Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Ruined Orgasms

Wednesday, 19 October 2016 16:51
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I’ve been a bit fascinated with ruined orgasms lately. Probably because I have been seeing two long term chastity slaves. Neither of them are able to be successfully milked, so I suggested to their key holders that ruined orgasms might be a viable option.

On a recent visit one of the subs confided in Me that as much as he enjoys getting his release when his wife eventually allows it, he then struggles with a diminishment of his sissy submissiveness – which he loves and strives for daily. I know that she occasionally gives him a ruined orgasm, so I asked him if he felt the same way when the orgasm was ruined. His initial response was that he did NOT feel a diminishment in submission – or at least not as much of one, but wants to monitor this and report back to Me. Of course, I have asked his wife to only allow ruined orgasms for a while, so I can get read on this.

Recently I read something about female ruined orgasms (yes, we can have them) and it was stated that we don’t get the same rush of dopamine with a ruined orgasm, so we don’t feel as satisfied and will often seek to immediately have another. I am guessing it is the same for the male physiology. I have noticed in longer sessions that after a ruined orgasm, the sub can usually recover and orgasm again relatively quickly.

Primary ways to ruin an orgasm:

  • Remove all stimulation as soon as the first signs of ejaculation start
  • Stop the flow – by squeezing the base or plugging the hole (this is usually a bit painful)
  • Create discomfort that short circuits the orgasm – a sharp slap to the balls or an increase in electrical current are good examples

The last two options are personal favorites of Mine.  I particularly like adding electro when using the Venus 2000 (the ultimate tease machine).  When the sub gets close, I alternate between turning the machine off and turning up the electro.  One way or the other, eventually that orgasms is going to get ruined.  Post orgasm CBT is also a favorite of Mine, but that is fodder for another article.

I even had some fun in clips lately with ruining orgasms.

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This clip is available on Clips4Sale and AynRules.com.

I started a discussion about ruined orgasms on Domina.ms’s forum, The Buzz.  If you wish to view or participate in this discussion, visit The Buzz.  I would love to hear your thoughts and even answer your questions.

 

Custom BDSM FemDom Fetish Clips

Monday, 17 October 2016 00:47
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Want to see your fantasy made real?  

Order your Custom BDSM FemDom Fetish clip today.

Here is how it works:

Have you been fantasizing about the perfect BDSM/fetish scene? A scenario that you can relive anytime you want? Now you can have it by commissioning a custom video or audio audio files. Tell Me your fantasy and I will make it real. If approved I will produce your scene and send it directly to you.  It will later be added to our archives for other members to enjoy.

Want to super customize it with your name or keep it all to yourself?  That’s also not out of the question, but a surcharge will apply.

Prices are estimates and could change dramatically based on the complexity and length of the scene.

Audio starts at $125

POVs start at $250

Scene with a male sub – starts at $300

Each additional Female sub or Mistress – starts at an additional $150

Send inquiries with details of your scene to ayn@mistressayn.com

 

Feedback for custom productions:

“The angles took for the shooting are excellent: wide angles allowing to see the poor guys from the head  to the sexy high heels boots while you’re humiliating them, there are close ups to see faces during action and the quality of the video is perfect. I’m really happy with the result.”

“The cameraman made a wonderful work with the different angles of view. The quality of the video is fantastic like always and the plus, all this in only one take. So great.  And thank you for the beginning with the voice over narration to explain the context and the end where instead of “The End” you wrote… “La Fin”.  Very cool.”

All video is shot in high quality HD 1080p for crystal clarity and eye popping color.  Several custom clips have made it into the to 10 on Clips4Sale.  Interested in purchasing existing clips?  Visit My clips store for individual clips or get them all on AynRules.com for the only $19.95 per month or $39.95 for 3 months.

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Just a little BDSM / FemDom Humor

Thursday, 06 October 2016 21:37
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Memories for UNCHAINED August 2106

Thursday, 29 September 2016 12:52
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As some of you know, I attempted to do a Periscope broadcast from the UNCHAINED event but the basement location became an internet nightmare and most of the broadcast was lost.  The official videographer for the event did catch most of the act and you can watch it here on AynRules.com.

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Ria Rocket, Blake August and I did a choreographed bit to the song “Secret”.  The set up is that Ria kidnaps and brings Me a new sub girl to play with.  Blake proves to be so much fun that I decide to replace Ria with her and in the final scene I remove Ria’s collar and put it on Blake. I then take the ribbon from Blake’s hair and strangle Ria with it.  Most of the photos below are from that performance.  The final photo is Ria, Goddess Samantha and Me giving a boy an much deserved birthday spanking.  Awesome things happen at UNCHAINED.

To keep up with updates about UNCHAINED, visit their website or Facebook page.

 

FemDom sessions in Washington, D.C. – Last visit of the year.

Wednesday, 21 September 2016 15:17
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Mistress AynThis is it subs:  The last visit of 2016.  Who knows what 2017 will bring so bow before Me while you can.  I will be available for sessions October 10th – October 13th.   My schedule is usually full before I arrive, so book now to secure My attention.

UPDATE:  The 10th and 12th are fully booked, but there are still a few openings available on the 11th and 13th.

Reviews from DC sessions:

“It is easy to be intimidated by Mistress Ayn if you are a vanilla couple looking for some extra fun. Her website is impressive and features all kinds of devices that look scary to the uninitiated. But do not let that deter you. For a couple looking to explore a new experience she is the perfect Mistress. She puts you immediately at ease and is willing to listen and explore your ideas.” – Read Full Review on The Mistress Review.

“If she so desired, Mistress Ayn could spit roast you just by herself. I think I would describe this as Wicked and Wild. Her imagination is unlimited.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“Each time we visit with her, the intensity level seems to increase. I can’t wait to see what she has planned next time. Her mind is truly devious and diabolical.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her.”  – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“This was my first session with Mistress Ayn and her insight and skills enabled her to push all my buttons. I am not a newbie but I feel re-energized by Mistress Ayn. She is both beautiful and sensual but perhaps her best asset is her ability to create a fantastic mind fuck. If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend you book time with her.”  Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship – I have an extensive shoe collection and requests in advance are entertained.
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, uretheral sounds, enema play, stretching, toy play
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done.  I will be hosting in a suite in an upscale hotel in the Pentagon City area, convenient to the Metro.  The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays.  I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from 11am until 10pm.  I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously.  My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium.  If we have not sessioned together before, a reference from a well known Domme or a deposit will be required.

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