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Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #34 – Cuckolding a collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy

Tuesday, 18 January 2022 21:20
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Installment #34 – Cuckolding a collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy – by slaveboy jaime

As many people know, cuckolding is often when the dominant female has sexual relations with a male that is not Her husband or partner.  She may also subject Her husband or partner, often serving Her as Her slave or sub, to watch or hear about these activities to further humiliate or dominate the sub.

As Mistress Ayn’s collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy, sexual activity is not part of O/our Mistress-slaver relationship.  i could never satisfy Her in that way – as She reminds me, my (now Her owned and caged) penis is too small to satisfy Her.  And, i will never be Mistress Ayn’s husband or partner.  Yet, cuckolding is present in O/our relationship in a unique way.

Each time She dominates another one of Her collared slaves or any submissive, i feel a sense of jealousy.  When She describes what She did to a slave, i am envious of what the other slave experienced.  i want to be there for Her, suffering at Her hands, being humiliated by Her words or actions, just serving Her and pleasing Her as She wishes – not hearing about another slave having that privilege.

i know Mistress Ayn does everything for a purpose and while She is not disciplining, humiliating or sissifying another one of Her slaves because of me specifically, it may also be a way She choose to cuckold me – to show me Her dominance and control over me by dominating and controlling another slave.

i have learned that my place as Her collared, chaste, sissy slave is to be there when She wants me and to accept that She has other collared, chaste or submissive slaves available to Her that i must accept as Her slaveboy.

Cuckold fantasy – making it real

Friday, 12 June 2020 19:29
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Image by StockSnap from Pixabay

 

The concept of being cuckolded is quite common among men.  I hear it a lot in My industry – men fantasizing about their wives being with other men.  I agree it’s a hot fantasy but in practice I advise against it.   So much can go wrong that can end up tearing a couple apart, but it doesn’t mean you can’t safely enjoy the fantasy.  It just takes effort and imagination.

While doing some distance training with a couple it was revealed that the man had a long held cuckold fantasy and that the wife was resistant.  I gave them My stock advice to keep it in the fantasy realm but I also coached them on how to enjoy the fantasy.  Good fantasy fulfilment often involves at least a little mindfuckery and that’s exactly what we did.  The wife set up the fantasy by informing her husband that she had met someone online (they had been trolling cuckold forums/sites) that she wanted to meet in person.  She explained that she would feel better meeting this person out for a drink to break the ice and that she wanted to go alone so she wouldn’t feel inhibited.

She made her husband help her pick out her outfit and get dressed for the date, all the while telling him how excited she was to meet this guy. He asked her questions about him, she answered.  They made it real.

Once she got to the bar, she checked in as agreed and throughout the evening she sent her husband provocative texts, often leaving his texts unanswered, letting him stew.  She then announced that she was going to get into the car with the guy because the bar had gotten crowded and she wanted to get a look at his cock.  She later texted him a photo of an nicely endowed penis that was obviously taken on a cell phone in a car.  The husband started to doubt that this was just a fantasy . . .

This byplay continued for 3 hours while the husband got more and more aroused.  In addition to arousal he had feelings of jealousy and concern.  All of this is part of the cuckold game.

When she arrived home, she told him all the juicy details of her encounter including having impromptu sex in the guy’s car.  But now she was ready to fuck her husband and have him reclaim what was his.  He was to get the bedroom ready while she changed.  During this time, she rubbed some of her husband’s cum (saved from a previous scene) on her pussy.  When she stipped down for him, she instructed him to clean the other man’s cum from her pussy with his mouth.  The sex that followed was described as “amazing” by them both.

With some effort and roleplay you can make most any fantasy realistic and safe.  I debriefed them both via Skype after the scene and the wife (who had never quite “gotten” the fantasy) said she was extremely aroused during the scene.  Knowing that she was pulling her husbands strings was a power trip and then seeing how excited he was when she returned home made her excited too.  It was a win win.

A review of this couple’s online BDSM training including reference to this cuckolding scene can be found on The Buzz.

**Note:  My opinions are My own and may not be shared by others.  I do not hold Myself out as an expert on cuckolding but I do live a polyamorous lifestyle.  Along the way I have encountered other poly couples, swingers, cucks, hotwives, etc and My opinions about cuckolding come from those experiences.

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #13

Tuesday, 02 July 2019 01:37
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 Installment # 13 – Chastity “Cuckolding”

As many know, typically, a cuckold is when a male changes his role from sexual partner to chaste submissive and the Female takes on other sexual partners.  The male is no longer the alpha and there may be many other males in the Female’s life, as it should be.  While i have never been more than a submissive to Mistress Ayn, i did realize the other day that i am a “chaste cuckold” of sorts. 

i knew that Mistress Ayn had other males in Her life – some for Her sexual pleasure and others as submissives to serve Her in a variety of roles, as well as some female submissives.  The other day it became clear to me that She also has other slaves who are ordered into chastity and this caused me to think – how do i respond to this new understanding of my role?  i am only one of many submissives under Mistress Ayn’s control as a chaste slave.  My role as Her chaste slave is diminished further by not being the only chaste slave serving Her.  What does this mean for me?

This revelation caused me to renew my commitment in being or becoming Mistress Ayn’s “treasured” submissive.  i want to be Her “best” submissive slave. i want to find ways to please Her, even when W/we are not together.  Whether it is being completely obedient to Her orders for continuous chastity, edging and denial for specific periods of time, wearing panties, or other commands, i want to please Her as best i can.  i want to please Her by never complaining about being in continuous chastity or prohibited from cage release, stroking, or orgasming.  i want to please Her by purchasing gifts for special occasions and for no reason at all.  i want to try to be physically available to Her as often as possible and, when in Her presence, to be completely obedient to Her and Her guests at the FemDom Mansion and thus please Her.

The realization that i am Mistress Ayn’s “chaste cuckold” motivates me to be Her “best” chaste slave and affirms my resolve of being completely obedient to Mistress Ayn.

New POV clips on the way

Tuesday, 07 June 2016 15:51
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Ayn Rules Productions just wrapped up filming a series of POV FemDom clips in multiple categories including strapon, cuckold fantasy, spanking and JOI.  To whet your appetite, view the photo gallery of screen captures and watch the trailer of one of My favorites from the shoot.  If you are not already a member, join AynRules.com today so you don’t miss a minute of the fun.

 

 

FAQ #18 – How is humiliation used in a BDSM or D/s session?

Thursday, 15 January 2015 00:55
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Mistress Ayn & Switch GiannaFirst of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won’t elicit the desired effect.

Each person is unique and I recommend that humiliation be used gingerly with a new play partner. One person’s turn on is another’s turn off and humiliation scenes, like all other scenes should be well negotiated. Some men are very turned on when a Female Dominant pronounces their penis too small for proper sex with a woman – and their little peckers get rock hard at the idea of being evaluated and judged in this way. For others, it’s a buzz kill, so it’s important to know what turns your sub on and what areas are off limits.

Examples of humiliation used in Domme/sub sessions are:

  • Verbal humiliation – name calling, beratement, racial slurs, mockery, etc.
  • Forced feminization – as simple as being made to wear panties to full female transformations
  • Animal play – forced to wear a leash, drink from a dog bowl, etc.
  • Public display – embarrassing public acts or displays
  • Cum eating
  • Ass worship / foot worship – some see this as a reward, others feel degraded by it
  • Cuckolding – combination of verbal insults about manhood and degrading acts
  • Objectification – treated as unimportant – being used as a foot stool, as an example
  • Forced masturbation/orgasm
  • Enemas
  • Spanking – yes, for some getting a simple spanking is humiliating

As you can see from this non-exhaustive list, erotic humiliation is a very diverse and personalized form of play. Humiliation can push buttons psychologically that send a sub deeper into subspace or send them reeling in raw emotion, so know your sub well, make sure safe words are in place and pay very close attention to your subs reactions to everything you hurl at them.

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