Thoughts, dispatches and assignments from the world of professional FemDom — written by Mistress Ayn since 2012.

Chastity and the ruined orgasm

These are two of My favorite things.  Combine them and it’s just over the top fun – at least for Me. Recently I accepted a new distance chastity slave.  The

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Your Power

I received this letter via email a few days after spending time with a long-term submissive that I consider “Mine”.  It’s safe to say we have a special relationship – the

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Putting the Professional in Pro Dom

Often when subs talk about sessions or review them, it’s all about the activities, the Dommes appearance, the session space and so forth.  All of these things are important but

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Chastity is not a game

The Link Between Chastity, Patience, and Better Emotional Responses

Chastity, whether practiced through abstinence, restraint, or enforcing devices, builds a steady habit of noticing strong impulses. It involves delaying action on impulses. That same skill transfers directly to everyday mindfulness and patience. Here’s how the connection works in practice: 1. Training impulse awareness Sexual desire is often intense and insistent. When someone in chastity repeatedly feels the urge arise

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Book cover for the FemDom novel Eros and Agape

Eros and Agape: A book review

For years I stopped seeking out FemDom stories and films. Too many of them got it wrong—characters who were broken and stayed broken, dominance framed as dysfunction rather than strength. If I hadn’t known one of the authors, I probably wouldn’t have picked up Eros and Agape either. I’m glad I did.  Anyone who knows Ezada knows there is nothing

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Her Inner Circle

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