Author Archives: Mistress Ayn

Interview with Domme Addiction – FemDom Mansion

I was recently interviewed by slaveboysmith of Domme Addiction about the evolution of FemDom Mansion, the luxury BDSM retreat that offers immersive experiences to submissives and sissies that are more than mere “sessions”.

slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling in the presence of the beautiful and alluring Mistress Ayn, and preparing to share the story of the amazing Femdom Mansion she has created along with several other Dommes. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and my only regret is that we aren’t actually in Femdom Mansion for this interview!

Mistress Ayn: Hello slaveboysmith. I wish you were here as well. FemDom Mansion is a special place for sure and I appreciate you giving me the opportunity to share some information about it with your readers.

sbs: It would be my privilege to be kneeling before you in Femdom Mansion asking you all about it beautiful Mistress. Let me begin by asking you to share a little about what exactly Femdom Mansion is, and how it distinguishes itself from the array of other dungeon/playspaces that are out there?

MA: For starters, FemDom Mansion is a venue that accommodates one sub at a time which is extremely unique. People sometimes incorrectly think that our events are open for multiple subs, probably because they see multiple Mistresses in attendance and multiple sub events are the norm, but that is not the case. Each event is designed solely around the submissive that books it. They can choose to serve only one Mistress or many. Their interests drive the activities, so each event is unique and a great deal of planning goes into each one. The Mansion is also a private residence so it has all the luxuries and comforts one would expect from such a property – with one big addition, a 2000 square foot BDSM Dungeon. This gives us the best of both worlds, the luxury of an prestigious home for domestic scenes and access to an exceptionally well equipped Dungeon. I don’t know of any other property that offers both at this high a level.

sbs: It’s almost incomprehensible to think of a space where one might serve multiple Mistresses over the span of time spent there. Obviously you are one of the Dommes that a submissive might serve at Femdom Mansion, but you mention multiple Mistresses. Are there other Mistresses that a submissive might choose from, or do they arrange to book Femdom Mansion with a Mistress they already serve?

MA: As the Proprietress I am responsible for the space and what happens within it, so all events include me, whether I am actually active or not. The website includes a list of local Mistresses that I have worked with for years at Atlanta Dungeon and trust. A sub can choose any of those Mistresses listed to be part of their event. We also have two Switches to make things more interesting. That being said, we recently had Mistress Troy of NYC appear as a guest Mistress for two events at the request of the sub. Again, Mistress Troy is a known and trusted Mistress and we had sessioned together before so I had no qualms including her. I am certainly open to a sub attending with his Mistress but it would need to be someone I knew and trusted. These events are a minimum of 24 hours, costly and elaborate to produce so I want to be sure that we are all a good fit so the experience is one that brings us all joy.

sbs: The more I hear about Femdom Mansion the more it becomes etched onto my “bucket list” as a submissive. I can only imagine the cost of a life-changing experience like this and know that it might not be for everyone. Can you give our readers a sense of the type of tax bracket we’re talking about for the opportunity to experience heaven on earth like this Mistress?

For the answer to this and to read the entire interview, visit Domme Addition.

 

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #21

Installment # 21 – How Can i Please a Woman?

While i do not claim to know the universal answer to this question, i have learned much as Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy.  Unlike what some men still believe, it is clear to me that i cannot please a Woman with my cock.  Thankfully Mistress Ayn took total control on my – now Her – cock and i am in indefinite chastity.  Thus, i needed to learn what other “tools” were available to me to please a Woman, specifically Mistress Ayn.

Mistress Ayn has educated and trained me to understand many things but two stand out for me.  First, i need to submit – completely and without reservation – to Her.  As Her slave i am better attuned to Her desires and better able to follow Her commands.  i am often surprised by what She asks of me but have learned to not question any command or hesitate in being compliant with any order.

Second, i am learning how to be more attentive to Her needs by listening and not talking.  While She may infrequently desire a conversation with me, most often i need to not talk and to listen carefully to what She is telling me to do or how to act.

By honing in on these two elements of my personal slave training, often at the FemDom Mansion, i found that i am pleasing Mistress Ayn and other Mistresses She requires me to serve. For example, Goddess B’s beaming smile as She administers my morning shower on the patio with the garden hose on the jet setting, paying particular attention to my genitals and asshole.  Or, the roar of laughter as i enter the dining room in ridiculous sissy attire to serve the guest Mistresses and Mistress Ayn dinner for the evening.  Or, during the evening festivities, pleasing many Mistresses as They administered my birthday gang bang, with a dozen other Mistresses looking on approvingly.  Or, when i was ordered to perform a burlesque dance routine so that all of the Mistresses in attendance could be amused by my gyrations, evidence by Their cheers, smiles, and catcalls – all caught on video for viewing later and more pleasure for the Mistresses.

i could go on since there are many ways that Mistress Ayn has instructed me to please Her – including the indefinite wearing of Her chastity cage and frilly panties, and Her latest command – a remote controlled vibrating anal plug.  While men may find different ways to please the Women in their lives, i know with confidence that my ability to please Mistress Ayn and other Mistresses is through my obedience and submissive to the Superior Women in my life.

 

Review of an overnight session

Overnight sessions are among My favorite things.  There is no clock or time pressures. The city quietens down and the Dungeon envelops you. In most sessions, even long ones, you have to be concerned with session pacing.   As the top, I don’t want to wear My bottom out prematurely or have the session build too quickly or too slowly and the end is a preset time that has to be honored.  With overnights it’s different.  They usually start with a leisurely dinner, then it’s back to the Dungeon to play – and play and play.  If we get tired, we rest.  If I want to crank it up, I do.  Eventually things naturally wind down and we get a few hours sleep, but it is on My terms, not the clock’s.

Below are some excerpts of a review of a recent overnight session:

“It is absolutely unbelievable to me how quickly the time flew by that night! In what felt like only 2-3 hours of play at the most, nearly 7 hours had gone by! The rest of the world may have continued to buzz by outside the door at its monotonous, tedious pace, but my time inside the dungeon while under the control of Mistress Ayn flashed by in the blink of an eye.

In all honesty, I don’t know that I’ve ever felt more alive than I did that night. I cannot put into words the gamut of emotional, physical and physiological responses that I was experiencing throughout my time with Mistress Ayn. She took me to the edge and back numerous times …. so much so that I had to actually remind myself to breathe on multiple occasions. It was an experience that I will cherish and remember for a lifetime and one that makes me want to get back and see her again as soon as possible. If you’ve ever been on the fence or thought about an overnight session with her, do yourself a favor and make it happen.”

The full review can be read on The Buzz.

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Visiting Dommes and Doubles

 

January sees some real talent coming to Atlanta and I am excited to be offering double Domme sessions with two serious Dominatrices:

Domina Thalia of Chicago – Jan 15th – 17th

Mistress Simone Kross – Jan 22nd – 25th

As always doubles with these Atlanta Dungeon Dommes are also available:

Mistress Ultra Violet

Goddess Samantha

Mistress Harley Quinn

To book, email Me at ayn@mistressayn.com.  A deposit is necessary to book all doubles and an application is required if you have not sessioned with Me previously.

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #20

Installment #20 – About markings – physical and psychological – by slave boy

The dictionary defines “marking” as “the act, process, or an instance of making or giving a mark.”  This rather simplistically defined word takes on a profound, complex, and new meaning in my life, as i am now experiencing “markings” during my submissive and chaste service to Mistress Ayn.

Ironically, many, many months ago and long before i submitted to Mistress Ayn, “no marks” was a hard limit for me when serving any Mistress as Her submissive.  Then, Mistress Ayn asked about this “hard limit” and slowly brought me around to understand that receiving marks was something that pleased Mistress Ayn and can be administered in a safe and sane manner.  Now receiving marks is something i crave as Her personal slave.

A “mark” is a territorial indication that i am Mistress Ayn’s slave.  Sometimes the mark is clearly indicative of that belonging, as when Mistress Ayn leaves Her initial (the mark of an “A”) on my ass during a personal slave training session.  Other times the “mark” is less personal but nonetheless very profound and painful, as when Mistress Ayn flogs or whips my back or thighs, or canes my ass.  These marks do not last more than a few days past the session, as per O/our agreement, but i do find myself checking out the marks later and silently hoping they would last a few days longer.

In addition to the physical markings, the introduction of marks in my submissive life as Mistress Ayn’s slave has another important meaning lasting far beyond their physical presence.  Marking is how Mistress Ayn psychologically exhibits Her control over me and manifests Her possession or ownership of me as Her slave.

i am, as my Twitter name indicates, “Mistress Ayn’s slaveboy.”  That control and ownership is not only shown through physical markings but also psychologically, as She symbolically places Her “mark” on my mind and soul demonstrating Her power over me and in my life.

Markings can be a way of experiencing Mistress Ayn’s infliction of pain, Her physical control over me, and Her psychological ownership of me as Her slaveboy.  What was once inconceivable during a session with a Mistress, and thus a “hard limit,” markings are now a frequently desired occurrence in service to Mistress Ayn.  Receiving Her mark is something i am hoping for every time as i anticipate my next opportunity to serve Mistress Ayn as Her personal slaveboy.

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