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A Year in the life of a collared slave – by slaveboy jaime

A Year in Review:

My First Year as a Slaveboy to One of the Elite European Dommes,

the Sensually Sadistic Mistress Ayn

After six years of serving Mistress Ayn, formerly of Atlanta, USA, at the FemDom Mansion, Atlanta Dungeon, and via zoom sessions, Mistress Ayn relocated to Romania with the promise of my experiencing European adventures, and i have. What a year it has been, far beyond my expectations or imagination.

June 2023, London – my first adventure exposed me to:

  • Domestic service as Mistress Ayn’s travel companion, with sightseeing and fine dining
  • Submitted to discipline and other forms of Female Domination as desired by Mistress Ayn
  • Stayed caged overnight in a London dungeon apartment
  • Left by Mistress Ayn in the dungeon to serve Mistresses that i did not know on two occasions, Mistress Valeska and Mistress Scarlett, that Mistress Ayn had met previously at the 2023 Femdom Summit

October 2023, London

  • More domestic service at the hotel, sightseeing, and fine dining
  • Stayed at a London dungeon apartment where i submitted to serve Mistress Scarlett and later was caged overnight wearing only a diaper
  • Submitted to discipline and other forms of Female Domination as desired by Mistress Ayn
  • Escorted Mistress Ayn to the 2023 London Femdom Ball, a magnificent sight featuring Female Power and Splendor, with orders to serve Mistress Ayn and Her friends at the table, and submitted to a whipping and breath play session with Mistress Ayn at the Ball’s Afterparty

February 2024, Romania / Portugal

  • After arriving in Romania, Mistress Ayn and i traveled to The House of Sinn for filming BDSM videos where i was given to Mistress Ezada for a time for Her pleasure, subjected to a variety of submissive roles under Mistress Ayn’s control, and chained in the slave’s quarters to a bunk bed overnight
  • After a week on my own touring Portugal, i escorted Mistress Ayn to the 2024 Portugal Retreat Weekend, where i was ordered out of Mistress Ayn’s room for snoring and forced to locate a place to sleep each night, followed high protocols in serving all of the seven Dominant Woman in attendance, submitted to Mistress Kaarina for intense nipple play, and subjected to Mistress Ayn’s discipline, as well as some sight-seeing touring with Mistress Ayn and the group

May 2024, Germany / Romania

  • i met Mistress Ayn in Berlin, Germany, to attend the 2024 German Femdom Gala, where i served Mistress Ayn as Her slave and travel companion, W/we attended the Gala events, including a voyeuristic evening at the legendary Kit Kat Club to see and meet the kink community wearing their best outfits
  • Mistress Ayn also held a BDSM session in Her hotel room, where i was joined kneeing on the bed with slutboi and was disciplined and pegged by Mistress Ayn and Goddess B
  • Mistress Ayn, Goddess B, slutboi and i traveled to Romania where the three of U/us were privileged to see the sights of Brasov, Mistress Ayn’s new home town, and partake in fine dining
  • Back in Bucharest, Mistress Ayn and Goddess B held a BDSM session in Mistress Ayn’s hotel room where a naked slutboi and i were ordered to play with each other’s nipples while being disciplined
  • Later W/we attended the 2024 Femdom Summit events, including a traditional Romanian dinner and the Awards Ceremony, where after receiving an award, Mistress Ayn conducted a very thorough whipping of my back in front of on-lookers at the Summit Afterparty

Given the time gap between various European adventures, Mistress Ayn also began ordering me to serve other Mistresses:

  • Mistress Troy of New York City in March and June 2024
  • Domina Rei of San Francisco, visiting Columbus, OH, July 2024
  • And others

The periodic zoom sessions with Mistress Ayn also continued and were more and more intense,  focusing on Mistress Ayn’s sadistic pleasures in using and abusing me as She desired.

It was an amazing year and 2024-2025 looks even more enticing.

Let’s make 2024 the year of the submissive

Let’s shake things up a bit this year. I did that last year with a move to Europe and it’s only been positive.  This year is your year to make some changes and get out of your rut.  I suggest you embrace your submissive/feminine side and see just how good a submissive you can be.  Submission may just set you free.

If you have gotten out of the habit of seeing a Domme in real life, I can help with that.  Let’s start with some distance training and then I will send you to a reputable Domme I trust – if I can’t see you Myself.

If you have gotten into an indulgent cycle with anything from food to masturbation, I can help with that too.  Dommie knows best and I can create a task or chastity program that can get you on the right track – or else.

Has a lack of Female leadership left you feeling out of sorts?  Then submit, serve, learn and be tested – and yes, we can do much of this from a distance.

So let 2024 be the year of the submissive.  Contact Me direct about any questions or logistics – ayn@mistressayn.com.  Or do some investigating here.

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A European Adventure

Hello all.  As some of you know, I left Atlanta at the end of the year and headed off on a grand adventure.  At present I am in Brasov, Romania and plan to use this as a base to explore some of the more adventurous and mysterious parts of Europe.

A lot of you have had questions:  Am I retiring?  Will I stay here permanently?  Will I offer sessions in Europe?  Will I ever go back to Atlanta?

First, no I am not retiring.  My focus is just shifting so I can do some exploring.  For many years I travelled extensively and just simply burned out on it.  I am not sure what happened over the last couple of years; the lockdowns, watching too many travel videos, being told I can’t travel due to the virus?  Whatever the reason, the travel bug struck again, so off I went.

It’s doubtful I will stay here – or anywhere – permanently.  I can tell you that I like Romania (and the Romanian people) and have been having a wonderful time, but the world is a big place.  Who knows what the future will bring.

As far as sessions are concerned, I am more interested in attending events on this side of the pond than traveling to do individual sessions, but I would be open to combining the two.  Currently I am looking at attending events in the UK, Greece, Portugal and Romania.

Will I go back to Atlanta?  Of course, that’s My FemDom home and where most of My best boys live.  I am currently making plans to return very soon for a visit, so stay tuned for that.  Sessions will be available at Atlanta Dungeon, of course.

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Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – COVID special edition

Photo courtesy of Image by Łukasz Dyłka from Pixabay

 

Special COVID edition by slaveboy.

W/we are firmly in the grips of a COVID-era and my slave training now occurs long distance, yet Mistress Ayn is still very powerfully in control.  It would be easy to become negative and lament not having a forthcoming scheduled weekend at the FemDom Mansion – as would “regularly” occur – but W/we are not living in “regular times” these days.  Alternatively, there are daily activities that remind me of my status as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy, in chastity and collared, such as my morning walks.  During the walk i focus on how many things Mistress Ayn has introduced to establish Her daily presence in my life.

While wanting to “try out” a chastity cage was my idea, i did ask Mistress Ayn to be my Keyholder.  But, She introduced the terrifying word – “indefinite” – into chastity wearing and now i am in chastity indefinitely.  She also ordered me to purchase a pink cage, then a pink with gold sparkles cage, and now a smaller black cage for those special “formal” occasions.

While dressing as a sissy was fun and humiliating at the FDM, Mistress Ayn ordered me to wear panties every day, and i am, and it is amazing.

Obviously it was Mistress’s idea to pierce my nipples.  It is incredible and does remind me, in yet another way, that i am Her slaveboy … indefinitely .. and, of course, the posts are pink.

i began daily morning walk, mostly for physical health reasons, yet Mistress Ayn challenged me to extend the route, which i have.  She also ordered me to insert the Hush during these walks, which i have.

In addition to all those ways Mistress Ayn is with me every single day as my Mistress, i never know when i might get an email from Her with orders.  i check my “slaveboy” email account twice a day – at least – hoping (and dreading) for an email from my Mistress, never knowing what She will command me to do.

Will i be allowed to unlock Her chastity cage?  Will i receive sexual relief to the daily frustration of indefinite chastity?   Will it be a ruined orgasm, or full orgasm, but always, if there is discharge, to consume every drop.

In this COVID-era being Mistress Ayn’s owned, chaste slave is not something that occurs – with, admittedly, a big bang – every few months at the FDM.  Rather it is a combination of multiple daily experiences to keep me focused in my role as Her slaveboy, to remind me of my devotion and commitment to Mistress Ayn in doing whatever She asks of me (that really could be very scary).

It is indeed amazing to recall how truly talented Mistress Ayn is as a Mistress, Keyholder and Owner and how terribly fortunate (not lucky! as She has taught me) i am to be Her slaveboy.

 

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