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The softer side of domination – sissification.

Mistress Ayn with SissyWhen most people think of BDSM or a Dominatrix, the image of whips and chains comes to mind. However, not all forms of domination require pain or the harsher aspects of submission.    Sissification and transformations are examples of such scenarios.  These scenes can go by many names:  slut training, sissification, forced feminization, transformations – just to name a few.  They do not have to involve bondage, pain or even humiliation.  Some subs are willing participants in their transformation.  They desire to be rid of their male persona, even if only for the short duration of a session.  Others want to be “forced” to let their male ego go and usually find the humiliation of the experience exciting.  There are as many shades to sissification as there are in the color gray.  To each his own.

One sub summed up his experience in a review on The Erotic Review.  Here are some excerpts from the “Juicy Details”:

“Mistress Ayn shows her softer side by initiating and following through with my sissy transformation. From the moment I walked in the door Mistress Ayn began the transformation by stripping me of all male clothing. As I kneeled before Mistress Ayn and was allowed to worship her, she began to explain that I was no longer in the position to make decisions and I was now her property to do with as she desired. She sent chills through my body  . . . “

“The session gravitated to the medical room where I was strapped down to an examination table. This is when I first heard the sound of her skin thin rubber gloves. She whispered to me that I soon will understand what will definitely always happen when I hear the sound of her gloves . . .”

“Back to the examination table I went for make up which Mistress applied with care. While all of this was going on Mistress Ayn continued to tease me with the suggestions of how I was going to make a pretty girl who would soon be sucking cock and having their sissy ass filled. She meant it too . . . “

“The session moved in to the dungeon where I was dressed in beautiful stockings, garter belt, a silky top, a wig and high heels. I then modeled and walked around for Mistress Ayn while she continued to suggest that a slut like me needed to be put to good use and of course it was too late for me to decide otherwise. There was a little light spanking as a tease; however, Mistress Ayn did this just so I was sure who was in charge. She listened to my voice and body and made me feel safe and thoroughly aroused!”

“I lost track of time before too long and my head was spinning until the next day from the intensity and carefully orchestrated sissy session that Mistress Ayn provided. I am very afraid of any pain and Mistress Ayn took very good care of me. We have had a second 4 hour session and I give 100 Percent trust to Mistress Ayn that she will and has taken exceptional care of me. The professionalism that Mistress Ayn demonstrates is what I have been looking for. Our journey will continue with some shopping and night club outings and . . . “

“Mistress Ayn is leading me down the safe path to happiness with her care, professionalism and understanding. She is a dream come true. I love what she does for me.” –  sissy crissy

For the full review, visit TER – membership required.

In My experience, subs who enjoy and focus on sissification, typically are not into much, if any, pain.  There are exceptions to that, of course, but generally speaking, sissies love the tease, tactile sensations and visuals.  Activities like tease and denial, strap on worship/training, chastity and other forms of sensual domination are more up their alley.  So it you have been fantasizing about a sissy session, but were afraid, don’t be.  Just communicate your desires to your dominant and then relax and let it happen.  Getting in touch with your feminine side can be a good thing.

 

 

The softer side of domination – a sissy session

This review by sissy crissy was posted on The Erotic Review.  Since you have to be a member to see the “juicy details”, they are posted here:

“Mistress Ayn shows her softer side by initiating and following through with my sissy transformation. From the moment I walked in the door Mistress Ayn began the transformation by stripping me of all male clothing. As I kneeled before Mistress Ayn and was allowed to worship her, she began to explain that I was no longer in the position to make decisions and I was now her property to do with as she desired. She sent chills through my body  . . . “

“The session gravitated to the medical room where I was strapped down to an examination table. This is when I first heard the sound of her skin thin rubber gloves. She whispered to me that I soon will understand what will definitely always happen when I hear the sound of her gloves . . .” 

“Back to the examination table I went for make up which Mistress applied with care. While all of this was going on Mistress Ayn continued to tease me with the suggestions of how I was going to make a pretty girl who would soon be sucking cock and having their sissy ass filled. She meant it too . . . “

“The session moved in to the dungeon where I was dressed in beautiful stockings, garter belt, a silky top, a wig and high heels. I then modeled and walked around for Mistress Ayn while she continued to suggest that a slut like me needed to be put to good use and of course it was too late for me to decide otherwise. There was a little light spanking as a tease; however, Mistress Ayn did this just so I was sure who was in charge. She listened to my voice and body and made me feel safe and thoroughly aroused!”

“I lost track of time before too long and my head was spinning until the next day from the intensity and carefully orchestrated sissy session that Mistress Ayn provided. I am very afraid of any pain and Mistress Ayn took very good care of me. We have had a second 4 hour session and I give 100 Percent trust to Mistress Ayn that she will and has taken exceptional care of me. The professionalism that Mistress Ayn demonstrates is what I have been looking for. Our journey will continue with some shopping and night club outings and . . .”

“Mistress Ayn is leading me down the safe path to happiness with her care, professionalism and understanding. She is a dream come true. I love what she does for me.” – sissy crissy

FAQ #18 – How is humiliation used in a BDSM or D/s session?

Mistress Ayn & Switch GiannaFirst of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won’t elicit the desired effect.

Each person is unique and I recommend that humiliation be used gingerly with a new play partner. One person’s turn on is another’s turn off and humiliation scenes, like all other scenes should be well negotiated. Some men are very turned on when a Female Dominant pronounces their penis too small for proper sex with a woman – and their little peckers get rock hard at the idea of being evaluated and judged in this way. For others, it’s a buzz kill, so it’s important to know what turns your sub on and what areas are off limits.

Examples of humiliation used in Domme/sub sessions are:

  • Verbal humiliation – name calling, beratement, racial slurs, mockery, etc.
  • Forced feminization – as simple as being made to wear panties to full female transformations
  • Animal play – forced to wear a leash, drink from a dog bowl, etc.
  • Public display – embarrassing public acts or displays
  • Cum eating
  • Ass worship / foot worship – some see this as a reward, others feel degraded by it
  • Cuckolding – combination of verbal insults about manhood and degrading acts
  • Objectification – treated as unimportant – being used as a foot stool, as an example
  • Forced masturbation/orgasm
  • Enemas
  • Spanking – yes, for some getting a simple spanking is humiliating

As you can see from this non-exhaustive list, erotic humiliation is a very diverse and personalized form of play. Humiliation can push buttons psychologically that send a sub deeper into subspace or send them reeling in raw emotion, so know your sub well, make sure safe words are in place and pay very close attention to your subs reactions to everything you hurl at them.

A DC foot slut learns his proper place – session review on The Hang

Mistress ayn Foot worshipWashington, DC has become one of My favorite venues.  There is a reason:  the subs are well behaved (obviously well trained by DC Mistresses) and in general they are a whole lot of fun.  As a Mistress that thoroughly enjoys what I do, I don’t compromise on the fun and I don’t take sessions I don’t think I will enjoy.  That’s generally a win, win situation – but in this case, it almost caused a session not to happen.  Thankfully this little foot slut didn’t succum to the “brush off” and appealed to My sense of adventure – he even had Julie Simone singing his praises – so I agreed to meet.  What resulted was a delightful session from beginning to end.  Moral of the story: persistence (and a whole lot of flattery) often pays.

Excerpt from the session review on Max Fisch’s The Hang:

“Mistress Ayn communicates very clearly, and She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her. i was completely entranced by Her beauty, the exquisite care of Her apparel demonstrating Her art of seduction and authority, and the words that She used during o/Our entire session and all i wanted to do was worship and please Mistress Ayn. 

This being o/Our first encounter, Mistress Ayn took Her time to properly inspect the new piece of slave flesh presented before Her. Mistress had me strip, so that i was at my most vulnerable and feeble state, and kneel in the center of the room. She made sure to circle around like a Lioness toying with Her prey and inspected just about every inch of me; commenting on what qualities had potential and what displeased Her. Mistress made it quite clear, that it was a privilege to be before Her . . . 

Mistress cultured me on the proper way to serve, holding Her feet accordingly so that the natural effects of gravity would never make her uncomfortable. Then She instructed me to not just kiss and suck, but to appreciate the lovely privilege She was allowing. To slowly admire, sniff, inhale and truly adore the embrace of Her divine feet. Mistress Ayn recognized that i could kiss and worship Her feet for hours, and She surprisingly found use for my insignificant slave mouth and was kind enough to remind me that perhaps i wasn’t completely useless to Her.”

Read the complete review on Max Fisch

Another great review for the Cougar and Her kitten

Dominatrix with sub girlCougar and kitten sessions are like no other.  They are full of fantasy fulfillment and sexy fun.  Here is an excerpt from a recent review that appeared on The Erotic Review:

“As other reviews have said, Mistress Ayn is as amazing in person as the photos on her web site suggest, but beyond her physical beauty, her sensual presence is extraordinary. Caroline also has an amazing presence and a terrific body. When I had to help undress her and put cuffs on her, I was trembling from nervousness and excitement . . .”

“I was inches from Caroline and we were both trying to communicate with each other via our eyes and lips. In hindsight, my only regret from the session was that I didn’t follow-up on Caroline’s signals and kiss her – I knew from prior reviews that she was trying to bait me and we would be disciplined for kissing without Mistress’ permission, so I decided not to take the bait. As I think back lustfully on the session, the kiss probably would have been worth the punishment.”

“She had Caroline bound onto a spanking bench with me on my knees facing Caroline (basically our noses were almost touching), she then spanked Caroline and then walked around to pinch my nipples and told me to do to Caroline exactly what she was doing to me; as she pinched harder, I needed to pinch harder. This was an amazing turn on and I felt privileged to be able to fondle the amazing Caroline’s firm breasts and nipples. Mistress then decided it was time for Caroline to have her ass plugged, so she had me stand behind Caroline and showed me how to properly spank her, and then had me spread her butt cheeks while she applied lube and then inserted a small butt plug. Standing behind Caroline, seeing her immaculately shaved pussy and rosebud was incredibly arousing and one of many images of the session that are firmly implanted in my mind.”

“Mistress Ayn then strapped on a large dildo, which she had Caroline (who had now returned to kneeling right in front of me) suck on to get it moist. Watching Caroline’s lips form a perfect O as she lovingly deep-throated the long strap-on is another image I will treasure. I could have watched Caroline suck on the dildo for a lot longer, but Mistress had other plans for it . . .”

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