Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.
There is serious chastity and there is play chastity. Chastity fetish play is just that, play. If you are looking for someone to control your orgasms on a short term
I am getting emails almost daily asking if I am still accepting sessions. For now the answer is “yes”. I am a relatively low volume Domme because My tribute is
How to present your tribute: Have it ready – counting out your tribute in front of Me is uncouth. Whether intended or not, I see it as a passive aggressive
Often when subs talk about sessions or review them, it’s all about the activities, the Dommes appearance, the session space and so forth. All of these things are important but
I am often asked if I will participate in financial domination or blackmail scenarios. The short answer is “no”. I will occasionally play around with it as a theme on
Subs often ask Me if there is anything in particular they should do to prepare for a session. Usually their mind is wrapped around their genitals and thoughts of edging,
The adult industry, which includes Professional Domination, is aghast at the passing of the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. In most people’s opinion, it will do little to stop the
Oh, how diabolical it is! Predicament bondage consists of putting a person in a position offering limited movement and positions shifts, but each of those shifts has a consequence. Planning
I love the idea of male chastity. The practicalities are often a challenge and on this blog, you will find articles about chastity devices, experiences and so forth. To add
I am back from an unforgettable visit to The House of Sinn in Bucharest. There I spent time with the formidable Matriarch Ezada Sinn and helped train one of her newest chattels.
Chastity, whether practiced through abstinence, restraint, or enforcing devices, builds a steady habit of noticing strong impulses. It involves delaying action on impulses. That same skill transfers directly to everyday mindfulness and patience. Here’s how the connection works in practice: 1. Training impulse awareness Sexual desire is often intense and insistent. When someone in chastity repeatedly feels the urge arise
For years I stopped seeking out FemDom stories and films. Too many of them got it wrong—characters who were broken and stayed broken, dominance framed as dysfunction rather than strength. If I hadn’t known one of the authors, I probably wouldn’t have picked up Eros and Agape either. I’m glad I did. Anyone who knows Ezada knows there is nothing
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