Is a shoe fetish a paraphilia? Are all paraphilias fetishes? What is a paraphilia anyway? We discuss it all in this short but informative Kink 101 clip.
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Paraphilias vs Fetishes – what is the difference?
- Feb 20, 2022 7:44 pm
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Double sessions with submissive Blake August
- Feb 16, 2022 7:03 pm
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The Return of Cougar and kitten sessions
TWO DAYS ONLY – March 1st and 4th
It’s been a while since I have had a submissive female available for sessions, so I am doubly pleased that My friend Blake August has some availability in her schedule.
This is a very limited opportunity, so secure your booking now while you can.
- 90 minute minimum – $800
- 2 hours – $1050
Blake is not a masochist but she can take a good spanking. Her strong suit is her sensuality and downright naughtiness. I am going to love using her to tease you.
You can see Blake is some of My films, here.
To schedule, email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com A completed application and a deposit are necessary to book.
Three Years in Chastity: “Mission Accomplished”
- Feb 13, 2022 7:07 pm
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In the continuation of the Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave chronicles, slaveboy reminisces about orgasms . . .
The three-year anniversary of my “indefinite” chastity caused me to reflect on a fading memory — orgasms. Before chastity, i orgasmed when i felt the urge – about twice or thrice a week. i really do not remember those days, (as You like to say Mistress Ayn: “Mission Accomplished!”). Then, as Your chaste slaveboy, i would look forward to the days whenever You would permit an orgasm.
Recently things have changed – orgasms are permitted whenever You wish to have them happen and under Your control (“Mission Accomplished!”). And, a new twist – they rarely involve my stroking to a satisfying orgasm. Your plan seems to have me orgasm JUST often enough for me to remember what You have taken away from me (“Mission Accomplished!”). Orgasms are now just another one of Your many ways to control me, sometimes reward me, and even sometimes they are used to punish (“Mission Accomplished!”).
There is no pattern, for that would allow me to anticipate. At the end of 2020, You had me orgasm at the stroke of the new year. The next year You casually signed off in Your last email, informing me that “I am off until Monday.” No orgasm to end the year, keeping me unbalanced and submissive (“Mission Accomplished!”).
In 2019 and 2020, i was permitted “release” 19 times and 18 times, respectively. For 2021, that number plummeted to 12 – a 35% drop. i see where this is going: fewer releases, farther and farther apart, making it harder to remember orgasms, and You exerting more control (“Mission Accomplished!”).
And a new element, merely 12 releases, yet only FIVE “real orgasms,” when i was allowed to touch Your cock and bring myself to a satisfying orgasm. THREE times a ruined orgasm, stroking but stopping just short of a satisfying release. THREE times a forced orgasm – release but no physical touch Your cock, but using a vibrator. And, ONCE a forced, ruined orgasm – no physical touching and stopping before ejaculation. You are a creative Mistress and apparently One with a plan – fewer releases and even fewer the old-fashion way = jerking off to ejaculation (“Mission Accomplished!”).
Is there a lesson here? Yes. You are in control, it is not about me, my needs, or my pleasure (“Mission Accomplished”). It is about Your pleasure. My less frequent releases seem to please You, with new twists and turns, and less satisfaction. i gladly embraced this new training. You have trained me well, oh wise Mistress. – slaveboy jaime
Mistress Zoe Red TS joins the Mistress of FemDom Mansion
- Feb 4, 2022 11:56 am
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FemDom Mansion officially welcomes Mistress Zoe Red TS to the lineup of notable Dommes at the Mansion.
Gender exploration has become a popular theme at the Mansion with the addition of the Sissy Studio and as a transsexual Mistress, Mistress Zoe is a great addition to aid in that exploration. With striking red hair and light caramel eyes, Mistress Zoe adds a bit of edginess to any event or scene. If you are looking to explore your inner desires and indulge those taboo cravings in a lavish, safe setting then consider booking an event at FemDom Mansion in Atlanta and include Mistress Zoe Red among the Dommes you serve while there.
To get an idea what is possible, view past FemDom Mansion events here.
To read how FemDom Mansion got started, see the interview in Domme Addition.
Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #34 – Cuckolding a collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy
- Jan 18, 2022 9:20 pm
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Installment #34 – Cuckolding a collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy – by slaveboy jaime
As many people know, cuckolding is often when the dominant female has sexual relations with a male that is not Her husband or partner. She may also subject Her husband or partner, often serving Her as Her slave or sub, to watch or hear about these activities to further humiliate or dominate the sub.
As Mistress Ayn’s collared, chaste, sissy slaveboy, sexual activity is not part of O/our Mistress-slaver relationship. i could never satisfy Her in that way – as She reminds me, my (now Her owned and caged) penis is too small to satisfy Her. And, i will never be Mistress Ayn’s husband or partner. Yet, cuckolding is present in O/our relationship in a unique way.
Each time She dominates another one of Her collared slaves or any submissive, i feel a sense of jealousy. When She describes what She did to a slave, i am envious of what the other slave experienced. i want to be there for Her, suffering at Her hands, being humiliated by Her words or actions, just serving Her and pleasing Her as She wishes – not hearing about another slave having that privilege.
i know Mistress Ayn does everything for a purpose and while She is not disciplining, humiliating or sissifying another one of Her slaves because of me specifically, it may also be a way She choose to cuckold me – to show me Her dominance and control over me by dominating and controlling another slave.
i have learned that my place as Her collared, chaste, sissy slave is to be there when She wants me and to accept that She has other collared, chaste or submissive slaves available to Her that i must accept as Her slaveboy.
Interview with Simone Justice on the ethics of BDSM public play
- Jan 10, 2022 6:17 pm
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Just before Dom Con New Orleans in 2019, Simone Justice asked if She could interview Me regarding My thoughts on public play. She was preparing to lead a DomCon Parade down Bourbon Street and the topic of public play, consent and ethics came up. I don’t think this interview was ever published so I thought I would post it here.
SJ: What is your opinion as to the limits of public play?
MA: I love public play, but it means different things to different people. Some people think the simple act of wearing a visible collar is public play. Others don’t consider play to be public unless it’s more of a scene. It’s important to understand the limits of the person you are playing with in each situation. My only real limit to what I will do in public has to do with the respect of people that could view the play. I don’t like to involve people that haven’t consented and might find what I do with a submissive offensive.
SM: What do you do with your own clients in public?
MA: I have done all kinds of discreet and indiscreet public play. I’ve had shoe fetishists put shoes on me in a shoe store. I’ve taken sissies to have bra fittings at lingerie stores, mani/pedis, in store makeover, etc. I’ve wired subs up with electro or remote plugs and stimulated them in public with no one the wiser. I’ve also done full blown scenes in kink friendly venues.
SJ: What would you never do in public with a client?
MA: I would never do anything that was offensive to on lookers. I’ve outgrown the need for shock value. If I am going to do something with a sub that might offend a shop employee, I call ahead first and clue them in. It’s amazing how often people are good sports and will play into your scene if you just give them the respect of letting them know what is going on. Anything done in front of children that would require an explanation from parents is definitely off limits.
SJ: How did you develop your rules of what you will do in public?
MA: Experience. It just evolved over time. I’ve learned the most from listening to my subs and what their concerns are and I understand that everyone’s limits are different.
SJ: Have your limits changed over the years?
MA: Absolutely. I used to have little regard for the “vanillas”. When I was less mature as Domme I found it fun to shock the public. Now I just see it as disrespectful to those not a part of the scene and disrespectful to the concept of BDSM in general.
SJ: Anything else you would like to say about The Ethics of Public Play?
MA: There are tons of opportunities to play in public if you handle it correctly. Consider your surroundings and act accordingly. A venue like Bourbon Street is very different from the neighborhood mall on Saturday. For many subs it is about the idea that things are happening to them in public whether anyone else is aware of it or not. Don’t push the envelope so far that you end up giving BDSM a bad name. BDSM is about consent. Everyone’s consent. Not just you and your play partner.