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Stealing time – Don’t be “that guy”.

Monday, 08 June 2020 17:28
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As a professional Dominant the only thing I have for sale is My time.  Unfortunately too many want to steal it.  By stealing I mean:

  • Calling to discuss your kinks, ask questions that are available on My website or just chat.  I charge for those types of calls and have a NiteFlirt account set up just for this purpose.  I stopped answering My phone because 9 out of 10 callers are there to attempt to steal.
  • Emailing and requesting an extended session (Dommes are going to be really nice to you if you dangle a 3-4 hour session in front of them, right?) in the future and then attempting to ask questions, exchange photos, etc. leading up to that session – which probably will never happen.  That’s an old trick and most of Us are wise to it.
  • Setting up a session and then wanting to call to discuss the session in advance.
  • Wanting to DM on Twitter, Fetlife, Facebook and other social media.

An experienced Domme can spot these tricks a mile away and it’s one reason deposits have become so prevalent.  If you want a professional’s time, pay for it.  If you want to discuss the session prior, fine.  I will charge you for the call and if you follow through with the session in a timely manner I will apply half the fee to the session.  Most of Us do paid phone sessions, email exchanges and such in addition to real time sessions.  Just ask.  Don’t be “that” guy.

Online domination – email/task packages

Saturday, 04 April 2020 20:25
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I love controlling My subjects – any way I can.  Many people do not have adequate privacy to do a phone or Skype session, so I have developed a special email task program to satisfy our need for D/s.

Email/task program – $150 per week or $450 per month

  • Daily check in with Me is required via email or text
  • 2 tasks per week with proof of completion requirement
  • Random check ins via email or text are probable
  • Access to My fan page on LoyalFans

Tasks are centered around our common interests and can include CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, JOI, orgasm control, orgasm denial, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

I also enjoy feminization and slut training so you “gurls” that are looking for a Woman to take control have come to the right place.

Custom audio and video are also available.  If you can manage privacy for a call or Skype, by all means, let’s do it.

Supplemental:

Skype session – 30 minutes = $120

Phone session – 20 minutes = $60

Custom Audio – $125 up to 20 minutes in length

Custom FemDom POV Video – $250 up to 20 minutes in length

To discuss further, email Me at ayn@mistresayn.com

 

Let’s make it happen.

 

 

Online sessions and talk + Custom video now available

Tuesday, 31 March 2020 14:11
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Mistress Ayn

During this time of social distancing I am currently offering both phone and Skype sessions by appointment.

Phone chat:  $50 per 20 minute block, $60 for 30 minutes

Phone sessions (instructional, task oriented, roleplay, specific fetish talk, etc.):  $65 minutes per 20 minute block, $80 for 30 minutes

Phone conversations and phone sessions are also available on NiteFlirt:   Call Button

For those that can’t make phone sessioning work, special text/email packages are also available.  Ask Me how.

In addition, custom FemDom audio and POV videos are available.

Custom audio starting at $100

Custom POV videos starting at $200

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com with your requests and to get a quote.

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FAQ #30 – Are you into financial domination?

Monday, 24 September 2018 18:30
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I am often asked if I will participate in financial domination or blackmail scenarios.  The short answer is “no”.  I will occasionally play around with it as a theme on a NiteFlirt call or make you pay for unauthorized orgasms, but that’s about the extent of it.  I have no interest in any sort of long-term FinDom relationship.

Why?  I don’t find it particularly fun.  I don’t enjoy playing the bratty girl that expects you to open your wallet just because I tell you.  Call Me old fashioned but I think there should be some value for any sort of financial exchange and I can’t really wrap My head around a sub wanting that kind of domination.  In addition, I would never blackmail a client in reality, so pretending that I would just seems forced.  I’ve read extensively about financial domination, I’ve experimented with it and I just don’t find that it is for Me.

My lack of interest in it does not invalidate it as a real fetish or a real form of domination.  I get that there are submissives that see turning over their finances to a dominant woman to be the ultimate surrender of their private space and a powerful aphrodisiac.  I mean no disrespect to FinDommes that are good at their trade (although I think there are precious few of them that are genuinely good).  As long as the Domme acts responsibly and the sub is consenting, I have no issues with it.  But there is the rub.  Since FinDom is practiced primarily online, a new breed of Dominatrix has sprung up and problems are starting to arise.  More than one case has actually turned criminal when a FinDomme released private information about a client to the public because he refused to continue the roleplay.

If you seek financial domination, choose your FinDom Mistress wisely.  Negotiate the real world implications and have a written record of that negotiation.  The more exposed you really are, the more real and powerful it may feel, but the results, if things go wrong, could be catastrophic to your real life.

CBT (cock and ball torture) – make it hurt so good

Wednesday, 20 January 2016 19:38
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I just had a NiteFlirt session where I had a sub torment his own cock and balls.  He got hard while we were chatting and he asked if I would let him go to the bathroom and cum.  (He was at the office at the time – so much for work productivity.)  I agreed, but only if he would punish his cock and balls a bit first.  I had him take a rubber band from his desk and then sent  him into a bathroom stall where he was instructed to bind his balls with the rubber band and then scratch and slap them a bit.  He was made to continue playing with himself until he issued a little pre-cum, and then he was instructed to eat it.  By this time, he is throbbing and begging to cum.  “No”, I say.  “Slap that cock hard and get it under control.”  I could hear the slaps and groans through the phone.  The begging and the slapping went on for a while and I finally had mercy and allowed him to cum – but he had to slap his balls at the same time.  The resulting groan was almost deafening

It was fun.  We both had a good time.  But nothing compares to My having My slender fingers around those tender dangly bits.  I like tying the balls off and wrapping the cord over and over until the balls are stretched away from the body.   They are so much more vulnerable that way.  Then I like to scratch, rub, thump, slap . . .  anything that takes your breath away.  That’s the warm up, now it’s time to really get down to business.  Clamps, weights, electrical, sounds – the list of indignities I can make your pathetic cock and balls submit to are almost endless.

 

To see how brutal I can be on just the right type of cock, see this clip – Extreme CBT – Destroy his cock and balls.

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So, if you think you are up to it, schedule a CBT session with Me – live or on NiteFlirt.  I can be gentle, but I probably won’t be.

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