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Interview with Domme Addiction – FemDom Mansion

Sunday, 02 February 2020 19:50
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I was recently interviewed by slaveboysmith of Domme Addiction about the evolution of FemDom Mansion, the luxury BDSM retreat that offers immersive experiences to submissives and sissies that are more than mere “sessions”.

slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling in the presence of the beautiful and alluring Mistress Ayn, and preparing to share the story of the amazing Femdom Mansion she has created along with several other Dommes. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and my only regret is that we aren’t actually in Femdom Mansion for this interview!

Mistress Ayn: Hello slaveboysmith. I wish you were here as well. FemDom Mansion is a special place for sure and I appreciate you giving me the opportunity to share some information about it with your readers.

sbs: It would be my privilege to be kneeling before you in Femdom Mansion asking you all about it beautiful Mistress. Let me begin by asking you to share a little about what exactly Femdom Mansion is, and how it distinguishes itself from the array of other dungeon/playspaces that are out there?

MA: For starters, FemDom Mansion is a venue that accommodates one sub at a time which is extremely unique. People sometimes incorrectly think that our events are open for multiple subs, probably because they see multiple Mistresses in attendance and multiple sub events are the norm, but that is not the case. Each event is designed solely around the submissive that books it. They can choose to serve only one Mistress or many. Their interests drive the activities, so each event is unique and a great deal of planning goes into each one. The Mansion is also a private residence so it has all the luxuries and comforts one would expect from such a property – with one big addition, a 2000 square foot BDSM Dungeon. This gives us the best of both worlds, the luxury of an prestigious home for domestic scenes and access to an exceptionally well equipped Dungeon. I don’t know of any other property that offers both at this high a level.

sbs: It’s almost incomprehensible to think of a space where one might serve multiple Mistresses over the span of time spent there. Obviously you are one of the Dommes that a submissive might serve at Femdom Mansion, but you mention multiple Mistresses. Are there other Mistresses that a submissive might choose from, or do they arrange to book Femdom Mansion with a Mistress they already serve?

MA: As the Proprietress I am responsible for the space and what happens within it, so all events include me, whether I am actually active or not. The website includes a list of local Mistresses that I have worked with for years at Atlanta Dungeon and trust. A sub can choose any of those Mistresses listed to be part of their event. We also have two Switches to make things more interesting. That being said, we recently had Mistress Troy of NYC appear as a guest Mistress for two events at the request of the sub. Again, Mistress Troy is a known and trusted Mistress and we had sessioned together before so I had no qualms including her. I am certainly open to a sub attending with his Mistress but it would need to be someone I knew and trusted. These events are a minimum of 24 hours, costly and elaborate to produce so I want to be sure that we are all a good fit so the experience is one that brings us all joy.

sbs: The more I hear about Femdom Mansion the more it becomes etched onto my “bucket list” as a submissive. I can only imagine the cost of a life-changing experience like this and know that it might not be for everyone. Can you give our readers a sense of the type of tax bracket we’re talking about for the opportunity to experience heaven on earth like this Mistress?

For the answer to this and to read the entire interview, visit Domme Addition.

 

Review of an overnight session

Monday, 27 January 2020 16:58
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Overnight sessions are among My favorite things.  There is no clock or time pressures. The city quietens down and the Dungeon envelops you. In most sessions, even long ones, you have to be concerned with session pacing.   As the top, I don’t want to wear My bottom out prematurely or have the session build too quickly or too slowly and the end is a preset time that has to be honored.  With overnights it’s different.  They usually start with a leisurely dinner, then it’s back to the Dungeon to play – and play and play.  If we get tired, we rest.  If I want to crank it up, I do.  Eventually things naturally wind down and we get a few hours sleep, but it is on My terms, not the clock’s.

Below are some excerpts of a review of a recent overnight session:

“It is absolutely unbelievable to me how quickly the time flew by that night! In what felt like only 2-3 hours of play at the most, nearly 7 hours had gone by! The rest of the world may have continued to buzz by outside the door at its monotonous, tedious pace, but my time inside the dungeon while under the control of Mistress Ayn flashed by in the blink of an eye.

In all honesty, I don’t know that I’ve ever felt more alive than I did that night. I cannot put into words the gamut of emotional, physical and physiological responses that I was experiencing throughout my time with Mistress Ayn. She took me to the edge and back numerous times …. so much so that I had to actually remind myself to breathe on multiple occasions. It was an experience that I will cherish and remember for a lifetime and one that makes me want to get back and see her again as soon as possible. If you’ve ever been on the fence or thought about an overnight session with her, do yourself a favor and make it happen.”

The full review can be read on The Buzz.

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Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #20

Sunday, 05 January 2020 18:20
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Installment #20 – About markings – physical and psychological – by slave boy

The dictionary defines “marking” as “the act, process, or an instance of making or giving a mark.”  This rather simplistically defined word takes on a profound, complex, and new meaning in my life, as i am now experiencing “markings” during my submissive and chaste service to Mistress Ayn.

Ironically, many, many months ago and long before i submitted to Mistress Ayn, “no marks” was a hard limit for me when serving any Mistress as Her submissive.  Then, Mistress Ayn asked about this “hard limit” and slowly brought me around to understand that receiving marks was something that pleased Mistress Ayn and can be administered in a safe and sane manner.  Now receiving marks is something i crave as Her personal slave.

A “mark” is a territorial indication that i am Mistress Ayn’s slave.  Sometimes the mark is clearly indicative of that belonging, as when Mistress Ayn leaves Her initial (the mark of an “A”) on my ass during a personal slave training session.  Other times the “mark” is less personal but nonetheless very profound and painful, as when Mistress Ayn flogs or whips my back or thighs, or canes my ass.  These marks do not last more than a few days past the session, as per O/our agreement, but i do find myself checking out the marks later and silently hoping they would last a few days longer.

In addition to the physical markings, the introduction of marks in my submissive life as Mistress Ayn’s slave has another important meaning lasting far beyond their physical presence.  Marking is how Mistress Ayn psychologically exhibits Her control over me and manifests Her possession or ownership of me as Her slave.

i am, as my Twitter name indicates, “Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy.”  That control and ownership is not only shown through physical markings but also psychologically, as She symbolically places Her “mark” on my mind and soul demonstrating Her power over me and in my life.

Markings can be a way of experiencing Mistress Ayn’s infliction of pain, Her physical control over me, and Her psychological ownership of me as Her slaveboy.  What was once inconceivable during a session with a Mistress, and thus a “hard limit,” markings are now a frequently desired occurrence in service to Mistress Ayn.  Receiving Her mark is something i am hoping for every time as i anticipate my next opportunity to serve Mistress Ayn as Her personal slaveboy.

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #18

Monday, 28 October 2019 21:20
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FemDom MansionInstallment #18 – My Personal Slave Training Progress in Review

While most of my chaste slave training with Mistress Ayn is via emails, there were four very special weekends at the FemDom Mansion in the past 18 months.  There i subjected to Mistress Ayn, and other Mistresses and Goddesses of Her choosing, to advance my personal slave training.  At the end of each weekend, i knelt before the Mistresses and Goddesses who took charge of my training weekend and humbly requested that They sign my “personal slave training Certificate of Achievement.”

On the flight home i begin to reflect on my slave training experiences at the hands of these beautiful and talented Mistresses and Goddesses and construct a “Top 13” list of the most memorable or meaningful experiences that have advanced my personal slave training. Recently i reviewed my “Top 13” lists and discovered some patterns reflecting my progress as Mistress Ayn’s personal chaste slave.

  • Humiliation – in the basement dungeon as i was ordered to experience a gangbang, spitroasting, or sucking dildoes; or during the cocktail party where i am typically in full-drag feminization and sitting on the spiked tray, spanked, performing a burlesque dance, or displayed with saline-filled balls; or during the day as i am “waterboarded Goddess-style” (an outdoor showers with garden hose); or feminized (often looking “ridiculous”) for serving dinner;
  • Physical pain – markings from a whip or cane or flogger; electricity attached to inserted sounds; sitting on a spiked tray; multiple piercings with needles; and generally prohibited from using a safe word;
  • Feminization – in full drag for a burlesque dance, Halloween costume as Mistress Ayn’s mini-me, or as a cocktail waitress; or partially feminized as a maidservant for meals;
  • Anal play – birthday gangbang; strap-on sucking and pegging; spitroasted while on display in the dungeon; and,
  • Markings – from a rattan cane or whip or flogger; redness from a spanking; bearing Mistress Ayn’s and Goddess Samantha’s initials.

The level of humiliation, physical pain, feminization, anal play, and markings are all “former hard limits,” with the emphasis on “former” as i have advanced as a slave due to my training.  Not only have i accepted them as part of my new life as Mistress Ayn’s personal chaste slave due to Her expert training, but i am craving these experiences each time i submit to Her and Others for more training.  They seem to please Mistress Ayn and that is my ultimate goal. They have become a part of my life as Her slaveboy and i hope i can endure / embrace even more as my personal slave training progresses – but that is, as always, at Mistress Ayn’s discretion.

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #17

Sunday, 06 October 2019 18:55
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Installment #17 – Mistress Ayn “Pushes” Me – by slaveboy

Reflecting on months as Mistress Ayn’s chaste slaveboy, there are many things i have experienced that i have desired, often in moderation: chastity, bondage and discipline, servitude, tease and denial, and more.  Yet, Mistress Ayn also knows how to “push” my limits for the things i desire and to introduce me to things i dislike or at least thought i did not want.

i enjoy chastity and Mistress Ayn being my Keyholder … but … She “pushes” me as i have been controlled and restricted from freely touching, masturbating or orgasming for eight months … with no end in sight.  Mistress Ayn loves introducing me to “indefinite chastity.”  There is more.  At my last weekend at the FemDom Mansion, i was secured to the bondage bench expecting some discipline – for my birthday … what i received were eight strikes with a rattan cane. OMG, that was intense and, again, my limit for pain tolerance was “pushed,” never beyond what i could take but much more than what i thought i could handle.

As the FemDom Mansion Houseboy, i was “pushed” into many things i thought i would dislike and did not asked for, if that was an option: sissification, public humiliation, gangbang as a birthday gift, no whining or sassing, and more.  Mistresses at the Mansion now joke about many of my “hard limits.”  For instance, i was taken to a public shopping mall by a Mistress and a Goddess and ordered to walk around with Them. W/we shopped for sissy bling for me and sexy outfits for them.  i was ordered to carry my Goddess’ purse – “pushing” me beyond what i thought i wanted.  At the Mansion, Mistress Ayn created a display board to record the times i sassed a Mistress during the weekend and punishments were doled out based on this recorded number – a number much higher than i thought i could possibly take.  This “pushed” me to think about what i was about to say and be more respectful at all times of Mistresses.  i was subjected to much more as will be reported in Mistress Ayn’s blog and Twitter.

The closing thought – regardless of whether i ask for something or not, Mistress Ayn knows how to train me to accept whatever She desires for me to experience and to enhance my training as a submissive slaveboy.  i am so appreciative of this opportunity to serve in this way.

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