Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive
January 1, 2024
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Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive. This year is your year to make
Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.
A Male Companion’s Shibari Experience – by Simon Benn
February 5, 2023
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My First Time Experiencing Shibari—Japanese Rope Play – By Simon Benn As I entered the dimly lit room, my heart was racing with excitement and nerves. I had always been
Honest Review of the Hush Bluetooth Butt Plug by Lovense
June 19, 2022
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Five years ago I reviewed the Hush remote butt plug favorably – My opinion has changed. See it here on YouTube. Or here on Loyal Fans and Only Fans.
Paraphilias vs Fetishes – what is the difference?
February 20, 2022
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Is a shoe fetish a paraphilia? Are all paraphilias fetishes? What is a paraphilia anyway? We discuss it all in this short but informative Kink 101 clip. Click the
Interview with Simone Justice on the ethics of BDSM public play
January 10, 2022
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Just before Dom Con New Orleans in 2019, Simone Justice asked if She could interview Me regarding My thoughts on public play. She was preparing to lead a DomCon Parade
FAQs about Gender Play
January 9, 2022
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What is the difference between a crossdresser and a sissy? Gender play raises a lot of questions and people often get stuck on the labels. In general, crossdressing is more
Using a persona with your kink
December 15, 2021
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There are a number of reasons you might want to use a different persona when participating in BDSM or kink activities. We discuss a few in this short clip.
Interview on Gender Play
February 19, 2021
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I was recently interviewed by the sleek and handsome website, SimplySxy. They have some amazing articles on a wide range of topics regarding sexuality, BDSM and other kink related subjects.
How to become a professional Dominatrix.
August 19, 2020
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So you think you wanna be a ProDomme? During every financial downturn my inbox fills with requests to be trained as a Dominatrix. For some reason when times are
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