Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.
So you think you wanna be a ProDomme? During every financial downturn my inbox fills with requests to be trained as a Dominatrix. For some reason when times are
The Submissive Male’s Guide to the Perfect Self-administered Ruined Orgasm A ruined orgasm for a submissive male is one of the most intensely pleasurable, toe-curling, sweat-inducing, back-arching, fist-clenching, teeth-gnashing,
The concept of being cuckolded is quite common among men. I hear it a lot in My industry – men fantasizing about their wives being with other men. I
There is serious chastity and there is play chastity. Chastity fetish play is just that, play. If you are looking for someone to control your orgasms on a short term
As a professional Dominant the only thing I have for sale is My time. Unfortunately too many want to steal it. By stealing I mean: Calling to discuss your kinks,
I am getting emails almost daily asking if I am still accepting sessions. For now the answer is “yes”. I am a relatively low volume Domme because My tribute is
How to present your tribute: Have it ready – counting out your tribute in front of Me is uncouth. Whether intended or not, I see it as a passive aggressive
Often when subs talk about sessions or review them, it’s all about the activities, the Dommes appearance, the session space and so forth. All of these things are important but
I am often asked if I will participate in financial domination or blackmail scenarios. The short answer is “no”. I will occasionally play around with it as a theme on
I am back from an unforgettable visit to The House of Sinn in Bucharest. There I spent time with the formidable Matriarch Ezada Sinn and helped train one of her newest chattels.
Chastity, whether practiced through abstinence, restraint, or enforcing devices, builds a steady habit of noticing strong impulses. It involves delaying action on impulses. That same skill transfers directly to everyday mindfulness and patience. Here’s how the connection works in practice: 1. Training impulse awareness Sexual desire is often intense and insistent. When someone in chastity repeatedly feels the urge arise
For years I stopped seeking out FemDom stories and films. Too many of them got it wrong—characters who were broken and stayed broken, dominance framed as dysfunction rather than strength. If I hadn’t known one of the authors, I probably wouldn’t have picked up Eros and Agape either. I’m glad I did. Anyone who knows Ezada knows there is nothing
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