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As a professional Dominant the only thing I have for sale is My time. Unfortunately too many want to steal it. By stealing I mean:
- Calling to discuss your kinks, ask questions that are available on My website or just chat. I charge for those types of calls and have a NiteFlirt account set up just for this purpose. I stopped answering My phone because 9 out of 10 callers are there to attempt to steal.
- Emailing and requesting an extended session (Dommes are going to be really nice to you if you dangle a 3-4 hour session in front of them, right?) in the future and then attempting to ask questions, exchange photos, etc. leading up to that session – which probably will never happen. That’s an old trick and most of Us are wise to it.
- Setting up a session and then wanting to call to discuss the session in advance.
- Wanting to DM on Twitter, Fetlife, Facebook and other social media.
An experienced Domme can spot these tricks a mile away and it’s one reason deposits have become so prevalent. If you want a professional’s time, pay for it. If you want to discuss the session prior, fine. I will charge you for the call and if you follow through with the session in a timely manner I will apply half the fee to the session. Most of Us do paid phone sessions, email exchanges and such in addition to real time sessions. Just ask. Don’t be “that” guy.
These are different times. For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions. During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away. If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger. As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated. The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of My subs.
I love controlling My subjects – any way I can. Many people do not have adequate privacy to do a phone or Skype session, so I have developed a special email task program to satisfy our need for D/s.
I am getting emails almost daily asking if I am still accepting sessions. For now the answer is “yes”. I am a relatively low volume Domme because My tribute is a little higher and My average session length is 2 hours, so I typically don’t see multiple subs per day – especially now. Seeing a Domme is probably much safer than getting your haircut, going to the gym or even going to your grocery store. The number of individuals using the facility daily is extremely small and our health consciousness and attention to detail is not something that we just adopted due to the virus.