Category Archives: Reviews

Review of online distance training

These are different times.  For the time being, COVID-19 has put a crimp in the ability to do in person sessions.  During the lockdown it’s even been difficult for subs to find privacy to do phone and Skype sessions, but it doesn’t mean the need for submission has gone away.  If anything, shelter in place, has caused many people’s kink to resurface or get stronger.  As a stop gap measure, I started offering email/task sessions and amazingly both the participants and I have found it to be more fun than we anticipated.  The frequent check ins, the control during day to day activities and the general naughtiness of it has not only been entertaining but it has brought Me closer to many of My subs.

Sub john, a long time submissive that normally does monthly sessions, shared his experience and thoughts of his first two weeks of distance training.  The full review can be read on The Buzz.

I think think there are many lessons to be learned through adversity.  One I have learned is that it’s a good thing to explore new ways of connecting to My stable of submissives.  Phone, Skype and even email can bring us closer and enrich the relationship.  Going forward I plan to continue to offer limited distance training and connections via phone and Skype.

If you have been looking for a way to submit and are interested in distance training, take a look at My current online training options.

Atlanta Dominatrix offers distance training and online options for submission

Review of an overnight session

Overnight sessions are among My favorite things.  There is no clock or time pressures. The city quietens down and the Dungeon envelops you. In most sessions, even long ones, you have to be concerned with session pacing.   As the top, I don’t want to wear My bottom out prematurely or have the session build too quickly or too slowly and the end is a preset time that has to be honored.  With overnights it’s different.  They usually start with a leisurely dinner, then it’s back to the Dungeon to play – and play and play.  If we get tired, we rest.  If I want to crank it up, I do.  Eventually things naturally wind down and we get a few hours sleep, but it is on My terms, not the clock’s.

Below are some excerpts of a review of a recent overnight session:

“It is absolutely unbelievable to me how quickly the time flew by that night! In what felt like only 2-3 hours of play at the most, nearly 7 hours had gone by! The rest of the world may have continued to buzz by outside the door at its monotonous, tedious pace, but my time inside the dungeon while under the control of Mistress Ayn flashed by in the blink of an eye.

In all honesty, I don’t know that I’ve ever felt more alive than I did that night. I cannot put into words the gamut of emotional, physical and physiological responses that I was experiencing throughout my time with Mistress Ayn. She took me to the edge and back numerous times …. so much so that I had to actually remind myself to breathe on multiple occasions. It was an experience that I will cherish and remember for a lifetime and one that makes me want to get back and see her again as soon as possible. If you’ve ever been on the fence or thought about an overnight session with her, do yourself a favor and make it happen.”

The full review can be read on The Buzz.

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You will never be the same – Review by a female submissive

Several times a year I get an email that asks the following question, “Do you see female clients or only men?”  It’s a fair question.  The vast majority of My clients are men with a few male/female couples thrown in.  My site is geared toward the male submissive/fetishist and My reviews are almost exclusively from men . . .  but times are changing.

As women become more empowered in the workplace and life, the need to let that go and just let someone else take over, in a safe consensual environment is on the rise.  During the first half of My professional domination career, I saw only a handful of women.  Nowadays I see a handful a year.  This may not seem significant to the outside world, but it is huge in the ProDomme scene.  In a game that has always been considered  a “rich, white man’s indulgence”, it is refreshing to see women invading this space.  One day there may even be a need for professional male dominants.  Who knows, but I digress.

Recently I received such an email and answered it excitedly (like I always do) because I find it a real treat to have strong women submit to Me.  I do a good bit of lifestyle play with females, but being able to play with a woman for pay is another realm entirely, so I always jump at the chance.  This submissive female was kind enough to post a review of her encounter so others could gain from her experience. Below are excerpts of her impressions of our first two sessions.  The review can be read in its entirety on The Buzz.  Enjoy

“I have fantasized as long back as I can remember about kneeling before and serving a strong powerful woman. Being a woman myself, you don’t see this dynamic portrayed in stories and movies, or at least I hadn’t. So I wasn’t sure where that left me with my fantasies. About a month or two ago I decided to swallow my uncertainty and fear and did some searching. After a lot of searching and reading I composed an email to Mistress Ayn and before I let myself think about what I was doing I hit send. 

“I am a strong woman who doesn’t scare easily, but I have to admit when I knocked on the door I had second thoughts and wanted to turn tail – I had seen a couple of clips of Mistress Ayn in action. When the door opened Mistress Ayn was warm and welcoming, not what I expected but just what I needed at that point. 

“Even when She was gentler with me there was no doubt She was in complete control . . . I thought She was fucking with my mind when She chastised me for dripping on Her floor, but I soon found out I actually had. When the hour ended I felt euphoric. Mistress Ayn brought my fantasy to life better than I could have imagined, but I was left wanting more.

“Two weeks after that I scheduled another session with Mistress Ayn. This time I wasn’t quite as nervous and much to my delight she wasn’t as gentle. She knows how to work not only your body but also your mind. She informed me I was just a toy to be used for Her pleasure and amusement. It was then I realized how submissive I am because I wanted Her to use me and I wanted to please Her. 

“Now I hope to be able to do a multi hour session with Mistress Ayn in the future. I can only imagine how amazing it would be to be in Her presence and be used for Her amusement for multiple hours. So, just know you will be hooked. She exudes intelligence, strength and sensuality and Her sadistic grin speaks to just how much she relishes your complete submission.”

Complete review by Kneel4Her can be found here, on The Buzz.

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It was like being in a FemDom video

Usually I complain that subs watch way too many FemDom videos and then expect a session to be like what they watch.  Often what’s depicted in clips is not at all what a real session is like.  However, a recent submissive showed Me that sometimes expectations are realized and even exceeded.

 

In his words:

 

As someone who has watched way more femdom videos than I’ll ever admit to, I have to say that you nailed so many of the things that get me excited, I felt like I was in one of those videos.
 
Things like:
– telling me to take it when whipping me
– spitting on the strap-on
– the way you put your glove in my mouth to make me eat my gunk
– the way you just reached over and stretched me a little further
– your comments about no one knowing I was there, and what you could do with me
– telling me that you didn’t care if I came or not, that wasn’t going to change you did to me
– the venus 2000
– more …
 
You are so incredible at what you do.
 
And I saw your tweet about denying a slave, sending him home to prime the pump (so to speak), all the while waiting a week to face you and Mistress Harley Quinn.  Damn, if I’m ever back in Atlanta I wanted to be treated like that.
 
I’m very grateful I have been able to experience you amazing talent.

The crossdresser and the Dominatrix.

Crossdressers just want to have fun . . .  and they want to get in touch with their inner woman – and that’s okay.  As a professional Dominatrix, I often work with male clients that want to dress up and feel like a naughty girl.  Usually, there is a heavy dose of erotic humiliation involved, a stripping of the male ego and an element of being “forced” to be feminine.  That is not the case with crossdressers.  Most crossdressers that seek out My services want to be supported in their exploration and are simply seeking a safe space where a woman takes charge and brings out the best in them.  What better guide than an “Uber Woman” – a Dominatrix?

I recently had the pleasure of meeting and transforming a crossdresser named Ashley.  Ashley wasn’t exactly sure what would happen when we met, but she was openminded and simply asked that I help her on this journey.  I assured her that I had all the accouterments needed (clothes, shoes, undergarments, wigs, makeup, etc.) and that I understood her mindset.  So we met and I helped Ashley take her cross-dressing out of the closet and into the BDSM studio (Atlanta Dungeon’s Sissy Room).

 

Below is a recap of the events from Ashley’s perspective:

I wanted to write this review because what I was looking for (and found!) was a bit different from what I think most expect from a Domme. I found a beautiful, sensual “sister” who expertly guided me out of my shell and helped me discover new parts of myself.  – Excerpts are below and the full review can be read on Max Fisch.  

 

When I arrived at Mistress Ayn’s Atlanta dungeon I was warmly greeted by a beautiful woman wearing my favorite shade of pantyhose!! It was already a dream come true. 

Of course, I was extremely nervous: no one, not my wife or closest friends have ever known my “secret,” yet Mistress Ayn put me perfectly at ease with her friendly demeanor and professionalism.

We chatted for a bit about my history (just like a therapist or doctor might) and then she had me get completely naked. I was so thrilled! 

Next, she showed me one by one the pretty things she had brought for me: lacy black bra, perfect breast forms, sleek sexy heels, pantyhose, and even a gorgeous little black dress that fit perfectly!

Through all this, Mistress Ayn guided me in a friendly way and encouraged my dressing. She showed me how to properly put on a bra, walk in heels, etc. 

We even sat together and chatted for a bit just like gal pals!

At some point, it was time to go to the medical room and have my girl parts examined. Mistress Ayn opened my hose expertly and ensured my new vagina was dilated and functioning. Once she was satisfied with my body we adjourned to the next room where I could lie down and get comfortable with my new body. 

Interestingly enough, though I never thought of myself as a “sub,” during this time I noticed myself becoming more and more submissive, wanting to yes ma’am, thank you ma’am etc, and please her. 

After our time was over I was permitted to shower and returned to my regular clothes. Mistress Ayn hugged me warmly and asked me to follow up in a few days when my emotions had calmed down some and I could reflect.

I wanted to write this review because what I was looking for (and found!) was a bit different from what I think most expect from a Domme. I found a beautiful, sensual “sister” who expertly guided me out of my shell and helped me discover new parts of myself. 

As I told Mistress Ayn in the follow-up email, I went home feeling wonderful, floating on a pink cloud and not the least bit sad or ashamed or guilty like I had in other types of encounters. It wasn’t cheap, but it was absolutely worth the $ to explore this part of myself and feel the joy and inner peace of having my femininity accepted by such a gorgeous woman.

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