Category Archives: Miscellaneous Musings

Poem from a Facebook fan

I received this little rhyme on Facebook and just had to share.  I am not a FinDom, but this poor slave makes a good argument for keeping Me in gifts . . .

 

Bow your heads down where they belong
Look at Ayn Rules’s legs so lovely and long
Covered in nylon – you want to feel
Get on the floor and start to kneel
This is where us men should be
Looking no higher than her knee
Now on your knees with your head dipped
There is only one Lady that should be worshipped
This is a Lady who should not be missed
Now buy her something off her wishlist
Ayn Rules should not be without
So pay her money, any amount
How much to send, start to think
Ayn Rules should have something
Buy her clothes or even shoes
Something Ayn Rules can always use
You wank off to her pictures at your will
So why not pay her telephone bill
Worship her near or by far
Chip in together and buy her a car
Look at Ayn Rules with eyes so brown
Come on gents, now don’t let her down !

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Catch Me while you can. Scheduling last sessions of the year.

Last sessions for 2017

If you have been putting off scheduling a session, now is the time to act.  The upcoming holidays are just around the corner and I will be taking a sabbatical starting the week of November 19th through December 26th – and possibly until the first of the year.  Book now to get your final training sessions in before I am gone . . . otherwise, you will have to wait until next year.

 

Upcoming travel

Washington, DC:  October 30th – November 1st.  My schedule in DC is almost completely booked so if you are looking for a session while I am there, act now.  For more information about that trip click here.

Charlotte, NC:  I am trying to organize a final trip to Charlotte this year.  Tentative dates are November 13th and 14th or another combination of dates during the week of November 12th.  If you are interested in seeing Me in Charlotte, let Me know so I can plan accordingly.

 

Filming

I am also going to try to get at least one more filming day in, so if you have been fantasizing about a custom clip, inquire now.  New content from a shoot with Syren Productions is hitting AynRules.com now and some new POVs are on their way too.  To subscribe, visit Aynrules.com.

 

There is still time to book your “ultimate” experience.  Check out FemDom Mansion.

 

 

Chastity and the hormones connection

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I love the idea of male chastity.  The practicalities are often a challenge and on this blog, you will find articles about chastity devices, experiences and so forth.  To add to the topic, I asked one of My sissy chastity subs to share his thoughts on hormones and their impact on chastity and vice versa.  Here are his fruits of his assignment:

My name is Sissy Jennifer and I am a chastity sub.  In my previous life, I did research on hormones—mostly estradiol and testosterone—so I am always talking to Mistress Ayn about the effects of hormones on my chastity.  Mistress Ayn asked me to write about hormones and chastity because she thought her blog readers might be interested.  Please note that what I wrote below applies to men, as the response of women to the same hormones may be different.

Although a myriad of hormones affects chastity, only three are of real importance.  The first hormone is dopamine or the “pleasure” hormone.  The intense pleasure associated with orgasm is caused by an extra burst of dopamine released in the brain.  High levels of dopamine are associated with well-being and a high libido. After an orgasm, dopamine levels drop dramatically, and it takes awhile for them to come back to normal.

The second hormone is prolactin or the “satiety” hormone.  Prolactin levels spike after an orgasm, and, in a sense, counteract high dopamine levels.  High prolactin levels are associated with lethargy, depression, and a low libido.  Like dopamine, it takes awhile for prolactin levels to decline back to normal. 

The release of prolactin isn’t good for relationships, so the body also produces a third hormone, oxytocin or the “cuddle” or “love” hormone.  High levels of oxytocin are associated with feelings of attachment and bonding.  Like dopamine, oxytocin is released in a burst after orgasm, but it doesn’t persist very long.

How does all of this mesh with a chastity sub?  Both dopamine and oxytocin rise during sexual arousal. The chastity device that a chastity sub wears contributes, in a modest way, to his low-level sexual arousal.  If a chastity sub is teased, then his dopamine and oxytocin levels increase even more.  In a best-case scenario, a chastity sub is kept in a state of relatively high sexual arousal.  This state helps explain the captioned image of a man in a chastity cage saying, “I prefer to keep it on” and why the expression “there is no denial without the tease” is true.  Neurologically, a chastity sub in a high state of sexual arousal grows to “enjoy” all the benefits of high dopamine and oxytocin, while avoiding the deleterious effects of prolactin. 

Meme contest winner

The winning entry of the Meme contest was submitted by My very Own “panty sue” and she earned herself one free month of My content site:  AynRules.com.  There were some really great entries and I thank everyone that participated.  I will tweet some of the other submissions in the upcoming weeks.

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Meme building contest

Kiss the hand Ayn

 

 

Are you handy with Photoshop or some other photo editing software?  If so you could win free access to My content site, AynRules.com.

  1. Choose a photo from My website, blog, Twitter feed, ads, etc.
  2. Put your creative cap on and think of a clever, funny, motivational or promotional slogan to add to the picture.
  3. Email your entry to ayn@mistressayn.com.

For those that are a bit tech challenged, you can even create one here:  https://memegenerator.net.    The best entry gets one month free access to all the videos and photo sets on My content site.  It’s that simple.  Good luck and get cracking.

Feel free to tweet your ideas for crowd feedback, but official entries must be emailed.  Deadline is May 1st.  Winner announced shortly thereafter.  All entries become the property of Mistress Ayn.

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