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BDSM for couples – One couples experience with an Atlanta Dominatrix

Dominatrix for CouplesI would “guestimate” that I, by far, work with more couples than any other Dominatrix in the Atlanta area.  I have numerous reviews from couples and see several on a regular basis.  Most are Domme/sub, but I occasionally get the treat of a sub/sub couple.  Below is a review of the second session with this sub/sub couple.

“We are a submissive couple – male and female. Recently, we Submitted to Mistress Ayn in a session in her well-equipped, convenient, comfortable Atlanta dungeon. We were treated to five-hours of sublime pain and pleasure. The first portion of the session was focused on the male of our duo; the second portion on the female. On occasion, Mistress asked for assistance from the one of us who was not the subject of her attention. The final portion of the evening was as though kinky friends had gathered to have some kinky fun, all, of course, at Mistress Ayn’s direction. Weeks later, we are still in the afterglow of this exceptional session.

The amount and variety of equipment available to and utilized by Mistress Ayn is remarkable. A non-exhaustive list includes St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking bench, floggers and whips (including expertly handled Single-tail whips), strap-on with various sizes of dildos, paddles and canes and toys especially interesting to couples – a dildo gag (wow!) and a couple of Hitachi toys (also, wow!).

When it was over, we were exhausted and full of awe and wonder at Mistress Ayn’s presence, attention and imagination. Our next visit cannot come quickly enough. Thank you, Mistress Ayn!”

This review is reprinted here in its entirety and you can see it posted on The Mistress Review.

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Sessions with Couples are a favorite – Read this new review on TER

Mistress Ayn Working with couples takes a special knack but it is an activity I greatly enjoy.  Whatever the combination –  sub/sub, Domme/sub or Dom/sub- couples play brings a new dimension to sessions that is both challenging and fun.  The most common scenario is Female Dominant and a sub boy/toy.  The review below is an example of one such session.  The Domme was very enthusiastic and followed My lead well.

Excerpt from “General Details”:

“She is very patient, a great teacher and has all sorts of ideas to bring our BDSM lifestyle to the next level. She is very experienced and knows our limits and respects us being couples. For all you married people out there who want to take your marriage and boring sex life to the next level, look no further. Investigate the BDSM lifestyle and you don’t need to look for anyone but Mistress Ayn.” 

Excerpt from “The Juicy Details”:

“He was already in chastity and plugged.   We told him that if we released him from chastity that he would do as we say . . . 

He started leaking pre-cum again and was forced to eat it. then Mistress Ayn got a really really cool toy (which now I need to buy for our use!) called a Lollipop. She found the sweet spot and started to massage his prostate . . . he started moaning in pleasure  . . . 

After all was said and done, my pet told me it was the most intense [sensations] he has ever had.   Job well done, Mistress Ayn for your creative end to an amazing session.   We would definitely go back and play with Mistress Ayn. I highly recommended married couples to give it shot! You would be surprised what your spouse is holding back on you all these years!”

Read the full review on The Erotic Review.

Added note:  As of 2016 I am still seeing this couple.  She has turned into an excellent Domme and they are one of My couples!

 

Mistress AynI just love initiating sissies.  Seeing their wide eyed wonder while they get in touch with their feminine side for the first time is a treat to be savored.  Recently I had the pleasure of breaking in a particularly “pretty” boy.  His tousled blonde hair and big blue eyes were made even prettier by the pink lipstick I applied – which happened to be the exact shade of his little butt plug.  I like it when things match.

Excerpt from the “juicy details”:

“My heart was about to come out of my chest . . .  I was instructed to climb onto the medical table and place my legs in the stirrups.  She took this opportunity to examine my sissy hole.  According to her, and she was dead on, I was a mere child and probably had not even had my first period yet.  With that she proceeded to allow me to experience my first period.  I was strapped down and given a large enema.  All the while she was reminding me of how much of a cute, little, sissy slut I was.  After the enema was over she proceeded to put a pink plug in me, and lipstick on my lips . .  After some time, I was really cramping by now, she determined it was time for me to empty my bowels.  I was led to the bathroom and she removed the plug and demanded me to expel my contents on her demand; to which I did.  Following my cleansing, I was once again place on the exam table and my sissy hole training took place. . .” 

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Being Marked with Ayn’s A

“A’s” are turning up on all the most fashionable subs’ backsides.  It appears to be the fashion trend of the season- the “it mark”, if you will.  Don’t be caught without yours.

These beautiful A’s are the result of a custom made devil’s tail made by Foxy in Florida.  One of My favorite little sissy pain sluts gave Me this instrument about a year ago and I think it’s time to bring it back out of the closet.  It is the latest fashion accessory this year, and it goes with absolutely everything.  Line starts here.

FAQ #8 – What is cuckolding fantasy?

Mistress Ayn Cuckoldressyou may have seen Cuckolding listed as one of My interests and not fully known what it meant.  Well, here you go . . .

Traditionally cuckold has been a derogatory term for a man with an adulterous wife.  Today the term cuck and cuckolding take on new life in the fetish community.  Cuckolding fetish is a consensual act that involves the female half of a couple taking a lover with the knowledge of her partner.  In a symbiotic way, all parties derive sexual pleasure from the experience.

Let’s look at the players:  The female, sometimes called the Hotwife or Cuckoldress, is physically attractive and in theory can attract any lover she chooses.  She may be sexually insatiable.  The chosen lover (aka the bull) often exhibits physical traits that are used to intimidate the cuck (the male that is being “cheated on”).  For instance, the bull usually has a much larger cock.  He may also be in better physical shape and/or younger than the cuck.  Conversely the bull is usually depicted as being from a lower socio-economic background, have a lesser job (i.e. the pool boy) and in general have a lower social standing than the cuck.  This often adds to the cuck’s humiliation.  In addition, the cuck and the Cuckoldress may get off on her objectifying the bull.

Is this a turn on?  For many people, YES.  Why cuckolding is becoming so popular in modern culture is stirring lots of debate – but for Me the appeal is quite simple.  As a Dominatrix I see cuckolding as just another form of masochism.  It is also the perfect venue for the Female Dominant to exercise Her control over Her two males at the same time.

In session, I use cuckolding fantasy to mentally mindfuck a willing submissive.  I may tell him how inadequate he is as a lover and that I can only be satisfied by a much larger cock.  I need to be touched in places he can’t go.  I may tell him I need a lover that can last for hours and keep up with My voracious sexual appetite – which, as an inferior male,  he obviously can’t.  I may also tell the submissive that he will be required to prepare Me for My lover, “fluff” My lover and clean up both of us after the act.   Mmmm, I get excited just writing about it.  Now where did I leave My bull? . . .

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