Long term D/s relationships have certain benefits. Among them is a higher level of trust that allows the Domme to push the submissive’s limits farther. I understand that some subs what to “hop” from Domme to Domme, experiencing new things, but they will never enjoy the highest highs that a dedicated sub can achieve with his true Mistress.
This lengthy review helps put that into perspective – from the subs point of view. Here are a few excerpts. The full review can be read at The Mistress Review. Reviews on that site are in date order, newest are last, so scroll to the bottom of the page to view. It’s dated September 2015, by Anonymous.
“I have been serving Mistress Ayn for more than 5 years. Sometimes We/we manage to session 3 times a year and sometimes just once. i don’t get to serve Mistress Ayn as much as i would like because i live a thousand miles from Atlanta, and my work no longer brings me as close to Her Dungeon as often as it should. As a distance limited sub i have been enjoying overnight sessions to maximize my time in service . . .
Eating dinner with a remote controlled vibrator in close proximity to ones more private parts and under the control Mistress Ayn is always memorable, and can be disconcerting (and extremely pleasurable). This time it was suggested, and i agreed, that we would spend 5 hours in the Dungeon and then enjoy Our/our dinner in the afterglow of a great session. There would be no sub sleepover this time and no topping from the bottom.
I arrived on time and was greeted, as always, with a warm welcome and a brief catch up. I can’t imagine serving a Dominatrix for years and not having a strong and warm reconnection when seeing each other again. Subs and sluts like me travel great distances to serve Mistress Ayn because of this long term bond that develops. i have served other Mistresses prior to Mistress Ayn but i have never felt such a strong connection both in and out of session. Those of you who are regulars will understand what I mean . . .
Early on in Our/our relationship while i was in deep sub space, i remember Her asking me during strap-on play, in that sexy whisper that demands attention, if i would take her cock after it took me simply because it would give her pleasure and feed her needs. All of you know what she was asking don’t you? This sensuous dirty talk drives me deeper into her control . . . When i first began serving Mistress Ayn, i had a list of limits and no go zones that was quite extensive. my list was based on fear, lack of trust and a lack of understanding.
Blindfolds – they used to be at the top of my list of never, ever going to happen. That was then, this is now and I am now hooded and blindfolded as Her mood strikes. Losing one sensation enhances the others, and this time i am left alone facing outward hooded and tied to the cross. Today I am also gagged with a ball gag. I hear footsteps, two sets of footsteps. Obviously Mistress Ayn has invited someone else to our session. What happened next i can only leave to your imagination, but the encounter, totally directed by Mistress Ayn, not only put me in my place, it also left me reeling . . .
It is not just physical experience with Mistress Ayn, it is her constant talking to you, Her slut, as She takes you and owns you that makes this experience so unique and powerful. Many of Her subs and sluts may have partners, but all of us know that Mistress Ayn truly owns us.
Lots of sluts and subs want to experience a strap-on but in my experience few Mistress are actually any good at it, or get pleasure from it. Mistress Ayn is an expert and as a subscriber to Ayn Rules when i watch her in a strap-on scene i am taken right back to the many sessions i have had with her . . .
Within minutes, hours, days (who knows) I am writhing on the edge of ecstasy from Her fingers on my nipples. Things stop and I feel something being slipped over me, i am now meeting for the first time Mistress Ayn’s Venus 2000. The ride begins and it is so amazing and so intense. Mistress Ayn controls this machine like a Formula One driver controls their car. i am brought to the edge many times and then pulled back . . . “
What followed was aftercare and a lovely dinner where we caught up and then discussed the session – our favorite parts, his greatest fears and the future of his training. Long term relationships with subs that are willing to let their Mistress lead are a win-win situation. Isn’t that what we all want?
Some of the most satisfying sessions are with long term subs. The established relationship and rapport allow you to take each other further along the path and makes the journey rich and satisfying. I experience a high called “top space” in great sessions and I find that easier to experience with subs I have sessioned with for a while.