FAQ #21 – Why is aftercare important in BDSM play?
Aftercare is the “come down” part of a BDSM session. It is important because the flood of endorphins caused by play often cause a rush or natural high that can
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Aftercare is the “come down” part of a BDSM session. It is important because the flood of endorphins caused by play often cause a rush or natural high that can
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As some of you know, the website Max Fisch has been steadily declining. It is sad because MF has been a fixture in the FemDom scene for many years. Unfortunately
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Long term D/s relationships have certain benefits. Among them is a higher level of trust that allows the Domme to push the submissive’s limits farther. I understand that some subs
I had the opportunity to attend a truly amazing event last weekend. It was a private affair, but the entire time I was there, I kept thinking how much My
Going to the doctor is usually not a pleasant experience for most people, but it is a place where even the most dominant can feel a bit vulnerable and out

I’m turning it into No-Nutting Without Me November—where every ounce of your erotic pleasure belongs to me.

I am back from an unforgettable visit to The House of Sinn in Bucharest. There I spent time with the formidable Matriarch Ezada Sinn and helped train one of her newest chattels.

Chastity, whether practiced through abstinence, restraint, or enforcing devices, builds a steady habit of noticing strong impulses. It involves delaying action on impulses. That same skill transfers directly to everyday mindfulness and patience. Here’s how the connection works in practice: 1. Training impulse awareness Sexual desire is often intense and insistent. When someone in chastity repeatedly feels the urge arise
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