Category Archives: Miscellaneous Musings

Collaring slaves

Collaring a submissive is something I have always been resistant to, for several reasons.  I am a believer in long term relationships and I take commitment very seriously.  The act of collaring, to Me, is not a whim.  On the contrary it is much like a marriage.  I become responsible for the sub and everything the sub does is now a reflection on Me.  That’s heavy stuff.

The pandemic has been difficult in many ways but it has made Me reevaluate the things that are important to Me.  When times are difficult you learn who you can really depend on  and it became clear to Me that I have some spectacular subs.  Among those a few really stand out because of their long time exclusive devotion, the things they do to go the extra mile, their dependability, special skills or a combination of all of the above.  But mainly I realized there were a few subs that I knew I could really depend on.  If I were stranded in another state or hurt on the side of the road, they would move heaven and earth to rescue Me.  They would be family.

Because of this I decided to collar 3 additional subs this year and all three are now members of My kinky family.  Prior to this I had only the one collared sub, aka slave jaime, Ayn’s slaveboy.  It was a touchy subject to inform slaveboy he now had “brothers” but he accepted the news well.  I have encouraged My collared subs to get to know each other and I think that has only strengthened their bond.

The subs:

joe – My joe has served Me over a decade.  He has been the rock I needed during the rehabbing of two Dungeons.  He is the guy you call when a crisis occurs and he is always there ready to help.   In reality I should have collared joe years ago, so although he is not My first collared sub, I do consider him the alpha sub.

Ayn’s pet aka paddles – My pet has also served Me for at least a decade.  He has been loyal and fun but more recently he has become even more.  He is the one that volunteers sweat labor when he sees something needing done.  He has made Dungeon furniture, cleaned carpets, done yard work, filmed, you name it.   He has never refused a thing I asked.

Ayn’s toy – My toy was an easy decision but for different reasons.  During the pandemic he offered his support in important ways.  I could tell anytime he was able to help, he felt fulfilled by it in a way beyond how a typical person might feel.   It’s as if service completes him and I don’t know if I have ever met a soul quite like him.  He wormed his way into My heart in a comparatively short period of time, but I think he is here to stay.

These men have made a vow to serve and honor Me and I made a vow to protect and support them and be worthy of their service.  I hope we continue to make each other proud.  Yes, that is some heavy stuff.

Thank you for supporting Atlanta Dungeon

The outpouring of support to help Atlanta Dungeon stay afloat during the pandemic has been amazing and I want to thank all of you that donated.  Many of you were quite generous.  The average donation via Fundly was over $200 and several of you gave in excess of $1000.  You will not be forgotten.

I am pleased to say that not only was the goal met, it was surpassed.   This means the space we all love will continue to be there for us.  Sessions have started to pick up as well so, unless another shoe drops, we should be out of the woods.

I appreciate My local subs continuing to do in person sessions and I hope My traveling subs will be able to visit soon.  Take care out there and again, many thanks.

 

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For those that can’t travel to see Me yet, I am still offering distance training, chastity programs and video and phone sessions.

 

 Distance Training and Online FemDom Sessions

 

Task Tuesdays on AVN Stars

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Join Me in My Inner Sanctum for Task Tuesdays. Every sub gets a personalized task on Tuesdays, plus access to over 100 full length clips.  What are you waiting for?  Click here and start serving. 

Update on the Save Our Dungeon campaign

 

First of all, a big thank you to those that have contributed to the campaign.  I know these are difficult times for all of us and your generosity is even more appreciated given the circumstances.

For those that have not yet had an opportunity to help, there is still time and a bit of an incentive . . .

A long time supporter is offering a challenge: he will match all donations in the next 2 weeks up to a total of $2000. That $4K along with offsite donations would put Us very close to reaching our donation goal. 

Fundly Campaign to Save Atlanta Dungeon

With vaccines rolling out and what I perceive to be a slight increase in in-person sessions, I believe we can make it, but we still need your help so we can continue to operate in the wonderful space we call Atlanta Dungeon.

Follow the link below to donate.  Your donation can be done anonymously but please let Me know if you donate so I know and can thank you personally.  

SAVE OUR DUNGEON

 

Interview on Gender Play

I was recently interviewed by the sleek and handsome website, SimplySxy.  They have some amazing articles on a wide range of topics regarding sexuality, BDSM and other kink related subjects.  When they approached Me about doing an interview on My thoughts and experiences regarding Gender Play I was very excited to do so.

In the interview I give a little background on Myself and how I came to like Gender Play.  However, the second question I was asked was “What is Gender Play?” and for those that don’t know, here is the beginning of My answer:  “It’s a broad spectrum form of play and it just keeps getting broader with our exposure to non-traditional gender identities like non-binary, gender fluid, transgender, etc.  Regarding My gender play, which is almost exclusively with men, it’s about taking them out of the confines of their born gender –  what they are programmed to feel and believe about themselves, and how they identify with their gender.”

To read the full interview and explore their valuable site, visit SimplySxy and follow them on Twitter at @SimplySxy.

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