Category Archives: FAQ

FAQ #23 – Is it necessary to have my session in a real Dungeon?

Wednesday, 17 August 2016 17:57
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Atlanta DungeonI am often asked if I do outcalls and the answer is “NO”.  To Me, nothing compares to a session in a real, fully equipped dungeon.  I session in hotels when I travel out of necessity, but you can’t have a St. Andrew’s Cross or a spanking bench in a hotel room.  It’s not only about the equipment, it is the whole atmosphere.  For a submissive, knowing that you have walked into the lair of a Dominant Woman is akin to walking into the lair of a Lioness.  It fills you with awe and fear  . . . and it should.

In the fully equipped Atlanta Dungeon I have a medical room, a main dungeon room, an isolation room (scream as loud as you like) an small domestic/reception area and a sissy/confinement room, so I can choose the best atmosphere for the planned session.

A real dungeon is where I am in My element.  That is where I belong and that is where you should submit.

 

FAQ #22 – What is Medical Play or Medical Fetish?

Thursday, 28 July 2016 16:53
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MIstress AynMedical play can cover a wide swath of BDSM activities and it really depends on the players interests as to how the scene plays out.  A medical scene can range from a sexy exam where a naughty nurse takes advantage of a patient, to harder core scenes like torture and mock castrations.  If you have ever fantasized about a hot nurse or doctor using their medical skills to dominate you, then medical play might be of interest.

Some of the many activities and equipment that can be used to create a medical scene:

  • Ass play – dilators, speculum, dildos, inflatables, etc.
  • Cock and ball torment – stretching, sensitivity testing, electro, needles – the list is almost limitless
  • Bondage – strapped to an exam table or in a straight jacket, as examples
  • Electro – a wide range of attachments can be used to “treat” cock, balls, nipples, anus, etc.
  • Enemas – sensual, medicinal and punishment types
  • Penis and clitoris pumps
  • Prostate stimulation, milking
  • Nipple play/torture – clamps, suckers, needles, etc.
  • Shaving – generally the pubic area or nipple area
  • Urethral sounds and other penile insertions

Medical play also lends itself well to MindFuck type play such as gender transformations and castrations.  The diversity of possibilities in a medical scene makes Medical Fetish one of My favorites.  So, if you are in the mood to see a diabolical doctor for a very sensitive issue, just make an appointment.  Dr. Ayn is in.

Click here to set an appointment.

FAQ #21 – Why is aftercare important in BDSM play?

Monday, 09 November 2015 00:10
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Aftercare is the “come down” part of a BDSM session.  It is important because the flood of endorphins caused by play often cause a rush or natural high that can lead to a subsequent crash if not properly addressed.  What aftercare consists of and how long it lasts will depend on the intensity of the session and your relationship with the submissive.

I always like to spend time with My submissives to help bring them down softly.  I tend to be nurturing after sessions, especially intense ones.  Soft strokes and soft words are My hallmark in post session interactions. It is important that the sub knows you are okay with him and his behavior during play.  I also advise My submissives to treat themselves kindly for at least the rest of the day and try to avoid stress and confrontations immediately after a BDSM play.

FAQ #20:   How do I pronounce Your name?

Sunday, 06 September 2015 20:59
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Mistress AynThis probably should have been FAQ #1 since so many people get it wrong.  It’s also the first bulleted item on the Contact Page of My website under Rules of Engagement, but I know, you just look at the pictures . . . At any rate, it gives Me a good reason to punish subs that have not done their homework.

Ayn rhymes with Mine.  Just drop the M off and you’ve got it.  Now isn’t that easy to remember?

FAQ #19: Can I use you as a reference to see another Mistress?

Wednesday, 05 August 2015 15:14
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MistressAynDec2014--33eAbsolutely.  I understand that men are sluts.  I appreciate loyalty like anyone else, but I also understand that some of you want diversity and prefer seeing a variety of Dommes instead of developing a long term relationship with one Mistress.  Each sub is different and it’s important to recognize that, so I don’t get upset if someone that has seen Me wants to see another Domme.  I require references for specific types of sessions and when I travel, so I consider it a common courtesy to both the Domme and the sub.

Here is the how you do it:  Send Me an email ahead of time notifying Me you have used Me as a reference and the name of the Domme that will be contacting Me. That way I can be sure that the request for a reference is not a “fishing expedition”.  When the Domme contacts Me I will only confirm that I have seen you before and that I would see you again (if that is the case).  They will need to provide the email address you used to set your appointment with Me.  That is the only reliable way for Me to look you up.  A name and or a phone number is not enough.

Of course, if I see you regularly, you may have to “confess” that you have seen another Mistress and then “pay the piper” the next time we meet, but would you expect anything less?

 

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