{"id":1677,"date":"2019-04-06T10:31:35","date_gmt":"2019-04-06T14:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=1677"},"modified":"2019-03-26T10:41:02","modified_gmt":"2019-03-26T14:41:02","slug":"chronicles-of-a-chastity-slave-installment-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/chronicles-of-a-chastity-slave-installment-8\/","title":{"rendered":"Trials and tribulations of a chastity slave &#8211; Installment #8"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1678\" src=\"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/th.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"236\" hspace=\"20\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/th.jpg 375w, https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/th-300x189.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/>Installment #8 &#8211; When \u201cplaying\u201d with chastity became a \u201clifestyle\u201d of chastity. &#8211; by slaveboy<\/p>\n<p>Many men and some couples \u201cplay\u201d with chastity.\u00a0 As a male, it was a fun way to fantasize that a Dominant Woman was in control of my cock and restricting me from getting an erection or orgasming.\u00a0 i would put on the cage for a few minutes, an hour, or even a day, but then remove it when i wanted and revert to my familiar masturbation practices.<\/p>\n<p>Couples often use chastity as a way to spice up their sex life, with the female taking control and the male submissive.\u00a0 It is a fun way to spend a day together, or a weekend, or for the dominant partner to threaten longer chastity sentences.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, at some point my \u201cplaying\u201d with chastity became living a chastity \u201clifestyle.\u201d\u00a0 Once Mistress Ayn became my Keyholder and took over control of Her cock with Her chastity cage, my world was turned upside down, but in a good way.<\/p>\n<p>Now i am permitted release from Her chastity cage for a few minutes, or an hour, or rarely a full day.\u00a0 i never know when this permission will be granted.\u00a0 Then, it is back to normal for me \u2013 back in Her cage, often without an orgasm and very rarely after a real orgasm.<\/p>\n<p>i am unsure when this transformation actually occurred.\u00a0 When did i realize that W\/we were not \u201cplaying\u201d with chastity but it was now a lifestyle?\u00a0 Each month i pay my keyholder fee, as a tribute for the attention that Mistress Ayn gives me as Her chaste slave.\u00a0 Each month there is no discussion of ending this relationship, nor do i intend to bring up.\u00a0 W\/we do not have a set ending \u2013 not after a month, or six months, or a year.\u00a0 She does not refer to my chastity as permanent chastity but prefers indefinite chastity.<\/p>\n<p>Indefinite, as in a lifestyle, suits me just fine.\u00a0 It brings me closer to my desire for a female-led relationship, a life where i do not control my cock, and a re-orientation of my attitude toward pleasing a Woman, my Mistress, rather than satisfying my selfish carnal desires.\u00a0 This seems to work for me right now in my life, even though i am not fully aware of when this transformation actually occurred.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Installment #8 &#8211; 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