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The softer side of domination – a sissy session

Wednesday, 04 February 2015 22:16
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This review by sissy crissy was posted on The Erotic Review.  Since you have to be a member to see the “juicy details”, they are posted here:

“Mistress Ayn shows her softer side by initiating and following through with my sissy transformation. From the moment I walked in the door Mistress Ayn began the transformation by stripping me of all male clothing. As I kneeled before Mistress Ayn and was allowed to worship her, she began to explain that I was no longer in the position to make decisions and I was now her property to do with as she desired. She sent chills through my body  . . . “

““The session gravitated to the medical room where I was strapped down to an examination table. This is when I first heard the sound of her skin thin rubber gloves. She whispered to me that I soon will understand what will definitely always happen when I hear the sound of her gloves . . .” 

”“Back to the examination table I went for make up which Mistress applied with care. While all of this was going on Mistress Ayn continued to tease me with the suggestions of how I was going to make a pretty girl who would soon be sucking cock and having their sissy ass filled. She meant it too . . . “

“The session moved in to the dungeon where I was dressed in beautiful stockings, garter belt, a silky top, a wig and high heels. I then modeled and walked around for Mistress Ayn while she continued to suggest that a slut like me needed to be put to good use and of course it was too late for me to decide otherwise. There was a little light spanking as a tease; however, Mistress Ayn did this just so I was sure who was in charge. She listened to my voice and body and made me feel safe and thoroughly aroused!”

“I lost track of time before too long and my head was spinning until the next day from the intensity and carefully orchestrated sissy session that Mistress Ayn provided. I am very afraid of any pain and Mistress Ayn took very good care of me. We have had a second 4 hour session and I give 100 Percent trust to Mistress Ayn that she will and has taken exceptional care of me. The professionalism that Mistress Ayn demonstrates is what I have been looking for. Our journey will continue with some shopping and night club outings and . . .”

“Mistress Ayn is leading me down the safe path to happiness with her care, professionalism and understanding. She is a dream come true. I love what she does for me.” – sissy crissy

Chronicles of a chastity slave – v.1

Thursday, 22 January 2015 00:58
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l1“I like my boys to wear pink panties,” Mistress Ayn said. Eugene trembled on unsteady knees, desperately trying to keep his balance. “Put your legs together”, the Mistress said simply.

With practiced fingers, Mistress Ayn slipped a pair of women’s panties up Eugene’s thighs. The feeling of silk brushing across his naked flesh was at once both wonderfully teasing and terribly emasculating. It felt almost as if the lovely Domme were diapering a helpless child. Eugene shuddered at the thought, but he was no longer soft. Mistress Ayn took notice.

“You’re hard now, aren’t you boy?” Her tone was mocking. “Your so called manhood belongs to me now. You understand that, don’t you?” Eugene could not respond, but Mistress Ann understood the slave’s silence.

FAQ #18 – How is humiliation used in a BDSM or D/s session?

Thursday, 15 January 2015 00:55
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Mistress Ayn & Switch GiannaFirst of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won’t elicit the desired effect.

Each person is unique and I recommend that humiliation be used gingerly with a new play partner. One person’s turn on is another’s turn off and humiliation scenes, like all other scenes should be well negotiated. Some men are very turned on when a Female Dominant pronounces their penis too small for proper sex with a woman – and their little peckers get rock hard at the idea of being evaluated and judged in this way. For others, it’s a buzz kill, so it’s important to know what turns your sub on and what areas are off limits.

Examples of humiliation used in Domme/sub sessions are:

  • Verbal humiliation – name calling, beratement, racial slurs, mockery, etc.
  • Forced feminization – as simple as being made to wear panties to full female transformations
  • Animal play – forced to wear a leash, drink from a dog bowl, etc.
  • Public display – embarrassing public acts or displays
  • Cum eating
  • Ass worship / foot worship – some see this as a reward, others feel degraded by it
  • Cuckolding – combination of verbal insults about manhood and degrading acts
  • Objectification – treated as unimportant – being used as a foot stool, as an example
  • Forced masturbation/orgasm
  • Enemas
  • Spanking – yes, for some getting a simple spanking is humiliating

As you can see from this non-exhaustive list, erotic humiliation is a very diverse and personalized form of play. Humiliation can push buttons psychologically that send a sub deeper into subspace or send them reeling in raw emotion, so know your sub well, make sure safe words are in place and pay very close attention to your subs reactions to everything you hurl at them.

A DC foot slut learns his proper place – session review on The Hang

Monday, 05 January 2015 01:00
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Mistress ayn Foot worshipWashington, DC has become one of My favorite venues.  There is a reason:  the subs are well behaved (obviously well trained by DC Mistresses) and in general they are a whole lot of fun.  As a Mistress that thoroughly enjoys what I do, I don’t compromise on the fun and I don’t take sessions I don’t think I will enjoy.  That’s generally a win, win situation – but in this case, it almost caused a session not to happen.  Thankfully this little foot slut didn’t succum to the “brush off” and appealed to My sense of adventure – he even had Julie Simone singing his praises – so I agreed to meet.  What resulted was a delightful session from beginning to end.  Moral of the story: persistence (and a whole lot of flattery) often pays.

Excerpt from the session review on Max Fisch’s The Hang:

“Mistress Ayn communicates very clearly, and She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her. i was completely entranced by Her beauty, the exquisite care of Her apparel demonstrating Her art of seduction and authority, and the words that She used during o/Our entire session and all i wanted to do was worship and please Mistress Ayn. 

This being o/Our first encounter, Mistress Ayn took Her time to properly inspect the new piece of slave flesh presented before Her. Mistress had me strip, so that i was at my most vulnerable and feeble state, and kneel in the center of the room. She made sure to circle around like a Lioness toying with Her prey and inspected just about every inch of me; commenting on what qualities had potential and what displeased Her. Mistress made it quite clear, that it was a privilege to be before Her . . . 

Mistress cultured me on the proper way to serve, holding Her feet accordingly so that the natural effects of gravity would never make her uncomfortable. Then She instructed me to not just kiss and suck, but to appreciate the lovely privilege She was allowing. To slowly admire, sniff, inhale and truly adore the embrace of Her divine feet. Mistress Ayn recognized that i could kiss and worship Her feet for hours, and She surprisingly found use for my insignificant slave mouth and was kind enough to remind me that perhaps i wasn’t completely useless to Her.”

Read the complete review on Max Fisch

Au revoir 2014

Tuesday, 30 December 2014 01:11
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Mistress Ayn NYE 2014

 

As the year draws to an end, it makes Me reflective and I think of all the things in life for which I am thankful.   My subs are a big part of My life and give Me so much – both  emotionally and materially.   For every special occasion you faithfully fill My inbox with well wishes and My mailbox with goodies.   Because of My subs I have one of the best toy collections in the industry – and it continues to grow.  My closet overflows with boots, shoes, corsets, stockings and all things sexy and fetish.  I never forget how fortunate I am to have such generous subs.  Nor do I forget that the best gift you give Me is your trust and submission.

This year, like every year was full of gains and and some losses.  I broke the 2000 follower mark on Twitter (that seemed to take forever), launched My clips store, gained some wonderful new clients, had a custom spanking bench made for Me, was given the amazing Venus 2000 (which has really been a gift to everyone!) and received an impressive number of reviews – which helps Me maintain My reputation as the “Most Highly Reviewed Mistress in the Region”.    However, it was not without losses.  My favorite whip maker (Joe Strain) retired.  Thankfully I have an absolute “work of art” custom made snake whip to remember him by.  One of My best subs just found out he is moving away – ending a 2 year journey together.  News of this kind always makes Me sad, but life is like breathing.  You have to let air out in order to take more in.

Looking to 2015, I am excited.  On the travel front, I am looking to expand into at least one new city, so if you are reading this and want Me to pay your city a visit, let Me know.  I also have plans to launch a new content/membership site that I am hoping will be the embryo for something that the industry needs.  Look for more on that in the upcoming months.

So in bidding 2014 goodbye, I want to thank you all and wish you the very best for 2015.  Ring in the New Year safely and remember to keep it kinky!

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