Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.
Aftercare is the “come down” part of a BDSM session. It is important because the flood of endorphins caused by play often cause a rush or natural high that can
Electro CBT Board from Current Pleasures 3 out of 5 stars ★★★☆☆ I received this electro device as a gift about a year ago. I am a big believer in
Long term D/s relationships have certain benefits. Among them is a higher level of trust that allows the Domme to push the submissive’s limits farther. I understand that some subs
This probably should have been FAQ #1 since so many people get it wrong. It’s also the first bulleted item on the Contact Page of My website under Rules of
Absolutely. I understand that men are sluts. I appreciate loyalty like anyone else, but I also understand that some of you want diversity and prefer seeing a variety of Dommes instead
Kink 101 is an ongoing series of educational BDSM videos meant to inform and instruct the curious in the art of BDSM, FemDom and the Domme/sub relationship. The series currently
Of course, I have long believed that every man should be on the receiving end of a strapon at least once in his life. To Me it is one of
I know we are all tired of the hype, reviews and general trashing of 50 Shades of Grey. Personally I never thought I would chime in on the subject. I
Learning your place in the D/s relationship is a journey. Some subs take it seriously. Others don’t. The ones that get the most from their time with a chosen Domme
I am back from an unforgettable visit to The House of Sinn in Bucharest. There I spent time with the formidable Matriarch Ezada Sinn and helped train one of her newest chattels.
Chastity, whether practiced through abstinence, restraint, or enforcing devices, builds a steady habit of noticing strong impulses. It involves delaying action on impulses. That same skill transfers directly to everyday mindfulness and patience. Here’s how the connection works in practice: 1. Training impulse awareness Sexual desire is often intense and insistent. When someone in chastity repeatedly feels the urge arise
For years I stopped seeking out FemDom stories and films. Too many of them got it wrong—characters who were broken and stayed broken, dominance framed as dysfunction rather than strength. If I hadn’t known one of the authors, I probably wouldn’t have picked up Eros and Agape either. I’m glad I did. Anyone who knows Ezada knows there is nothing
Subscribe to Ayn Rules on LoyalFans. Task Tuesdays, exclusive content and direct access.
Enter Ayn RulesThis site contains material of an adult, fetish and BDSM nature. There is no explicit sexual content. You must be 18 years or older — or the age of majority in your jurisdiction — to enter.