Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Sessions available at Frolicon – May 17th, 18th & 19th

Tuesday, 08 May 2018 21:52
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Attending Frolicon in Atlanta

FemDoms

 

My sexy friends and I will be ready to party again at Frolicon 2018.  Who will join Us?

If you have ever been to Frolicon you know it’s a super kinky collection of all things deviant.  It’s going to be even sexier and more deviant this year because some of My Domme Sisters from Atlanta Dungeon are going to be there along with lots of My kinky friends.  This is a unique opportunity to serve Us.  Possibilities include multi-Domme sessions with the Ladies pictured above and listed below, sessions that include non-pros (female/male/trans) as voyeurs or participants, public scenes, public humiliation, shopping, etc.

Joining Me will be:

Goddess Samantha

Gianna Monticello – Switch

Mistress Harley Quinn

If you have never been to Frolicon, check out their website.  Tons of informational classes and lectures are scheduled throughout the event along with kinky entertainment, a vendor area with hard to find BDSM toys, fetish gear, art, etc.  In the evening, attendees open their rooms and invite guests into themed room parties.  Trust Me. It’s fun.

To inquire about a session email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com and put “Frolicon” in the subject line.  If we have never sessioned together before, an application is required to book.  I hope to see you there.

 

FemDom/BDSM sessions in Washington, D.C. – June 11th – 13th

Tuesday, 08 May 2018 17:50
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Washington DominatrixI will be planting My flag in Washington, DC once again starting June 11th.  For 3 days only I will be pillaging the city and taking what’s Mine – namely your ass.  My schedule is usually full well before I arrive, so book now to secure My attention.

UPDATE:  Tuesday the 12th and Wednesday the 13th are completely booked.  Limited openings are still available for Monday the 11th.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering (clothed)
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship – I have an extensive shoe collection and requests in advance are entertained.
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, urethral sounds, enema play, stretching, toy play
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done. I will be hosting in a suite in an upscale hotel convenient to the Metro. The space is ideal for domestic scenes and a variety of role plays. I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000.

When traveling I conduct sessions daily from noon until 10pm. I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously. My schedule in DC always fills quickly and openings are at a premium. If we have not sessioned together before, a deposit will be required to book.

Click here to Complete an Application

Reviews from DC sessions:

“It is easy to be intimidated by Mistress Ayn if you are a vanilla couple looking for some extra fun. Her website is impressive and features all kinds of devices that look scary to the uninitiated. But do not let that deter you. For a couple looking to explore a new experience she is the perfect Mistress. She puts you immediately at ease and is willing to listen and explore your ideas.” – Read Full Review on The Mistress Review.

“If she so desired, Mistress Ayn could spit roast you just by herself. I think I would describe this as Wicked and Wild. Her imagination is unlimited.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“Each time we visit with her, the intensity level seems to increase. I can’t wait to see what she has planned next time. Her mind is truly devious and diabolical.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“She creates quite a precious moment based on what you share with Her. Time with Her is not simulated, and Mistress Ayn is in total control the moment you encounter Her presence, yet you will feel quite comfortable as if it is entirely natural to serve Her.” – Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

“This was my first session with Mistress Ayn and her insight and skills enabled her to push all my buttons. I am not a newbie but I feel re-energized by Mistress Ayn. She is both beautiful and sensual but perhaps her best asset is her ability to create a fantastic mind fuck. If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend you book time with her.” Read Full Review on Max Fisch’s The Hang.

It’s My Birthday! – May 12th

Thursday, 03 May 2018 21:18
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Mistress Ayn's Birthday.

Yeah, I’m a little twisted.

Spring is here and so is My birthday, so be prepared.  Making Me happy on My special day is really quite easy.  Here is all you need to know:

For special, one of a kind pieces, check out My Etsy wishlist.  Order early though because many of these items take additional time to make/ship.

My Amazon wishlist is all ready to go and it makes things super easy.  Just pick something and they will ship directly to Me.

Of course, booking a session and bringing Me something in person is always a special treat.  What better gift than the gift of your submission?

Items that are always appreciated:

  • Champagne:  Veuve Cliquot, Moet Chandon, Perrier Jouet and Piper Heidsieck are among My favorites.
  • Vodka:  Kettle One, Titos or Stoli
  • Tequilla:  Patron Silver
  • Wine:  Bold, French reds
  • Gift cards:  Amazon, Whole Foods. Lowes and DSW are most appreciated.

Please, no candy or perfume.

FAQ #28 – How do I prepare for a BDSM FemDom session?

Sunday, 22 April 2018 21:19
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Subs often ask Me if there is anything in particular they should do to prepare for a session.  Usually their mind is wrapped around their genitals and thoughts of edging, looking at photos, etc. are in the forefront, but there is a practical side to preparing for sessions too.  Subs get excited and sometimes forget the common sense practicalities of preparation.  Below are some pointers for making sure your session goes well.

  • Hydrate well prior to your session.  When things go wrong physically in a session (lightheadedness, nausea, tiredness, etc.) it is usually from dehydration.  This is the number one cause of fainting in session.  If you are having a particularly heavy session or a session that lasts 90 minutes or more, take a bottle of water or a sports drink with you in session and don’t be shy to ask for a swallow.
  • Eat normally.  I know pre-session jitters can lead to an adrenaline rush that can cause you to lose your appetite prior to a session but failing to eat can cause the same nasty issues listed above.  Even if you aren’t hungry try to at least eat a light meal prior to your session.  Low blood sugar due to a lack of food can really be a buzz kill in session.
  • Practice proper hygiene.  This should go without saying but be sure you arrive clean and fresh.  If you are coming from work or a flight and feel sweaty, ask to take a quick shower.  If you are odiferous your Domme won’t want to get too close.  If you will be engaging in anal play, give yourself an enema approximately 2 hours prior if at all possible.  I know this will be TMI for some, but all subs should clean in that area by inserting a soapy finger in the shower until it comes back clean.  There is nothing worse than spanking a sub and when you turn him over your knee he smells like ass.  Take this advice.  Your Mistress will appreciate it.
  • No cologne, please.  I know you think your cologne smells sexy and manly – and it may, but it’s not appropriate to wear it in session. Particularly strong scents have given Me a headache or caused Me to sneeze.   There is also the issue of transference.  Strong scents can transfer on to Us and We end up smelling like you.  A busy Domme can go home smelling like a department store fragrance counter.  I don’t wear any perfume in session for these exact reasons.  Please reciprocate.
  • Manscape if possible.  I know this is not an option for everyone, but even trimming can be a help.  Having to navigate around a full bush of hair to perform CBT can be awkward and actually hurt you in a not so good way.  Trim the shrubbery if you can.

In addition to these points, follow any specific instructions your Mistress has, including being chaste, preforming edging exercises or whatever She desires.  We want to have a good time just like you do, so do yourself a favor and prepare accordingly.

FemDom Sessions in Charlotte, NC May 1st and 2nd.

Sunday, 15 April 2018 22:16
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Mistress Ayn

You’ve been asking for it boys.  Now let’s see if you can handle it.  I will be returning to Charlotte on May 1st and 2nd and will be available for sessions from noon until 9pm both days.

For those that have not sessioned with Me, here are My interests:

  • Body Worship – Respectful feet, legs and ass
  • Bondage – from the light to the extreme
  • CBT (Cock and ball torment)
  • Corporal Punishment – bare hand, OTK, hairbrush, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, whips, etc.
  • Electro torture/stimulation (ErosTek)
  • Face sitting and smothering
  • Feminization – from pantying to makeup and lingerie
  • Foot Fetish – including boot and shoe worship
  • Humiliation and degradation
  • Medical Play – including naughty exams, sounds, enema play, stretching
  • Nipple torture
  • Strap on Worship / Training
  • Tease and Denial
  • Toilet training – golden only
  • Trampling
  • Sensory deprivation/sensory overload
  • Wax play
  • Venus 2000 – tease and denial and forced O

Things I am NOT interested in are full toilet (hardsports), blood play, adult baby or intimate sexual contact.

Most any other fetish can be accommodated, but if you are looking for something special, ask now before the packing is done. I will be bringing a vast assortment of BDSM equipment for CBT, corporal, medical play, bondage, etc – along with the Eros Tek and Venus 2000. If you are a sissy looking for dress up, let Me know your sizes so I can pack appropriately.

I prefer email contact and an application is required for subs I have not sessioned with previously. My schedule in Charlotte usually fills quickly so openings are at a premium. If we have not sessioned together before, a deposit will be required. Deposits can be paid via CashMe.com or Amazon gift card.

Click here to Complete an Application

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