Monthly Archives: April 2019

Doubles with Mistress Kiva of Denver

Monday, 08 April 2019 00:40
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Denver’s Dark Muse, Mistress Kiva returns to Atlanta Dungeon April 10th – 14th and is available for solo or double Domme sessions.  Practicing the art of BDSM/FemDom since 1997, Mistress Kiva brings a wealth of experience and talent to any scene.  Do you dare to delve the darkness of your desires and fantasies with both of Us?  If so, now is your chance.

Our mutual interests include:

  • Corporal Punishment
  • Trampling
  • Face Sitting
  • Tickling
  • Torture
  • Sounds
  • Severe Torture
  • Sissification
  • Role Play
  • Golden Showers
  • Dildo Training
  • Electrical Play    
  • Cock and ball torture
  • Nipple torture
  • Bondage
  • Psychological Domination
  • Body Worship
  • Foot Worship/Domination
  • D/S Power Play
  • Puppy Play
  • Verbal Humiliation
  • Public Humiliation
  • Mummification
  • Sensation Play

To schedule, send an email to inquire about availability to either ayn@mistressayn.com or mistresskiva@gmail.com.  An application and a deposit will be required to book.  Availability is limited so act promptly for consideration.

Mistress Kiva’s links:

Website – https://www.mistresskiva.net 

Twitter – https://twitter.com/KivaMistress

Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #8

Saturday, 06 April 2019 10:31
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Installment #8 – When “playing” with chastity became a “lifestyle” of chastity. – by slaveboy

Many men and some couples “play” with chastity.  As a male, it was a fun way to fantasize that a Dominant Woman was in control of my cock and restricting me from getting an erection or orgasming.  i would put on the cage for a few minutes, an hour, or even a day, but then remove it when i wanted and revert to my familiar masturbation practices.

Couples often use chastity as a way to spice up their sex life, with the female taking control and the male submissive.  It is a fun way to spend a day together, or a weekend, or for the dominant partner to threaten longer chastity sentences.

Yet, at some point my “playing” with chastity became living a chastity “lifestyle.”  Once Mistress Ayn became my Keyholder and took over control of Her cock with Her chastity cage, my world was turned upside down, but in a good way.

Now i am permitted release from Her chastity cage for a few minutes, or an hour, or rarely a full day.  i never know when this permission will be granted.  Then, it is back to normal for me – back in Her cage, often without an orgasm and very rarely after a real orgasm.

i am unsure when this transformation actually occurred.  When did i realize that W/we were not “playing” with chastity but it was now a lifestyle?  Each month i pay my keyholder fee, as a tribute for the attention that Mistress Ayn gives me as Her chaste slave.  Each month there is no discussion of ending this relationship, nor do i intend to bring up.  W/we do not have a set ending – not after a month, or six months, or a year.  She does not refer to my chastity as permanent chastity but prefers indefinite chastity.

Indefinite, as in a lifestyle, suits me just fine.  It brings me closer to my desire for a female-led relationship, a life where i do not control my cock, and a re-orientation of my attitude toward pleasing a Woman, my Mistress, rather than satisfying my selfish carnal desires.  This seems to work for me right now in my life, even though i am not fully aware of when this transformation actually occurred.

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