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Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – COVID special edition

Friday, 25 September 2020 13:23
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Special COVID edition by slaveboy.

W/we are firmly in the grips of a COVID-era and my slave training now occurs long distance, yet Mistress Ayn is still very powerfully in control.  It would be easy to become negative and lament not having a forthcoming scheduled weekend at the FemDom Mansion – as would “regularly” occur – but W/we are not living in “regular times” these days.  Alternatively, there are daily activities that remind me of my status as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy, in chastity and collared, such as my morning walks.  During the walk i focus on how many things Mistress Ayn has introduced to establish Her daily presence in my life.

While wanting to “try out” a chastity cage was my idea, i did ask Mistress Ayn to be my Keyholder.  But, She introduced the terrifying word – “indefinite” – into chastity wearing and now i am in chastity indefinitely.  She also ordered me to purchase a pink cage, then a pink with gold sparkles cage, and now a smaller black cage for those special “formal” occasions.

While dressing as a sissy was fun and humiliating at the FDM, Mistress Ayn ordered me to wear panties every day, and i am, and it is amazing.

Obviously it was Mistress’s idea to pierce my nipples.  It is incredible and does remind me, in yet another way, that i am Her slaveboy … indefinitely .. and, of course, the posts are pink.

i began daily morning walk, mostly for physical health reasons, yet Mistress Ayn challenged me to extend the route, which i have.  She also ordered me to insert the Hush during these walks, which i have.

In addition to all those ways Mistress Ayn is with me every single day as my Mistress, i never know when i might get an email from Her with orders.  i check my “slaveboy” email account twice a day – at least – hoping (and dreading) for an email from my Mistress, never knowing what She will command me to do.

Will i be allowed to unlock Her chastity cage?  Will i receive sexual relief to the daily frustration of indefinite chastity?   Will it be a ruined orgasm, or full orgasm, but always, if there is discharge, to consume every drop.

In this COVID-era being Mistress Ayn’s owned, chaste slave is not something that occurs – with, admittedly, a big bang – every few months at the FDM.  Rather it is a combination of multiple daily experiences to keep me focused in my role as Her slaveboy, to remind me of my devotion and commitment to Mistress Ayn in doing whatever She asks of me (that really could be very scary).

It is indeed amazing to recall how truly talented Mistress Ayn is as a Mistress, Keyholder and Owner and how terribly fortunate (not lucky! as She has taught me) i am to be Her slaveboy.

 

What’s a Skype session with a Dominatrix like?

Wednesday, 15 July 2020 18:28
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Distance Training with Atlanta Dominatrix Mistress Ayn

Curious about having a FemDom video session via Skype or Zoom?  You are not alone.

With social distancing still putting a damper on in person BDSM sessions, many subs are asking, “What’s a cam session like?”.  The real answer is there is no “typical” cam session but here are some things that I have done:

  • I had a sub slut dress himself in naughty lingerie and then stick household objects up his mangina.
  • A sub and his sub girlfriend “performed” for Me on video while I directed them to do things to each other.
  • One sub has an electrical unit that can be controlled on a desktop. I took control of his screen via Zoom and controlled the electrical while he was in self bondage
  • I ordered a sub to gather every item in his house that could possibly be “pervertable” and we methodically went through each one and perverted it.
  • I’ve done a double Skype with a porn star. She teased the sub with visuals of her body while I ordered him to do humiliating acts for our amusement.
  • I’ve had sissies dress, strip, dance and otherwise entertain Me while I called the shots. Some even practiced deep throating.
  • One sub was made to self administer an enema while I watched and then I decided when he could let it go. I watched the whole time of course.

The above are just a few specifics that come to mind.  Chastity is also a great option for play and obviously self directed CBT, spanks, nipple play, orgasm control  and such are staples for a video session.  If you have your own toys, great.  If not, we can make do with what you have sitting around the house or office.

If you know Me, you know I have a fabulous imagination.  Just because we are limited by distance doesn’t mean that I can’t control you and be entertained by you.  Miss sessioning with Me?  Do the next best thing and schedule a video session via Skype, Zoom or Facetime today.

Tributes: 30 minutes = $90, one hour = $170

Tributes are payable when the appointment is booked so I can reserve the time and plan accordingly.  Just like an in person session, you are expected to be on time.  If you are late, the clock starts ticking without you.  No shows forfeit the fee entirely. 

Distance slave training and online FemDom sessions

Wednesday, 17 June 2020 22:00
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Online Slave Training

For those that can’t session in person or simply want to start or continue ongoing training via a digital format, the following online options are available. Click the links for more information about each program.

Online training works extremely well for a variety of submissive types and interests including chastity training, orgasm control,  JOI, cum play, anal training, cock sucking instruction, sissy dress up, exposure on Twitter (pre-negotiated), CBT instruction, Nipple Torture instruction, self administered punishments like paddling, face slaps, enemas, and pretty much anything else My kinky, devious mind can conjure.

Email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com to apply.

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Remote Keyholding and Online Chastity Programs

Thursday, 11 June 2020 16:48
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Chastity Keyholding for serious submission

In order for Me to be your keyholder you must be serious about being in chastity and be willing to give up control of your orgasms for a negotiated period of time.  If you are looking for someone to lock you up so you can then beg for release in a few hours or days, that is chastity fetish play, and this program is not for you.

Chastity Keyholder

Chastity Key Holding programs:

Basic key holding – $150 per month

Limited interaction.  One ordered orgasm per month.

 

Intermediate key holding –  $300 per month

Interaction every 10 days with specific instructions when unlocked.  Membership to My Fan Page on LoyalFans, that includes unlimited videos and other media  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  One supervised orgasm or edging session via webcam per month.

 

Advanced key holding – $500 per month

More frequent communication. Weekly tasks, random checks, tease and denial, supervised orgasms or edging.  Membership to My Fan Page.  Exposure on social media (if negotiated).  Three webcam sessions/check-ins per month.

 

What you will need:

  • Chastity device – I will advise if you don’t already have one
  • Numbered plastic locks (if you don’t have a key safe)
  • Key safe
  • Suggested toys:  Hitachi magic wand or similar, butt plug set, dildo, prostate massager, etc.

I take chastity seriously.  Giving control of your orgasm to another is the ultimate act of submission and can be life changing for those that experience it correctly.  Chastity can re-focus your energies and clear your mind, make you feel connected to the female id, enable better orgasms (when you are allowed to have them) and potentially raise your self esteem.

All programs require a minimum commitment of one month.

FAQ

Q:  Will I be able to have an orgasm?

A:  Yes.  I think it is necessary that the male have a least one orgasm per month and I require that as a minimum.

 

Q:  If I need to get out of My cage temporarily for travel, doctors appointments, etc. is this allowed?

A:  Yes, under strict guidelines.

 

Q:  If I decide chastity is not for Me can I cancel?

A:  Yes, but you will not be accepted back into one of My chastity programs and no money will be refunded.  If you quit, it’s final.

 

Q:  I don’t currently have a device.  Will you help Me choose one?

A:  Yes.

 

Q:  Can I have you be my keyholder and have it culminate in an in person session?

A:  Yes, but if the time frame is short term, chastity fetish play may be more appropriate.

To inquire about being accepted into My chastity keyholder program, email Me via Contact the Mistress page of My website.

 

 

 

FAQ #33: What is chastity fetish play?

Tuesday, 09 June 2020 14:35
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virtual chastityThere is serious chastity and there is play chastity.  Chastity fetish play is just that, play.  If you are looking for someone to control your orgasms on a short term basis to make you excited, enhance your libido and then listen to you beg – then short term chastity fetish play is for you.

I often use this type of orgasm control prior to a session.  A submissive locks up a few days (to a few weeks) prior to serving Me in person.  I tease him and deny him by making him look at photos or videos of Me, unable to touch, and he soon becomes desperate to do as I command.   It keeps the sub focused on his upcoming service and puts him in a proper state of mind starting well ahead of the session.

For this type of chastity, you don’t need an expensive device.  This can even be done with “virtual chastity” where no device is used, you are just on the honor system.  With all chastity, if you cheat, you are just cheating yourself.

To add some chastity play to an upcoming session or engage in some short term play online, send Me an email at ayn@mistressayn.com to inquire.  If you are interested in serious chastity with a key holder, I provide that service too.

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