Why I don’t do same day sessions.
July 24, 2018
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Do you do same day sessions? The short answer is “no”. Occasionally I will take a last minute request from a sub that I have sessioned with in the past,
Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.
Submissive or Fetishist? Which are you?
July 2, 2018
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I have never been a big fan of putting labels on things or people. It can be so limiting. But sometimes things do need a bit of definition in order
FAQ #29 Why do you have a “no texting” policy?
June 17, 2018
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My phone number is published in very few places and where is it visible, it clearly states that texting is not allowed. There are two primary reasons for this: 1
FAQ #28 – How do I prepare for a BDSM FemDom session?
April 22, 2018
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Subs often ask Me if there is anything in particular they should do to prepare for a session. Usually their mind is wrapped around their genitals and thoughts of edging,
SESTA/FOSTA and how we move forward
March 29, 2018
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The adult industry, which includes Professional Domination, is aghast at the passing of the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. In most people’s opinion, it will do little to stop the
Passing out in a BDSM FemDom session
March 14, 2018
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This is a topic no one seems to want to talk about but it’s a real concern in BDSM play. Out of the thousands of hours of sessions I’ve been
FAQ #26 – May I take you to dinner?
February 14, 2018
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Yes, you may! Sometimes prospective subs want a face to face meeting prior to sessioning. I understand that. It prevents you scheduling a session with someone that turns out to
Edging into chastity – one sub’s perspective
January 31, 2017
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This musing was written by one of My greedy little sluts (My gls) who will remain in his hiding place to the rest of the world. All that matters is
Levels of Submission – Where are you?
January 26, 2016
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A Mistress on Twitter tweeted a link to this article. The link is below, but it has some popups and weird messages, so I have copied the article below the
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