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  • All those pesky acronyms and abbreviations in BDSM

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    For some reason kinksters love their acronyms.  Maybe it’s the need to be discrete in front of others or maybe it’s the geek in us wanting to have a secret lingo that only the “in crowd” understands.  Whatever the reason it can get cumbersome at times.  I remember a Domme texting Me once asking what NT meant.  A sub had listed his kinks in acronyms and she was drawing a blank on that one.  When I replied, “nipple torture”, she did the proverbial face palm.  Of course she knew what NT meant, but with all these to remember (plus subs occasionally make up their own) it can be difficult to recall them sometimes.

    Recently on Twitter I announced that I was about to see a particular sub and listed the day’s menu in hashtag acronyms.  When he arrived at the dungeon he said he had been worrying all day what #SOT meant.  I pulled out My strap on and he got it – in more ways than one.

    Below is a list some of the most common abbreviations used in Female Domination:

    AB – Adult Baby
    ATM – Ass to Mouth
    BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
    BDSM – Bondage & Discipline (BD) Dominance & submission (Ds) Sadism & Masochism (SM)
    CBB – Cock and Ball Bondage
    CBT – Cock and Ball Torture
    CD – Crossdresser
    CFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male
    CP – Corporal Punishment
    Cuck – Cuckold
    D/s – Dominant/submissive
    FEMDOM – Female Domination
    FT or FTT – Full Toilet or Full Toilet Training
    GS – Golden Shower
    NT – Nipple Torture
    OTK – Over The Knee
    RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink
    SPH – Small Penis Humiliation
    SOT – Strap On Training
    SOW – Strap On Worship
    SSC – Safe Sane Consensual
    TPE – Total Power Exchange
    TS – Trans Sexual
    WS – Water Sports