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FemDom Summit in Bucharest 2023

Wednesday, 26 April 2023 13:36
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Over the years I have attended a number of FemDom events and had really lost My taste for them.  The posturing, the egos, the elaborate costuming . . .  after a while it lost its appeal.  But when I heard Mistress Ezada Sinn was hosting a summit specifically for collaboration and networking for Professional Dominatrices, and it was just down the road in Bucharest, I had to attend.

Thoughts:

  1.  Because the event focused on networking, it made the attendance manageable (compared to typical conventions).  This kept things from becoming cliquish and enabled everyone to get to know each other.  At most big events you end up running with the same crew you came with, or people you already know, sticking with the comfort of what is familiar.  I saw people purposefully choose to sit with groups they did not know, just for the experience.
  2. There were “Women only” segments, which I enjoyed the most.  Without you pesky subs under foot, We Ladies had some real opportunities to chat and collaborate without interruptions and were able to speak freely about the business of domination.  We were still served well – the Ladies of the House of Sinn had boys standing in the wings to run and fetch when needed.
  3. The pacing was perfect.  At most big events I end up missing things I want to do:  One thing goes late into the night (or I just played late into the night) and then I miss something at 10am that I really wanted to see or participate in.  That was not an issue at the summit. I even had time to slip in some spa time.
  4. The people were fabulous.  It started with our Host, Ezada Sinn.  Ezada is such a real and genuine person that she put everyone at ease and made newer Dommes, as well as seasoned Pros, feel at home and respected.  That can be a hard thing to do, especially as a well known personality.  By putting everyone at ease, it made it easier for everyone to approach everyone else, ask questions that you might not otherwise ask and make real connections.

I appreciate how much planning and behind the scenes work goes into making an event successful.  I told one of My subs that I looked at it like a FemDom Mansion event times 10 – so I totally respect the work that no one sees.  That is where Mistress Kennya came in.  Mistress Ezada may have been the face of the event, but Mistress Kennya was the primary organizer.  In My experience, organizing a FemDom event is akin to herding cats, so My hat is both of these Ladies for putting together an event that everyone wants to see repeated next year.

Would I attend again next year?  Absolutely.  My only fear is that so will everyone else!  I have told many of My colleagues about it and I want the summit to be successful going forward, but it would be nice if the same small group closeness can be accomplished with a bigger crowd.  If anyone can pull it off I am sure these Ladies can.

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FemDom Summit
Mistress Kennya
Ezada Sinn

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A Male Companion’s Shibari Experience – by Simon Benn

Sunday, 05 February 2023 13:07
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My First Time Experiencing Shibari—Japanese Rope Play – By Simon Benn

As I entered the dimly lit room, my heart was racing with excitement and nerves. I had always been curious about Shibari—the Japanese rope play, and finally, I had the opportunity to experience it for myself. First, I was welcomed by the rope domina, who introduced herself and explained the basic principles of Shibari.

She emphasized the importance of consent, communication, and trust between partners, which set a safe and comfortable atmosphere for the scene. As I felt the soft ropes tied around my body, I surrendered myself to the sensations, letting go of my thoughts and surrendering to the moment. The intricate knots and patterns created around me both restricted and liberated me, taking me on an intense journey of physical and emotional pleasure.

Long story short, this was my first encounter with this incredible Japanese rope play. Now, in this brief article, I will explain what Shibari is all about, how to prepare for it, and share a glimpse of my experience with you all.

 

What Is This Japanese Rope Play?

Shibari is a form of BDSM that involves tying up a partner using ropes for aesthetic and sensual purposes. It is a highly physical and intimate activity that requires trust, communication, and consent between partners.

The ropes themselves can be used to create various patterns and designs, each with its unique sensation and aesthetic. The experience of being tied up in Shibari can be both liberating and empowering, allowing one to surrender control and let go of their thoughts. Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or just starting, the world of Shibari is full of exciting possibilities. Here’s how to do it.

 

Find A Trusting Partner

Shibari is an intimate and physically demanding activity, so finding the right partner is crucial. Whether you are a beginner or have experience, it is essential to play with someone you can trust and connect with. There are various ways to find a partner for Shibari, including:

  • Experienced partner. You may want to look for someone already experienced in Shibari who can guide you through the experience. An experienced partner can also bring a new level of excitement and creativity to your play.
  • Learning together. If you’re both new to Shibari, you might want to find a partner willing to learn with you. This can be a fun and exciting way to discover the art of Shibari together and grow as partners.
  • Companion Service. You can also consider using a female or a male professional that offers Shibari services. This is a convenient option for those who want to experience Shibari without the commitment or emotional involvement of a romantic relationship. It is essential to ensure that the escort is reputable and follows all the safety guidelines for Shibari play.

Regardless of your approach, it’s essential to communicate openly with your partner about your preferences, limits, and boundaries before engaging in Shibari play. By finding the right partner, you can ensure that your experience with Shibari is both safe and enjoyable.

 

Consent And Communication Are Essential

Communication and consent are essential components of the BDSM play Shibari, just as they are with any other BDSM play. Therefore, before engaging in any kind of rope play, it is necessary to lay down some ground rules and come up with some code words.

Make sure that the activity is something that both you and your partner feel comfortable doing and that everyone involved has given their complete consent for the activity. Additionally, communication should not stop once the play has begun. It is essential to check in with your partner regularly during the play and make sure everyone is still comfortable and enjoying the activity.

Also, after the fun is over, it’s essential to have a debriefing session where both partners can discuss what they liked, what they didn’t like, and what they would like to do differently in the future.

 

Learning The Appropriate Techniques And Taking The Necessary Safety Precautions

Before beginning Shibari, it is essential to learn the appropriate techniques and take the necessary precautions. This will help reduce the likelihood of injury and ensure that you and your partner have an experience that is both enjoyable and safe to participate in. You can get started with Shibari with the assistance of a large number of resources and classes that are available online.

 

Supplies And Equipment

Make sure you have all of the necessary supplies and equipment before you begin. You will need safety scissors, rope (preferably made of hemp or jute), and any other BDSM equipment that either you or your partner might want to use.

 

Getting Started With The Play

You will be able to begin exploring Shibari as soon as you have gathered all of the necessary supplies and equipment. Begin with straightforward knots, and work your way up to more intricate patterns as you gain experience. Pay close attention to how your partner responds to the environment, and make it a habit to check on them frequently to ensure that they are both secure and comfortable.

 

Final Thoughts

When I first heard about Shibari, I was intrigued by the idea of incorporating ropes into my BDSM play. I was excited to try it, but I knew I had to approach it with caution and respect to maximize the experience. That’s why I made sure to do my research, pick a reliable partner, establish clear boundaries, and gather all the necessary supplies and equipment. Exploring the world of Shibari can be done in a manner that is both risk-free and enjoyable if you keep these tips in mind.

 

Returning to Atlanta – March 1st – 14th

Friday, 20 January 2023 12:29
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As promised I am journeying to Atlanta to see all My best boys.  I will be available for sessions at Atlanta Dungeon March 1st – 14th.  My availability for this trip will be daily from 2pm – 10pm but act fast because many openings are already filled.

Because of the nature of traveling and the limited availability for sessions I am requiring a 30% deposit from everyone, regardless of whether we have met before.

I am very much looking forward to seeing as many of you as possible.  It will probably be several months before I return.

Doubles, triples and more are available with all the Atlanta Dungeon Dommes.

To book, simply respond to this email or visit MistressAyn.com and follow the booking protocols.

A European Adventure

Sunday, 08 January 2023 12:23
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Hello all.  As some of you know, I left Atlanta at the end of the year and headed off on a grand adventure.  At present I am in Brasov, Romania and plan to use this as a base to explore some of the more adventurous and mysterious parts of Europe.

A lot of you have had questions:  Am I retiring?  Will I stay here permanently?  Will I offer sessions in Europe?  Will I ever go back to Atlanta?

First, no I am not retiring.  My focus is just shifting so I can do some exploring.  For many years I travelled extensively and just simply burned out on it.  I am not sure what happened over the last couple of years; the lockdowns, watching too many travel videos, being told I can’t travel due to the virus?  Whatever the reason, the travel bug struck again, so off I went.

It’s doubtful I will stay here – or anywhere – permanently.  I can tell you that I like Romania (and the Romanian people) and have been having a wonderful time, but the world is a big place.  Who knows what the future will bring.

As far as sessions are concerned, I am more interested in attending events on this side of the pond than traveling to do individual sessions, but I would be open to combining the two.  Currently I am looking at attending events in the UK, Greece, Portugal and Romania.

Will I go back to Atlanta?  Of course, that’s My FemDom home and where most of My best boys live.  I am currently making plans to return very soon for a visit, so stay tuned for that.  Sessions will be available at Atlanta Dungeon, of course.

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Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – The 12 Degrees of Male Sexual Pleasure

Tuesday, 12 July 2022 22:48
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Installment #37 – The 12 Degrees of Male Sexual Pleasure

Moving from what provides the most pleasure to the least:

  1. Sexual intercourse, penetration, building to mutual orgasm
  2. Blowjob, with multiple edges, leading to a powerful orgasm
  3. Hand job, with multiple edges, leading to a powerful orgasm, where the cum is fed to the slave and eaten
  4. Self-masturbation, with multiple edges, leading to a powerful orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  5. Masturbation with a vibrator, with multiple edges, leading to a powerful orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  6. Self-masturbation, with multiple edges, at point of climax the hand is released causing a ruined orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  7. Masturbation with a vibrator, with multiple edges, at point of climax the vibrator is removed causing a ruined orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  8. Stimulation with a vibrator while the cock is still in a chastity cage, with multiple edges, leading to a powerful orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  9. Stimulation with a vibrator while the cock is still in a chastity cage, with multiple edges, at point of climax the vibrator is removed causing a ruined orgasm, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  10. Stimulation with a vibrator while still in a chastity cage, with multiple edges, before the point of climax the vibrator is removed and no orgasm, denial
  11. Anal insertion of plug with vibration, while still in a chastity cage, with multiple edges until leaking occurs, where the cum is collected and eaten by the slave
  12. Anal insertion of plug with vibration, while still in a chastity cage, with multiple edges, but stimulation ends before leaking, denial

 

FYI, I cannot recall #1, #2, #3 or #4. #4 may have occurred in 2020.  In 2021, so far, I have experienced #6, #5, #6 and #7, but recently Mistress Ayn seems more interested in #8, #9,. Or #10.  There is clearly a trend, enough said.

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