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Putting the Professional in Pro Dom

Often when subs talk about sessions or review them, it’s all about the activities, the Dommes appearance, the session space and so forth.  All of these things are important but what about what comes first and lies beneath the surface?  Professionalism.

Recently a submissive took the time to post a review that wasn’t a review of a particular session but of his experience with Me as a professional.  Like him, I believe when a Domme puts the label “Pro” in front of her title it should mean something.  It should mean that a sub’s time is just as important as Ours.  It should mean that respect goes both ways.  It should mean that discretion, cleanliness and safety are expectations that should not need to be worried about – after all, you are dealing with a professional.

This sub goes above and beyond to sing My praises and let readers know how professionalism in Pro Domination should work.  Frankly, it’s one of the most important reviews I have ever gotten and I am very appreciative of his efforts.

The review can be read on The Buzz.  For your convenience, it is posted in its entirety below:

So.. this isn’t a session review. You can see review after review of Mistress Ayn and how amazing She is in session and I am more than willing to attest to how true that is. Instead, this is actually something that is just as important but is rarely discussed in the reviews on this board and that is how amazing Mistress Ayn is as a Professional in this field.

If you know my name or have seen my posts you probably know I have been pretty prolific with my sessioning over the last few years. Therefore, I have dealt with many, many different Pro Dommes. Each Woman is unique, with their own set of rules and methods for dealing with clients and Mistress Ayn is no different in that respect . . .

However, by far, the single most professional and considerate Domme I have ever sessioned with is Mistress Ayn and IMO, She deserves to be called out, praised and known for this fact. Don’t get me wrong, She has Her pain in the butt rules like requiring you to fill out the form on her website before She will consider you as a client. However, She is also willing to give you the logical explanation of exactly why She requires that  . . .

Once accepted, setting up the session itself has always been smooth and easy with the expectations for confirmation calls and pre-session instructions communicated very well. She responds to emails in a timely manner and is perfectly willing to talk on the phone if I ever feel I need to ask/explain something interactively rather than just through text. At the session, She has simple and clear procedures that make you feel your clothes, wallet and other stuff is safe. It is clear that Her equipment is always clean and sanitized and She always separates what She has used during a session from what She hasn’t.

As praiseworthy as all of that is, all of those things are what most Pro Dommes do and other than the incredibly personable way that goes about all of the business surrounding a session, it is pretty standard for those who are truly great in this field. But, even beyond that She loves everything about what She does and She loves to be able to be creative and truly personalize the experience while insuring Her own enjoyment. Again, this is similar to most great Pro Dommes.

So, since these are things that a lot of great Pros do, you may ask what has driven me to write this today? It is that I wrote and asked Her for a reference for another Domme that She knows and who is planning a visit to Detroit. However, instead of just saying “Sure Asp, you can use me as a reference” or “Yes, tell Her contact Me in this way”, Mistress Ayn did something so simple yet so insanely professional that it just blew me away.

Instead, She offered to and then reached out to the Domme and vouched for me in order to make it easier on both myself and the other Domme. Its the kind of little thing that you see in great customer service organizations and yet almost never in this world. Not just to say yes to a request but to see how with just an extremely small effort She could make things easier for everyone involved.

It would be incredibly professional for a lawyer or a doctor or an accountant to do something along those lines with a colleague. Yet in this new world where the “Pro” in Pro Domme tends to stand for “Fuck You Pay Me beta boy” rather than actually being Professional in how a Domme interacts with clients outside of the service itself, it was just an awesome thing to experience. The thing is She probably considers it to be no big deal and just what everyone should do to help a good client connect with a Domme colleague, and that attitude is really why Mistress Ayn really puts the Professional in Pro Domme.

Well… I am here to say it is a very big deal to me. Oh, and as for when you are lucky enough to be within Her control, She is just as amazingly Pro at all of that as well (including the butt stuff).

Asp

Doubles all week with Goddess Samantha

The week of August 20th brings something unique: both Goddess Samantha and I will both be in town and conducting sessions at Atlanta Dungeon. We decided to celebrate and you are the one that gets the present. We are offering doubles for the tribute of $400 per hour. If you have ever sessioned with Us before you know what great chemistry we have. If not, check out some of our videos together to see what you might have in store . . .

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Double sessions are available daily from 2pm-8pm all week.  An application and a deposit are required to book.

 

 

She’s baaaack! Simone Kross Returns.

She’s baaaack!  Simone Kross returns to Atlanta Dungeon August 15th – 18th.  We had an awesome time doing doubles on Her last visit and hope to have fun on this and other upcoming visits.  I will be busy with a FemDom Mansion event the 15th and 16th (Simone is joining Me for some of that excitement as well) so I will only be available for doubles on Friday, August 17th.  This is a ONE DAY ONLY opportunity, so book now.

Doubles are available at a tribute of $400 per hour. Simone’s solo tribute is $300 per hour, so this is an excellent value.  Note that Mistress Simone is available for solo bookings August 15th – 18th  and can be booked by contacting her direct at – mistresssimonekross@gmail.com. For more information about Simone Kross visit her website: MistressSimoneKross.com.

An application and a deposit are required to book.

Why I don’t do same day sessions.

Do you do same day sessions?

The short answer is “no”. Occasionally I will take a last minute request from a sub that I have sessioned with in the past, but I have to be familiar with his interests and it must fit within My schedule that day.

There are two main reasons I don’t accept same day session requests:

1. Subs that request last minute sessions tend to be the worst sort of clients. Many subs will ask for sessions on short notice because they know the Domme won’t have time to properly vet them. This is an old trick that those of Us that have been around for a while are wise to. Clients making last minute requests are also the ones that most frequently “no show”, show up late, have poor etiquette, etc.  In general, I prefer to session with a client that is not impetuous about sessioning, but instead plans for it and anticipates it.

2.  I like to mull over a session in My mind for a while.  It’s part of the process that I enjoy about sessioning.  It’s also one of the reasons I think I am very good at what I do.  I don’t just show up and go through a checklist of your interests.  My sessions are crafted to fit your interests and My current mood.  A last minute/same day session deprives Me of that.

Lastly is My schedule:  As a Dominant, I tend to want to be in control of everything in My life.  (That should not be a surprise.)  That includes My schedule.  When I retire for the evening, I like to have a clear idea of what the following day will bring.  A request for a same day session puts a kink in My plans, which is another reason I seldom grant them – even to subs that are known to Me.  I think it is a common misconception that a Dominatrix rolls out of bed, puts on Her boots and then sits around waiting for clients.  That may be true in a “house” like Pandora’s Box or similar establishments where Ladies work a shift, but that is not the case with independent Dommes like Me and most of the other Mistresses in the industry.

In short, I would prefer to pass up a session that doesn’t give Me adequate time to plan the session and vet the client.

FemDom Mansion – A foot slave’s story

A long term foot fetishist shared a fantasy that he was anxious to make happen.  His dream was to be used as a foot cleaner by dominant Women for an extended period of time.  We listened, We liked and We made it happen.

When the sub arrived he was stripped of all clothing, fitted with a chastity device and informed of his new duties.  He was to be kept chained near the door and his services would be required when any Lady with dirty feet entered the Mansion.  But first, his slave contract had to be negotiated and he had to be trained.

He started by learning on My feet.  I had taken a walk in the garden and My feet were quite dirty and in great need of cleaning.  I directed him in exactly how to lick the soles and suck the toes clean.  Once he thought he had done a thorough job with his mouth he was required to wash and dry them with fluffy white towels.  If one bit of dirt transfered to the towel, he was in trouble and would have to be punished.

And so it began . . . a parade of lovely, strong Women – all with the filthiest feet.  Between foot cleanings Our foot boy poured Us champagne, served Us dinner, made himself into a foot rest, provided foot massages and plenty of worship. To reinforce his training he listened to foot cleaning hypno music while being subjected to the Venus 2000.

Upon successful completion of his foot slave training he was rewarded properly, presented with his certificate and sent back out into the real world 24 hours later as a much better foot slave and an excellent foot cleaner.

To view a collection of curated Tweets with photos during this event, click here – FemDom Mansion’s Twitter Moment for a foot slave.

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