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The crossdresser and the Dominatrix.

Wednesday, 20 February 2019 19:12
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Crossdressers just want to have fun . . .  and they want to get in touch with their inner woman – and that’s okay.  As a professional Dominatrix, I often work with male clients that want to dress up and feel like a naughty girl.  Usually, there is a heavy dose of erotic humiliation involved, a stripping of the male ego and an element of being “forced” to be feminine.  That is not the case with crossdressers.  Most crossdressers that seek out My services want to be supported in their exploration and are simply seeking a safe space where a woman takes charge and brings out the best in them.  What better guide than an “Uber Woman” – a Dominatrix?

I recently had the pleasure of meeting and transforming a crossdresser named Ashley.  Ashley wasn’t exactly sure what would happen when we met, but she was openminded and simply asked that I help her on this journey.  I assured her that I had all the accouterments needed (clothes, shoes, undergarments, wigs, makeup, etc.) and that I understood her mindset.  So we met and I helped Ashley take her cross-dressing out of the closet and into the BDSM studio (Atlanta Dungeon’s Sissy Room).

 

Below is a recap of the events from Ashley’s perspective:

I wanted to write this review because what I was looking for (and found!) was a bit different from what I think most expect from a Domme. I found a beautiful, sensual “sister” who expertly guided me out of my shell and helped me discover new parts of myself.  – Excerpts are below and the full review can be read on Max Fisch.  

 

When I arrived at Mistress Ayn’s Atlanta dungeon I was warmly greeted by a beautiful woman wearing my favorite shade of pantyhose!! It was already a dream come true. 

Of course, I was extremely nervous: no one, not my wife or closest friends have ever known my “secret,” yet Mistress Ayn put me perfectly at ease with her friendly demeanor and professionalism.

We chatted for a bit about my history (just like a therapist or doctor might) and then she had me get completely naked. I was so thrilled! 

Next, she showed me one by one the pretty things she had brought for me: lacy black bra, perfect breast forms, sleek sexy heels, pantyhose, and even a gorgeous little black dress that fit perfectly!

Through all this, Mistress Ayn guided me in a friendly way and encouraged my dressing. She showed me how to properly put on a bra, walk in heels, etc. 

We even sat together and chatted for a bit just like gal pals!

At some point, it was time to go to the medical room and have my girl parts examined. Mistress Ayn opened my hose expertly and ensured my new vagina was dilated and functioning. Once she was satisfied with my body we adjourned to the next room where I could lie down and get comfortable with my new body. 

Interestingly enough, though I never thought of myself as a “sub,” during this time I noticed myself becoming more and more submissive, wanting to yes ma’am, thank you ma’am etc, and please her. 

After our time was over I was permitted to shower and returned to my regular clothes. Mistress Ayn hugged me warmly and asked me to follow up in a few days when my emotions had calmed down some and I could reflect.

I wanted to write this review because what I was looking for (and found!) was a bit different from what I think most expect from a Domme. I found a beautiful, sensual “sister” who expertly guided me out of my shell and helped me discover new parts of myself. 

As I told Mistress Ayn in the follow-up email, I went home feeling wonderful, floating on a pink cloud and not the least bit sad or ashamed or guilty like I had in other types of encounters. It wasn’t cheap, but it was absolutely worth the $ to explore this part of myself and feel the joy and inner peace of having my femininity accepted by such a gorgeous woman.

Triple Threat Session

Friday, 15 February 2019 12:17
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Three Dommes.  Three subs.  Three hours.

It started almost as a joke on Twitter and a few months later we were all gathered at Atlanta Dungeon for something unique – at least to all of us.  Social media can be a great or horrible thing but it this case it resulted in something special that none of us will forget.

The Dommes:  Goddess Samantha, Mistress Ultra Violet and Me.

The subs (unknown to each other except on Twitter):  @wheelzsub @paddles1941 and @asp_x

In truth the lead up on Twitter with all the banter and teasing was almost as much fun as the session.  Almost.  Instead of giving My version of events I will instead link out to the reviews supplied by the subs themselves from their point of view.

The set up by asp_x

asp_x’s point of view

wheelzsub’s point of view

paddles1941’s point of view

The session was full of laughter along with the occasional scream and I couldn’t have asked for a better way to spend an afternoon.  It was followed by a group dinner where everyone shared their favorite moments.  This was pretty close to Domme heaven for Me.

FemDom Mansion: One sub’s top 13 experiences

Wednesday, 31 October 2018 20:36
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During his first visit to FemDom Mansion, the sub called “jaime” made some ground breaking progress in his training.  That tends to happen when you serve multiple Dommes over a 48 hour period in a decadent environment.  We pushed his limits and introduced him to things he didn’t know existed.

 

A List of the “Terrible and Terrific Thirteen” Experiences

from the First Semi-Annual #savepokey Weekend at the FemDom Mansion – in order of impact

(most impact = last on the list)   by slave jaime

 

#13 – Provided food and water in dog bowls.

#12 – Accepting a slave contract, later signed in blood, to set the tone for the weekend.

#11 – Bound by heavy chains and locked in the dungeon basement overnight.

#10 – Shaved of pubic hair and given a full enema, both while securely bound, and then ordered to hold the enema fluid until allowed to release.

#9 – Humiliated – repeatedly – in front of many Mistresses and ordered to orgasm but unable to do so which led to more humiliation.

#8 – Graduation ceremony at the FemDom Mansion, showing the total commitment by the Ladies served during the weekend – rather than an attitude of “well, your time is up, goodbye.”

#7 – Receiving a bullwhip mark for the first time, courtesy of Mistress Ayn.

#6 – Confronted by Mistress Harley Quinn in a hotel parking lot, ordered into the back of a U-Haul van, commanded to strip naked, and securely bound and blindfolded for the trip to the FemDom Mansion.

#5 – Meeting Mistress Ultra Violet, an elite Mistress, and serving Her.

#4 – Not allowed safe words while serving Mistress Ayn or only permitted to use “yellow” when serving any new Mistresses, eliminating any ability to control the session.

#3 – Ordered to accept the role of maidservant at a dinner party attended by four lovely Mistresses while wearing a French maid’s outfit, stockings and heels.

#2 – Being spitroasted by Mistress Ayn and Goddess Samantha in the presence of a dozen Ladies (and a few men) while feeling the spikes from Mistress Ayn’s cock harness.

#1 – The honor of being in the presence of a dozen intelligent, stunningly beautiful, amazingly interesting and powerful Women, to serve Them at Their request while wearing a black lacy teddy and stockings (and providing nine foot messages).

Visit Max Fisch to see the review of the FemDom Mansion March event.

Think this can’t be topped?  Since then, slave jaime has visited again and his latest list of 13 will be forthcoming.  There will be some interesting things on that list too . . .

Think a stay at FemDom Mansion might be for you?  Visit our website for more information:  FemDomMansion.com

 

Your Power

Wednesday, 17 October 2018 21:54
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I received this letter via email a few days after spending time with a long-term submissive that I consider “Mine”.  It’s safe to say we have a special relationship – the kind that longevity, pushing limits and extended sessions will give.  It just made Me smile and I wanted to share.

Mistress,

Lying alone in a darkened bedroom Sunday, as close to rock hard as I can still get, I can’t stop marveling at and savoring how much You deepened and extended Your domination of me.

 I love that I’m a visible tribute to Your use of me as a play toy — with bare genitals, a torn back, a striped, swollen ass that aches nonstop and nipples that remind me at every touch of fabric how much You delight in being cruel to me.

 But most important, You rearranged my mind in new ways I’m still not fully aware of.

I know Your taunting oral commands are what released me.

I’m still only beginning to grasp the full psychic symbolism of lying beneath You for the warm, degrading bath that You described as marking me like an animal as Yours.

 And I am more certain with each passing minute that the immersion in Your scent dramatically altered my mind–for how long I still don’t know.

I could feel Your scent instantly make me harder and struggle to get harder still.

 That extended dose of Your scent made me long for rather than fear each hard whip and cane stroke, and hope the pain would glow farther and farther into surrounding tissue.

I’m sure that Your scent suppressed my gag response so I could dance longer with death when Your nyloned toe closed my airway. And it heightened the joy I felt at Your playing deep inside me when you widened Your toes inside my throat!

In short, I never felt so fully owned and used by You.  And I just want it to go on forever.

All Yours,
anonymous slave

Putting the Professional in Pro Dom

Monday, 01 October 2018 11:41
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Often when subs talk about sessions or review them, it’s all about the activities, the Dommes appearance, the session space and so forth.  All of these things are important but what about what comes first and lies beneath the surface?  Professionalism.

Recently a submissive took the time to post a review that wasn’t a review of a particular session but of his experience with Me as a professional.  Like him, I believe when a Domme puts the label “Pro” in front of her title it should mean something.  It should mean that a sub’s time is just as important as Ours.  It should mean that respect goes both ways.  It should mean that discretion, cleanliness and safety are expectations that should not need to be worried about – after all, you are dealing with a professional.

This sub goes above and beyond to sing My praises and let readers know how professionalism in Pro Domination should work.  Frankly, it’s one of the most important reviews I have ever gotten and I am very appreciative of his efforts.

The review can be read on The Buzz.  For your convenience, it is posted in its entirety below:

So.. this isn’t a session review. You can see review after review of Mistress Ayn and how amazing She is in session and I am more than willing to attest to how true that is. Instead, this is actually something that is just as important but is rarely discussed in the reviews on this board and that is how amazing Mistress Ayn is as a Professional in this field.

If you know my name or have seen my posts you probably know I have been pretty prolific with my sessioning over the last few years. Therefore, I have dealt with many, many different Pro Dommes. Each Woman is unique, with their own set of rules and methods for dealing with clients and Mistress Ayn is no different in that respect . . .

However, by far, the single most professional and considerate Domme I have ever sessioned with is Mistress Ayn and IMO, She deserves to be called out, praised and known for this fact. Don’t get me wrong, She has Her pain in the butt rules like requiring you to fill out the form on her website before She will consider you as a client. However, She is also willing to give you the logical explanation of exactly why She requires that  . . .

Once accepted, setting up the session itself has always been smooth and easy with the expectations for confirmation calls and pre-session instructions communicated very well. She responds to emails in a timely manner and is perfectly willing to talk on the phone if I ever feel I need to ask/explain something interactively rather than just through text. At the session, She has simple and clear procedures that make you feel your clothes, wallet and other stuff is safe. It is clear that Her equipment is always clean and sanitized and She always separates what She has used during a session from what She hasn’t.

As praiseworthy as all of that is, all of those things are what most Pro Dommes do and other than the incredibly personable way that goes about all of the business surrounding a session, it is pretty standard for those who are truly great in this field. But, even beyond that She loves everything about what She does and She loves to be able to be creative and truly personalize the experience while insuring Her own enjoyment. Again, this is similar to most great Pro Dommes.

So, since these are things that a lot of great Pros do, you may ask what has driven me to write this today? It is that I wrote and asked Her for a reference for another Domme that She knows and who is planning a visit to Detroit. However, instead of just saying “Sure Asp, you can use me as a reference” or “Yes, tell Her contact Me in this way”, Mistress Ayn did something so simple yet so insanely professional that it just blew me away.

Instead, She offered to and then reached out to the Domme and vouched for me in order to make it easier on both myself and the other Domme. Its the kind of little thing that you see in great customer service organizations and yet almost never in this world. Not just to say yes to a request but to see how with just an extremely small effort She could make things easier for everyone involved.

It would be incredibly professional for a lawyer or a doctor or an accountant to do something along those lines with a colleague. Yet in this new world where the “Pro” in Pro Domme tends to stand for “Fuck You Pay Me beta boy” rather than actually being Professional in how a Domme interacts with clients outside of the service itself, it was just an awesome thing to experience. The thing is She probably considers it to be no big deal and just what everyone should do to help a good client connect with a Domme colleague, and that attitude is really why Mistress Ayn really puts the Professional in Pro Domme.

Well… I am here to say it is a very big deal to me. Oh, and as for when you are lucky enough to be within Her control, She is just as amazingly Pro at all of that as well (including the butt stuff).

Asp

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