, I am lengthening My trip by arriving a day earlier.  So this time I will be available for sessions Monday – Thursday and if I encounter any snafus, I will have some extra time to reschedule.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  Once again, I will be hosting in a 750 square foot suite in an upscale hotel in the Pentagon City area, convenient to the Blue and Yellow lines of the Metro.  The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays.  I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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“It must have been your Venus 2000” – Session re-cap from a long term sub

Mistress AynI love recaps of sessions provided by subs, especially those that are articulate.  They provide Me with the details as the sub saw, felt, experienced it – from the other side, if you will. Subz is particularly diligent with his recaps and sometimes I find it appropriate to share his experiences with others.  (With his permission of course.)  Below is a recap of his most recent session.

“Another recap. A truly great session with the best of Mistresses… 

It’s been a while since i have felt the full stroke of Your flogger on my back and i’d forgotten the impact You can administer with it. Alternating with Your soft touch, i slipped quickly into subspace and could have hung there all day although my back wouldn’t have held up much longer. You so rightly knew turning me to the other side would be more fun for You and once clamped down in the stock, helplessly exposed, i found myself wishing for a little more flogging instead. Well as they say, ‘watch out what you wish for’, Your flogging arrived again but it was not on my back as wished for and there was nothing i could do but watch –  totally at Your mercy! When the ball gag appeared – Hello! i trembled and knew the Piper was about to extract Her pay . . . there is usually a reason for the gag, things are going up a notch. Thankfully the stock did move a little or my parts may have stretched too far in their failed attempt to retreat. Always the professional, knowing how to bring Your sub so close to the edge, which brings to mind the unbelievable feeling when You applied ‘first aid’ to Your throbbing tenderized toy in the stock, . . . a most intense mix of pleasure with pain. 

The scene then shifted to the unexpected yet again, a new realm, leaving me with no idea where it might lead but so deep in subspace i could only obey.  A hood, ear phones, blindfold, and immobilized on the rack for re-programming? The tape was really excellent, taking me deeper still with Your seducing voice, . . . captivated i became unaware of what was going on with the rest of my body. Until slowly You returned that awareness, with what i’ll never know, but random teasing seemed to be connect exactly with sounds and i let myself go into the experience totally. It must have been Your V2000 that finally caused such an explosion which left me completely drained. Don’t remember much after that but evidently i made it home.”

It’s amazing sometimes what the most memorable moments of a session were to the sub – or what parts he doesn’t remember at all.   I love playing with subz.  There is a trust between us that only comes from long term play.  His recaps always put a smile on My face and keep Me anticipating the next time I will have him at My mercy.

The Doctor is in – a routine exam takes a kinky turn

Mistress Ayn medical fetishFeeling a bit under the weather?  Low on energy?  Feeling a little backed up?  Maybe it’s time for a trip to the “Doctor” – but beware, this Doctor has Her Own agenda and you might end up getting some real “treatment”.   That’s what happened to one sub.  Read an excerpt from his review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“The doctor quickly checked the usual things listening to my chest and heart. Finding nothing unusual I was told to lie back on the table and put my feet in the stirrups. Ah ha, maybe no prostate exam today. I’m liking this Doctor. Then I heard the dreaded snap of gloves . . .

Electrodes were connected to my cock, balls and taint. Finally an anal probe was lubed and inserted. This was going to be an electrifying experience. Dr. Ayn walked to the head of the table placing a blindfold over my eyes and a ball gag in my mouth. The current began to flow, alternating between the electrodes. Increasing the current Dr. Ayn says, “let’s see how much you can take” as I squirmed against the restraints.

Sometime later the blindfold was removed so I could see Doctor lube up a medium size sound . . .   Then an electrode pad was placed on the shaft of the sound and reinserted  . . .  “You must be enjoying it because your cock is hard as a rock”, says Dr. Ayn.  . . . When she returned I could see what the last treatment would be.”

To read the full review, visit Max Fisch.

Introducing Kink 101 Educational Video Series

Kink 101 is an ongoing series of educational BDSM videos meant to inform and instruct the curious in the art of BDSM, FemDom and the Domme/sub relationship.  The series currently focuses on the more basic questions and issues associated with BDSM.  More complex topics will be addressed as the series matures.  All non-explicit videos will posted on Youtube.  Videos that are not appropriate for Youtube will be available on My subscription fansite, AynRules.com.  Have a question or want a topic discussed, just let Me know by emailing:  ayn@mistressayn.com

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